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Daily Mail
8 hours ago
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- Daily Mail
Sammy Winward's daughter Mia Dunn tearfully claims she was 'emotionally neglected' by her mother and saw her 'for 10 minutes a day' - after being 'cut off' by her parents for joining OnlyFans
Sammy Winward's daughter Mia Dunn has made the bombshell claim she was 'emotionally neglected' by her mother, after being 'cut off' by her parents for pursuing a career on OnlyFans. The model, 19, joined the adult content site last year, angering both her mother and father, former Blackburn Rovers footballer David Dunn. And in a new interview with The Sun, Mia has claimed that during her childhood she felt 'lonely and controlled' and would sometimes only see her mother Sammy for '10 minutes a day' due to her filming schedule on Emmerdale. Breaking down in tears, she said: 'I was raised by a 19-year-old soap star... I may have been spoiled materially, but I was definitely neglected emotionally. 'I often felt lonely, picked on and controlled - about what I wore, what I said in public and most of all unsupported. 'At times her choices - like boyfriends - left me feeling scared and sometimes it felt like too much pressure was placed on my shoulders.' Mia said she and her parents are no longer on speaking terms after she launched her career on adult site OnlyFans, but she views her mother's reaction as hypocritical given she herself posed for lads magazines during her soap heyday. She said: 'I just think how, how can you not be accepting? You were younger than me when you stripped off sand now you've completely blocked me out of your life.' During the interview, Mia shared that due to her mother's absence, she was predominantly raised by her grandmother. She added that her parents split when she was young, and she met many of Sammy's later partners, noting one would 'yell at her' when she was just four years old. Mia went onto reveal that when she turned 16 she had enough of being 'controlled' by her mother, and so decided to move in with her dad, despite being estranged from him for many years. However, their relationship changed when she joined OnlyFans, and she claimed her father called her a 'w***e' and slammed the phone down on her when she attempted to reconnect with him. MailOnline has contacted a representative for Sammy Winward for comment. Last month, Mia revealed that she has now fled the UK, and has bought her first house in Mexico using the thousands she's earned on OnlyFans. In line with her usual X-rated posts, she shared a video of her twerking, showing off her bottom in a pair of skintight leggings and a skimpy bandeau. Smirking at the camera, across the clip she wrote: 'How I feel after 350,000 men payed [sic] for my house in a whole different country. Despite hailing from Bolton, Mia now spends most of her time in Toronto, Canada and Tulum, Mexico where she makes X-rated content for a living. And in March she revealed the staggering amount of cash she had made so far, as she celebrated one year on the platform. She took Instagram to boast that she'd raked in a jaw-dropping $420,000 (£322,725) in her first year, alongside a daring bikini-clad snap and slew of explicit videos. She captioned her post: 'One month and it'll be a whole year with you guys so unbelievably grateful for everyone who supported me watch out for a surprise on [OnlyFans] keep an eye out x'. However, her success has come at a cost, with Mia no longer on speaking terms with her famous family due to her controversial career choice. She recently claimed the family feud has reached a new low, claiming her dad David, called her a 'w***e' and slammed the phone down on her. She told The Sun: 'I tried to reconnect with my dad and he called me a w***e on the phone. I'm completely fully cut off and they want any sort of contact, which is really big shame because I thought I'd be the bigger person in the whole situation. 'I think it's crazy to have such anger towards me when I am in fact at the end of the day their daughter. 'I do totally get the fact that they don't love what I do, but at the same time, I am, I'm a human being and especially - I am the human being that came out of my mother.' Mia has also claimed that her mother is envious of her hugely successful career, after the pair previously shared a close bond - appearing on Loose Women together in 2021, and being described as like sisters. Mia, who goes by the name of Mia Kate Rose, told the publication: 'I think the main thing with my mum is that she was really young – 18 – when she had me. 'I think she's got some animosity towards me. I think she is maybe just jealous about me doing so well and so quickly. 'I think that's what my parents' issue is really. They think I've done it off their backs, but actually, behind the scenes, it takes a lot more work than just being their daughter.' Mia previously said that Sammy has prevented her from getting in touch and that other relatives have called and texted her with abusive messages when she tried to contact them. Speaking in August, she said: 'My mum has me blocked on everything. So yeah, she didn't contact me whatsoever. 'A few other family members have contacted me but I made the decision to let them cool off slightly because the messages they were sending weren't lovely.' The mother and daughter were thought to have been close, previously describing their relationship as being like 'best mates', but Mia admitted that was untrue and in fact they sometimes 'butted heads' due to their similarities. She said: 'I've honestly not got anything bad to say about any of them per se, but the way they've reacted to the situation personally, it just wouldn't even cross my mind to do that to my own child, I think.' While she remained hopeful at the time that she and Sammy could patch things up, Mia explained that she would be taking a step back until everyone had cooled off and said it would be down to her family to be the ones to reach out to make amends. She said: 'I feel like at this point it is going to have to be them coming to me because I've tried to maintain contact in the past and they just don't have any of it and then I end up getting like, all the abuse like through the phone, through text messages, calls. 'So I'm just going to wait until they come to me, maybe like in a calmer manner and you know, they're a little bit less fresh to the whole situation.'
Yahoo
a day ago
- Health
- Yahoo
Why Women Who Appear 'Strong' Often Feel Emotionally Neglected
You've got it all handled, right? From juggling work deadlines to managing social engagements, your life looks picture-perfect from the outside. But beneath that polished exterior, the weight of emotional neglect can quietly press down on you. Here's a deeper dive into why being perceived as "strong" can sometimes lead to feeling unseen and unheard. You've mastered the art of doing it all. People look to you as the ultimate symbol of independence, but this perception can be deceivingly isolating. Independence, while empowering, often prevents others from seeing the full spectrum of your emotional needs. In her research, psychologist Bella DePaulo found that society often equates independence with self-sufficiency, ignoring the nuanced needs for emotional support. The irony is that your self-reliance can become a double-edged sword. While you're busy managing everything on your own, others assume you need nothing from them. This assumption can deepen the void where connection should be, leaving your emotional needs unaddressed. The reality is, everyone needs someone, even those who seem to have it all together. In a world that celebrates strength, admitting vulnerability feels like a radical act. "I'm fine" becomes your go-to response, a shield against probing questions. Those two words, while convenient, can strip away authentic connections. People believe your facade, rarely digging deeper, and you are left carrying burdens that aren't meant to be shouldered alone. This habit of minimizing your struggles teaches people that you don't need help. Over time, it conditions them not to ask, further entrenching the cycle of emotional neglect. It's a paradox where the more you demonstrate strength, the less likely others are to offer support. Being 'fine' becomes a lonely space where genuine needs are left unmet. Strong women often find themselves trapped under constant performance pressure. You are expected to excel at everything—career, relationships, personal goals—without missing a beat. This relentless expectation can be emotionally exhausting, leaving little room for self-care or genuine expression. According to Dr. Brené Brown, the pursuit of perfection is often rooted in the fear of being unworthy, yet it disconnects you from authentic relationships. When performance becomes your identity, you end up neglecting the softer parts of yourself. Those parts that crave empathy and understanding get pushed aside. Others may see only your accomplishments, failing to glimpse the person behind the achievements. This creates a cycle where emotional needs are buried under the weight of expectations. In the curated world of social media, strength is often glamorized. You post the highlights—career wins, social outings, perfectly filtered snapshots of life. This creates an illusion of perpetual success and contentment. What isn't shown are the moments of doubt, loneliness, or yearning for deeper connection. Your online persona can inadvertently signal to others that you have it all figured out. This can discourage them from reaching out or offering support, assuming you don't need it. The truth behind the screen is that you're just as human as anyone else, with a complex tapestry of emotions. The digital facade can deepen feelings of isolation, as the world sees an edited version of your reality. Beneath your strength lies a multitude of sacrifices that often go unnoticed. You've given up moments of vulnerability to maintain the image of having it all together. These sacrifices, while seemingly small, accumulate over time, leaving little room for emotional fulfillment. A study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships highlights how women often deprioritize their own needs for the sake of others. Every sacrifice made in silence chips away at your emotional well-being. The unseen efforts you invest in maintaining relationships or careers are rarely acknowledged. This lack of recognition can feel like an emotional void, leaving you questioning if your efforts are truly valued. Emotional neglect isn't always overt; sometimes, it's the subtle lack of validation that stings the most. True strength is often misunderstood, equated with an absence of emotional needs. This misconception can lead others to dismiss your feelings, assuming you can handle anything. It places you on a pedestal that's isolating rather than empowering. The strength you project becomes a barrier, preventing genuine connections. Others may unintentionally distance themselves, believing you don't require support. This misunderstanding can leave you feeling unseen, as your emotional landscape goes unrecognized. There's a quiet loneliness in being the one who always 'has it together.' Beneath the surface, you long for acknowledgment of your complex emotional life. You might hesitate to express your emotional needs, fearing you'll be seen as a burden. This fear is rooted in societal expectations that praise resilience over vulnerability. Clinical psychologist Dr. Tanya Byron explains that the fear of burdening others often silences those who long for connection. The irony is that vulnerability enhances relationships, yet the fear of rejection keeps you silent. This fear creates a cycle where your needs remain unspoken and unmet. You internalize the belief that your struggles are yours alone to bear. Over time, this isolation reinforces feelings of emotional neglect. Breaking the cycle requires courage to voice needs and a willingness to risk vulnerability in pursuit of genuine connection. The mask of strength is a familiar one for you, worn to protect and to project. But behind it lies an emotional landscape yearning for acknowledgment. The mask might shield you from judgment, yet it also prevents others from seeing your full humanity. It's a delicate balance between protecting yourself and wanting to be truly seen. When you constantly wear this mask, you deny yourself the depth of genuine connections. Your emotional world becomes a hidden realm, inaccessible to those who might offer support. While the mask provides temporary protection, it can lead to long-term loneliness. True strength lies in daring to remove the mask and risking vulnerability. Resilience is often mistaken for invulnerability, a misconception that can be both exhausting and isolating. People see your ability to bounce back and assume you're impervious to emotional wounds. This perception overlooks the fact that resilience is not an endless resource. Even the strongest need space to process emotions and heal. The expectation of constant resilience can prevent others from offering support. They assume you're always okay, leading to a lack of emotional outreach. This can leave you feeling isolated, with your emotional needs consistently unmet. True resilience is not about never needing help; it's about knowing when to seek it. Being seen as strong often comes with the heavy burden of expectations. You're expected to be the rock, the one others lean on, never faltering. This role can be exhausting, leaving little room for your own emotional needs. The pressure to maintain this persona can lead to an internalized sense of neglect. Living up to these expectations means denying yourself the grace to falter. It's a cycle where your needs are perpetually sidelined for the sake of maintaining appearances. Others may not realize the toll these expectations take on your emotional well-being. Behind the strong exterior, you may feel like you're constantly treading water, longing for relief. Sometimes, the strongest cries for help are the quietest. You may not verbalize your needs, but the signs are there—subtle shifts in mood, withdrawn behavior, or silent struggles. These signals often go unnoticed by those around you, perpetuating the cycle of emotional neglect. The strength you project can overshadow the silent cries for support. This silence can become a heavy burden, as your unvoiced needs remain unaddressed. The paradox is that those who appear the strongest often need the most support. Recognizing and addressing these silent cries requires empathy and attention from those around you. It's a reminder that even the strongest need someone to lean on. The myth of having it all together is a relentless one. It's the image you project, yet it rarely reflects the complexities of your emotional world. This myth can prevent others from offering support, assuming you have no unmet needs. The truth is, the facade of perfection often hides a very human need for connection and understanding. Maintaining this myth can feel like a balancing act, where one misstep risks revealing the truth. It's an isolating experience, as others remain unaware of your emotional struggles. The myth becomes a barrier, preventing authentic connections and perpetuating emotional neglect. Breaking free requires vulnerability and a willingness to share your true self. In the pursuit of strength, validation often becomes a double-edged sword. You seek external affirmation of your capabilities, yet it can feel hollow if not accompanied by emotional support. The validation you crave isn't just about achievements; it's about being seen for who you truly are. Without this recognition, emotional neglect can quietly fester. This quest for validation often leads to a cycle of overachievement, where your emotional needs remain overshadowed by accomplishments. It's a paradox where the more you achieve, the less validated you feel on a personal level. Emotional neglect thrives in the absence of genuine recognition and understanding. Seeking validation is not about ego; it's about wanting to be seen and valued for your full self.
