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Daily Mail
3 days ago
- Business
- Daily Mail
Pandas, tennis and a tour of the Great Wall: Anthony Albanese hits back at claims his China trip was 'indulgent'
Anthony Albanese has hit back at the Coalition over claims of 'indulgence' during his China trip, saying his rivals don't understand the importance of respect in diplomacy. The prime minister's itinerary has included retracing the steps of Gough Whitlam on the Great Wall of China, attending a tennis tournament and visiting a panda research centre in the southwestern city of Chengdu. Back home, the optics of visiting popular tourist sites attracted sniping from the Opposition. Coalition frontbencher James Paterson suggested the prime minister was enjoying himself too much. 'I do wonder whether a Gough Whitlam history tour on the Great Wall of China, whether a visit to Chengdu to pose with some pandas, and whether a hit of tennis is strictly necessary as part of a six-day visit to China, when there is so much else at stake in our other international relationships around the world,' he told Sky News on Thursday. 'And frankly, I have to say that some of this is starting to look a little bit indulgent.' Mr Albanese has himself been eager to draw links between his tour and those of former Labor prime ministers Whitlam and Bob Hawke, who also visited the giant pandas in 1986. What those and his visits achieved was building respect between Australia and China, which would in turn result in better economic and diplomatic outcomes, the PM said. 'Those pictures go to 27 million people, potentially, in Australia. They go to over a billion people in China,' Mr Albanese told reporters in Chengdu. 'And those billion people represent people who are increasingly rising up the income ladder and are potential tourists and therefore job creators in Australia. 'If James Patterson doesn't understand that, then he doesn't understand much. 'The Great Wall of China symbolises the extraordinary history and culture here in China, and showing a bit of respect to people never cost anything. You know what it does, it gives you a reward.' Mr Albanese's trip has been shorter on concrete outcomes than in previous years, when his resumption of dialogue with China saw $20 billion worth of Chinese trade sanctions lifted from Australian exports. But the welcome has been warmer and coverage from Chinese state media more effusive than at any time since before the breakdown in Sino-Australian relations in 2020. A few agreements to boost trade and tourism links have been reached. But the increased dialogue and co-operation in areas from green steel to medical technology were part of a gradual improvement in relations that would advance Australia's national interests, Mr Albanese said. 'You don't go from a position of where we were into absolute agreement on everything. That's not the goal.' Despite the improving mood, China and Australia still have many issues they disagree on. In meetings with Chinese President Xi Jinping and Premier Li Qiang, Mr Albanese raised concerns over China not providing advance notice of naval live-fire drills off Australia that forced commercial flights to divert. Meanwhile, Mr Li has voiced his dismay over Australia's stringent restrictions on foreign investment from China, imploring the Australian government not to treat Chinese firms unfairly. 'We have different political systems, but it has been constructive and has been an important step in the developing of our relationship,' Mr Albanese said.


Daily Mail
6 days ago
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
Matthew McConaughey is praised for standing up and applauding Princess at Wimbledon
has been praised by many as a 'lovely southern gentleman' after his touching tribute to the Prince and Princess of Wales. In footage shared on X of Kate and William's arrival into the box Matthew was seen standing up for the royals as they made their way to their seats, in a sign of respect. The American actor, 55, was among the celebrities who watched on as Jannik Sinner beat Carlos Alcaraz to the Wimbledon title in the star-studded royal box on Sunday. Matthew's gesture went down well with Wimbledon fans, with one sharing the clip and writing: 'Matthew McConaughey standing to applaud the Prince & Princess of Wales. What a lovely southern gentleman.' The Etiquette School Of New York states that only British people are required to curtsy and bow to royalty, yet Americans are not required to do so. Responding to the message, a host of other fans praised his respect, writing: 'McConaughey surely respects everyone he encounters.' 'Real class... Beautiful family and prayers for princess Kate to stay healthy after all she's been through. She's so beautiful.' 'Don't forget perfectly dress for the occasion... He's a gentleman... Matthew was raised right. Always something I have always admired.' Good times: The American actor was among the celebrities who watched in the star-studded royal box on Sunday Matthew was joined by his wife Camila Alves, as he was spotted happily greeting fellow spectators in the Royal Box, including Andre Agassi. Matthew was seated next to Paul Mescal and Andrew Scott for the games and was pictured greeting those around him on his arrival. Matthew and his wife were also seen at the Women's Singles Final at Centre Court on Saturday.


Free Malaysia Today
6 days ago
- Politics
- Free Malaysia Today
Look to Sarawak for lessons on unity, says state minister
Abdul Karim Rahman Hamzah said Sarawak has long practised harmony and respect among its diverse communities. (Bernama pic) KUCHING : Political leaders must stop fuelling racial and religious extremism and instead emulate Sarawak's model of unity, says Abdul Karim Rahman Hamzah, a state minister and information chief of Parti Pesaka Bumiputera Bersatu. He said Malaysia must do more to bridge the gap between ethnic and religious communities, with past, present and future leaders bearing the responsibility to ensure that no form of racial and religious extremism exists. 'They must show a good example. If leaders start using race and religion, that is (how the) rot (starts),' he said in an interview with FMT. Citing Sarawak as an example of moderation, Karim said the state has long practised harmony and respect among its diverse communities. 'You don't have this problem here. You can go to a kopitiam selling mee jawa, curry or even pork. It's not a problem,' said Karim, who is state minister for tourism, creative industry and performing arts. 'That doesn't make us less Muslim. Our mosques are full. During Hari Raya, we still wear our baju raya,' he said. Karim said Sarawak also promotes unity from an early age, through youth and school-based programmes that bring together pupils from different education streams. 'During school programmes, I insist participants come from all schools – Islamic schools, missionary schools, government schools and Chinese schools – to mix together,' he said. Christians and Muslims in same family Karim said the state's unique demographic pattern helps foster deeper interfaith ties, with some longhouses having the kalimah (name of Allah) on one side and a cross on the other. 'In the longhouses, you will find Muslims and Christians living together in the same family,' he said. Karim said the Sarawak government also ensures inclusivity is reflected in its institutions, and that he personally ensures appointments at his ministry are racially balanced. He added that unlike Peninsula Malaysia, where there is a federal Islamic department, Sarawak has also established a Unit for Other Religions to provide fair support to non-Muslim communities. 'Through this, more than RM100 million has been channelled to assist chapels, churches and temples,' he said.
Yahoo
08-07-2025
- General
- Yahoo
People Who Are Impossible To Manipulate Share 15 Strong Traits
Manipulation only works on people who can be controlled, influenced, or made to doubt themselves. But some people? They're like human lie detectors with a backbone of steel. They don't fall for guilt trips, peer pressure, or emotional games. They see right through the nonsense and refuse to play along. If someone's trying to pull their strings, they're not just cutting them—they're setting them on fire. These are the traits that make someone impossible to manipulate. People who can't be manipulated set a firm expectation from the start: respect is non-negotiable. Whether it's in friendships, family dynamics, or romantic relationships, they won't tolerate being talked down to, dismissed, or treated like a doormat. The second someone crosses a line, they call it out, and if necessary, they walk away without looking back. The American Psychological Association reports that "healthy relationships are built on a foundation of mutual respect." You won't find them explaining over and over why they deserve to be treated with basic decency—they expect it and enforce it. Manipulators thrive on exploiting people who second-guess their worth. But if you demand respect, you shut down that game before it even starts. You don't beg for someone to treat you properly, and you certainly don't tolerate disrespect disguised as jokes, sarcasm, or passive aggression. People who know their value don't stick around hoping for crumbs—they raise the bar and let others rise to meet it or step aside. Your unapologetic standards don't just protect you—they set the tone for how everyone around you must behave. Manipulators target uncertainty like sharks to blood in the water. People still finding their identity are easier to mold, guilt-trip, or gaslight. But if you've done the inner work and know exactly who you are, their tricks fall flat. You don't need external approval to validate your choices, and you certainly won't compromise your values to make someone else comfortable. As Psychology Today notes, 'a strong sense of self is crucial for maintaining psychological well-being and resisting external pressures.' Your self-trust makes you immune to subtle manipulation tactics like flattery, love bombing, or emotional guilt. You don't change your behavior just to avoid discomfort or appease others—you act in alignment with your integrity. People who try to twist your reality hit a wall because you've already built one made of self-awareness, clarity, and confidence. You're not confused about who you are or what you stand for—and that makes you one of the hardest people to deceive. Manipulators want confusion, not conviction, and you give them none of it. One of the most common manipulation tools is pressure disguised as duty. People will use phrases like 'If you really cared…' or 'You owe me…' to guilt you into compliance. But if you're someone who trusts your own judgment and owns your time, these tactics fall flat. You don't confuse being kind with being obligated. As the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology explains, excessive obligation often leads to burnout and resentment—not true connection. You're not afraid to say 'no' without a paragraph of excuses or apologies. You make decisions based on your own needs and values, not someone else's expectations. That alone makes you a challenge for anyone trying to control you through shame or emotional blackmail. People know not to come to you with manipulative requests, because they'll be met with firm boundaries and no drama. Your independence is not just your strength—it's your shield. Peer pressure doesn't just happen in middle school—it shows up in boardrooms, group chats, and family dinners. But you've never been the type to go along just to get along. You think critically, question groupthink, and trust your own voice even if it goes against the tide. You don't need everyone in the room to agree with you to feel secure. Stanford's Social Influence Lab confirms that people with strong personal values are far less likely to fold under social pressure. This independence makes you a nightmare for manipulators who count on herd behavior to advance their agendas. When they see you can't be shamed, excluded, or pressured into conforming, they lose their influence. You don't buckle when the majority disagrees—you get more curious and stand firmer. Being different doesn't scare you—it motivates you to stay authentic. You know fitting in is overrated when your integrity is on the line. There's a quiet strength in listening to your gut, even when everyone around you says you're wrong. You don't need a spreadsheet of evidence to know when something feels off. Your intuition is a finely tuned radar, and you've learned to trust it above smooth talk, fake smiles, or half-baked apologies. Manipulators rely on doubt to sneak past your defenses, but you've shut that door permanently. You've seen too much to ignore your instincts now. Even when it's inconvenient or unpopular, you follow your gut over logic or persuasion. This throws off manipulators, who expect hesitation or people-pleasing to make their jobs easier. But you cut through confusion like a scalpel and say 'no' without hesitation. You don't need a reason everyone else understands—you only need to feel it's wrong. And once your gut speaks, you listen, act, and never look back. Guilt is a favorite weapon in a manipulator's arsenal because it's subtle, emotional, and deeply personal. They count on you to feel bad enough to cave—whether it's through passive-aggressive comments, martyr-like behavior, or dramatic overstatements. You've heard it all before: 'I guess I'll just suffer' or 'I thought you were different.' But you've trained yourself to pause, reflect, and separate your feelings from someone else's performance. You recognize when someone's trying to make you responsible for their discomfort, and you choose not to absorb it. Instead of reacting emotionally, you evaluate what's fair and what's being manipulated. You know the difference between holding space for someone's pain and being dragged into emotional quicksand. Just because someone's upset doesn't mean you've done something wrong. You don't apologize for protecting your peace, and you never sacrifice your well-being to appease someone else's ego. Guilt only works when you let it—so you don't. Some people weaponize vulnerability, spinning endless tales of misfortune to extract sympathy, favors, or control. You've developed a sharp instinct for filtering out real pain from performative victimhood. Everyone struggles—but not everyone turns those struggles into a manipulation tactic. You've seen how sob stories can be used to dodge responsibility, excuse toxic behavior, or trap you in cycles of guilt and rescue. And you no longer fall for the theatrics or emotional bait. While you're compassionate, you've learned that empathy without discernment leads to burnout and regret. You listen, but you don't jump in blindly. You ask questions, observe patterns, and wait to see if someone takes any accountability before you offer support. When it's all drama and no effort, you disengage. Manipulators can't stand that they can't hook you with a tear-streaked story anymore. People who are impossible to manipulate often have a long history of calling out injustice, even when it's uncomfortable. You've stood up to bosses, friends, relatives—anyone who tried to use intimidation, fear, or manipulation as a power play. Bullies operate in silence and shadows, relying on others to stay passive. But you? You shine a spotlight on the bad behavior and refuse to back down. You're not confrontational just for the sake of it, but you believe silence enables harm. You use your voice with clarity and strength, even when your hands shake. Your courage makes manipulators nervous because you don't play the quiet bystander role they expect. You set the bar high for how people should be treated—and you're not afraid to enforce it. That kind of backbone is a manipulator's worst nightmare. Manipulators love people who need approval—they're easy to guilt, flatter, and control. But you don't rely on being liked to feel valuable. If someone doesn't approve of your choices, your boundaries, or your energy, that's not your problem. You're willing to be misunderstood, unfollowed, or talked about if it means honoring yourself. You know that peace and people-pleasing rarely coexist. This freedom is terrifying to manipulative people who expect you to cave under social pressure. You don't beg for acceptance, and you're not playing a popularity contest. The moment someone tries to control you with the threat of disapproval, you see it for what it is—emotional blackmail. You'll take being the 'bad guy' in their story if it means protecting your integrity. And that makes you impossible to manipulate. While many people obsess over how they're perceived, you've detached your identity from other people's opinions. You're not chasing likes, validation, or approval from anyone—strangers, acquaintances, or even loved ones. That makes you incredibly hard to manipulate because no one can use shame or social standing to influence your decisions. You've created your own definition of success, value, and respect, and you don't hand that over easily. People may whisper, judge, or criticize—but you don't flinch. You've come to realize that letting go of external validation is a kind of superpower. The less you need others to see you a certain way, the more authentic your life becomes. You make bold choices, say what needs to be said, and walk away when necessary without obsessing over optics. Manipulators want leverage—and public opinion is a big one. But if you don't care about the court of public approval, they've got nothing on you. Manipulators love vagueness and confusion because it gives them room to twist your words. But you shut that down fast by speaking with clarity and conviction. You don't beat around the bush or hide behind politeness when something needs to be said. You articulate your thoughts with purpose, and you're not afraid to stand by them. People know exactly where you stand—and that terrifies manipulators who prefer murky waters. You're not reactive, but you are direct. If someone crosses a boundary, you name it. If someone plays games, you call it out without apology. You don't rely on passive-aggressive hints or silent treatments—you get straight to the point. And that leaves no space for someone to manipulate your words or intentions. Groupthink is a manipulator's dream—when everyone blindly agrees, they can steer the whole room. But you? You ask questions, challenge assumptions, and trust your instincts, even if it makes you unpopular. You're not afraid to be the dissenting voice in a sea of nods. You think critically, and you'd rather be alone than mindlessly compliant. Manipulative people often use peer pressure or majority opinion to push their agendas. But your refusal to be swayed by consensus protects you from falling in line with bad decisions. You don't confuse unity with truth, and you're not afraid to swim upstream. Your independence of thought keeps you from being a pawn in anyone's game. You choose what's right over what's popular—every single time. Emotional intelligence is your armor—and your sword. You can read the subtext behind people's words, notice shifts in tone or body language, and sense when someone's motives don't align with their actions. You're not just emotionally aware—you're emotionally agile. You process your feelings without letting them cloud your judgment, and you're quick to recognize emotional manipulation when it shows up. That kind of intuition is like garlic to a vampire for manipulators. High EQ doesn't mean you're always calm—it means you know how to regulate, communicate, and set emotional boundaries. You don't take the bait when someone tries to provoke you or derail your peace. You can spot a gaslighter from across the room, and you won't let anyone weaponize your empathy. That emotional steadiness makes it nearly impossible for anyone to throw you off balance. And manipulators know it. Manipulators depend on drama to get results. They want you flustered, angry, or desperate so they can control your reactions and steer the outcome. But you stay grounded even when things get tense. You don't lash out, spiral, or explode on cue. Your emotional discipline protects you from being pushed into decisions you'll regret. That doesn't mean you suppress your feelings—it means you manage them with intention. You breathe before reacting, reflect before responding, and choose peace over chaos. When someone tries to provoke you, they're met with calm clarity instead of combustible emotion. That disarms manipulators completely. You keep your power by staying in control of your internal world. Blind trust is a luxury you don't afford easily. You've learned that appearances can be deceptive and words can be carefully curated for effect. So you've trained yourself to pay attention to actions, consistency, and motive. You question what others accept at face value and stay alert when something feels too slick or rehearsed. Your natural skepticism acts like a firewall against manipulation. This doesn't make you cold—it makes you careful. You still believe in connection, but you don't romanticize it at the cost of your safety. You look past charm and charisma to assess someone's true character. Manipulators hate skeptics because their illusions crumble under your scrutiny. You always ask, 'What's the real agenda here?'—and that question alone is enough to unravel their game.

News.com.au
08-07-2025
- Sport
- News.com.au
Tour de France fans slammed for ‘disrespectful' grave act
Tour de France fans have blasted spectators who appeared to stand on graves to catch a glimpse of riders at the race. Stage two of the world's biggest annual cycling event rounded off in Boulogne-sur-Mer, in the north of the France. The race saw Mathieu van der Poel beat Tadej Pogacar in a sprint finish to give the Dutchman the leader's yellow jersey. Watch the biggest Aussie sports & the best from overseas LIVE on Kayo Sports | New to Kayo? Get your first month for just $1. Limited time offer. With 8.6km remaining until the finish line, fans gathered on the edge of a cemetery to be as near the action as possible on Sunday. Hundreds of people seemed to trample on graves along the side of the road, behind advertising boards, The Sun reports. You can watch the disturbing footage in the player at the top of the page. That provoked outrage among many cycling fans, who felt the onlookers showed a lack of respect. One fan wrote on X: 'They no longer even see that they're standing on graves. Not out of hatred, but because they no longer know what respect is.' A second said: 'No respect for neither the living nor the dead.' A third added: 'This is so disrespectful. I hope they're standing on ground between the graves and the road.' A local said: 'It's shameful to the people of my town.' Two-time champion Jonas Vingegaard finished third behind reigning champion Pogacar, while Britain's Oscar Onley crossed the line in sixth. Earlier on Sunday, French team Cofidis said that 11 bikes were stolen from their team truck after the opening stage. In a statement, the team said that the door of their equipment truck was forced open, and their Look bikes were taken 'despite the security measures put in place'. Each bike stolen is estimated to be worth around £11,200. All riders at the Tour generally have at least three bikes - their preferred one and two spares.