Molly-Mae makes 'scary' parenting admission as she opens up about confidence
Former Love Island star turned influencer Molly-Mae Hague is mum to Bambi Fury, who she shares with her boxer boyfriend Tommy Fury, after the pair met on the ITV2 reality show
Molly-Mae Hague has made a "scary" parenting admission as she opens up about her rollercoaster confidence. The mum-of-one took to her Instagram page where she asked her followers to send in their questions.
One fan asked: "How are you finding motherhood?" Molly then shared a lengthy response where she detailed how she's been coping with looking after her daughter Bambi recently.
The mum-of-one is often honest about motherhood on her social media and this time was no different. She firstly joked in her response by saying "how long have you got?" before writing a long answer for all of her followers.
Molly-Mae, 26, wrote: "One topic I can really talk about. I find how I feel about "motherhood" a really complex subject - also because it changes so regularly.
"Some weeks I absolutely adore being a mum and genuinely don't even want to put Bambi to bed because I know I'll miss her so much... other weeks I'm counting down the minutes until bedtime comes."
Molly then went on to speak about how motherhood can impact her confidence sometimes. She added: "My confidence has been all over the place with Bambi recently to be quite honest.
"I had my first day with her completely alone yesterday for about a week (since Zoe and Danny moved in, we've rarely been along which has been so lovely)... but I was genuinely so so anxious because I just didn't know how I was going to handle the tantrums and defiance alone.
"That's kind of scary to admit I was anxious to take care of my own daughter? It's just the truth. My best friend constantly tells me that Bambi feels my energy and I have to try not get stressed/be calm... but sometimes even when I do my best to be super super calm/positive/the best mum I can be - she still isn't happy?"
The star then went on to explain that she doesn't "know how to handle it" when it comes to Bambi having tantrums sometimes. Molly finished off her post by explaining that she doesn't think she is ready to have another baby yet.
She said: "I was speaking to a gorgeous mum yesterday about it and she was saying she totally understood and then followed it up with 'and then you go on to have three more kids because you forget'... then I sat back and thought ok maybe we aren't feeling the same?
"Because I know there's just not a world in which I would have another baby right now... or maybe there is one day. I just don't know."
Molly gave birth to her daughter Bambi back in January 2023. She has since been sharing updates of motherhood and Bambi growing up.
She shares her daughter with her boyfriend Tommy Fury after the couple met on Love Island. The two of them split last year but recently announced that they were back together.
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