28 Target Products You'll *Reallllllllyyyy* Like
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A luxe pointelle sweater vest because adding a bit of texture to your outfit can turn it from "meh" to a new favorite in a jiff!
Promising review: "Love this. Oversized but not cropped. Can't wait to wear this in the fall since it's breathable and has no sleeves, a southern fall is still hot y'all!" —momof4Price: $25 (available in sizes XS–4X and four styles)
Some Happy Hair People wavy hair shampoo if you're overwhelmed by the curly hair routines on TikTok and just want something that works. No 100 steps needed: Just snag this shampoo (and the matching conditioner!) and say hello to perfect waves every time.
I'm a BIG fan of Happy Hair People, both because the scent really *is* amazing and also because their products make my hair ✨shine✨!Promising reviews: "I really love the smell of this shampoo. I have wavy hair and I'm making an effort to wear it naturally, and this shampoo is part of my routine. I love it!" —Skc80"I was previously using Shea Moisture and they changed their formula so I went on the hunt for something that wouldn't kill my budget. I LOVE this shampoo and conditioner set. It smells amazing and my hair is SO. SOFT. I have combination hair and I feel like this keeps my hair moisturized without being greasy and my waves are really bouncy." —AFBPrice: $7.99
A pair of Lee clog mules to help you ~slide~ right from summer to fall in the cutest, most fashion-forward way possible. These go FAST, so even if you're not planning to wear them just yet, your future self will thank you for adding them today.
Promising review: "Very comfortable. I wear an 8 in boots and sneakers. Stuck with a 7 1/2 with these. If you want to wear with thicker socks or have wide feet might go up half a size. Cute and on trend for fall." —RachiecoastkidPrice: $40 (available in sizes 6–11)
A BrüMate Era tumbler that is hands-down the best water bottle on the market: A TRUE locking mechanism that won't leave liquid all over your bag or car, cute colors, and a base designed to be both stabilizing *and* still fit in your cupholders.
Look, I've tried them all: BrüMate is simply the best there is. If you've got littles and are looking towards back to school, their smaller Leap bottle with all the same features is our family's go-to for backpacks! Promising review: "I am a BrüMate brand lover. The Era cup is the best to me. I love the flexible, soft straw, that it's actually leakproof when locked, is cute, and fits nicely in my hand. Just love that I can finally get it at a store near me." —AnyPrice: $39.99 (available in four colors)
A cloud knit pajama short set so you can be your most comfy (cutest) self when slipping into bed.
Promising review: "I love these PJs, they feel just as luxurious, as my Victoria's Secret pjs! I highly recommend this cute and cozy set if you're looking for something stylish, comfy, and at a very reasonable price. This set is a gem you shouldn't pass up. Treat yourself!" —Targetlover00Price: $25 (available in sizes XS–4X and five styles)
Some Boka toothpaste because your mouth deserves luxury, too—not just your skincare routine. If you've been on TikTok lately, you've most DEFINITELY seen this 'lil tube around because A) It helps remineralize your enamel and B) the flavors are AMAZING.
Promising reviews: "This is my second time purchasing Boka toothpaste, and I absolutely adore it! The formula is completely clean and made from non-toxic ingredients, which gives me peace of mind. I especially appreciate that it contains no fluoride, making it a fantastic choice for those seeking a healthier oral care option. Highly recommend!" —FLGirl65"Boka has been a favorite toothpaste for years at our home. So glad to have another place to purchase! I hope they start offering every flavor and different sizes of tubes." —targetshopperPrice: $9.99
Some Hey Harper waterproof gold hoop earrings literally built to be worn to the beach, gym, brunch, and everywhere in between! Tarnish-resistant, waterproof, and designed to keep its color, these are the I've-been-everywhere-man go-tos you've been dreaming of!
Price: $40
A "Thank You" bag vase because what house *couldn't* use a little more quirk, really? Throw in some flowers, pens, or any other small trinkets that need wrangling, and say "thank you" to Target.
Price: $10
A pair of athletic flutter shorts that are super comfy, but also have that extra little ~something~ so you look totally put together, too. Whether you're planning to drop in on a workout class or just a quick errand run, these will make you feel like you have a leg up on your day! (Get it? Leg up?)
Promising review: "Comfortable and beautiful! I train three times a week and I wanted comfy and good quality but still a good price. I'm so happy I found these. I love theeeeem!!! I love that the under shorts stay covering what needs to be covered ;) while squatting! So 👏 BUY IT!!!" —AllisonPrice: $20 (available in sizes XS–4X and six colors)
A sling crossbody bag if you want a hands-free existence while you go on new adventures. (Trust me, you totally do.) This one comes with an adjustable strap for the perfect fit, plus plenty of easy-access zippered compartments so you can keep all your essentials handy.
Promising reviews: "I recently traveled out of town, and this crossbody was so helpful! I wore it with almost everything. So many compartments and I was able to just throw on." —Mesha"I was looking for something to fulfill the need of carrying around my wallet, keys, phone, wipes, and a few snacks since my children are older now, and I don't want to carry around a giant diaper bag. This was perfect, and I really liked the style and material. As previously mentioned, if you are looking for something to hold a water bottle, the side pocket will NOT do that, but it works perfectly for hand sanitizer and sunglasses." —JordanPrice: $18 (available in two colors)
A pleated gingham ceramic table lamp classy enough to blend seamlessly with any existing decor while also ~shedding some light~ in your room.
Promising reviews: "The gingham print on the shade gives it such a cozy, rustic feel, and it complements my decor beautifully. It's the ideal size for a side table, not smaller, but still gives off enough light to create a warm, inviting atmosphere." —Caroline"Very cute. It gives that cottage vibe which I love. And it gives off the perfect light! I have mine on the bar between my kitchen and living room!" —TaylorPrice: $75
A short sleeve pullover sweater with just the right amount of "waiting for fall" energy that you can artfully sneak into your summer wardrobe.
Promising review: "So cute and soft! Perfect transition to fall!" —KelseyPrice: $25 (available in sizes XS–4X and two colors)
A tufted shower curtain if your bathroom could use the quickest (and most effective!) of upgrades. I'm going to hold your hand gently when I say this, but if you still have a holiday-themed curtain up in August... it's time for a seasonal change.
Promising reviews: "I love this shower curtain. It's so pretty. Much nicer in person. Brings out my guest bathroom." —F Schultz"This is a beautiful and classic fabric shower curtain. The neutral creamy texture adds character to our guest bathroom. I highly recommend to anyone contemplating whether or not they should purchase." —SaavyOCShopperPrice: $39.99
Some Fazit glitter freckle makeup patches to put a little pep in your step and a little sparkle on your face! Whether you've got a concert, local comic con, or just a hankering for some sparklin', these easy-to-apply glitter patches are going to be your new besties.
Promising review: "OMG been dying for Fazit to launch this colorway. I have been asking them for a year to launch a rainbow design and now it's at Target!!! Thank you Fazit and Target this is insane. They are literally so STUNNING. Wearing them to Disney this weekend." —Alexis98Price: $15.99 (also available in gold, silver, and rose gold)
A Bose portable bluetooth speaker you'll be *abnormally excited* to have next time you're on the trail, doing yardwork, or anywhere else where you would love some playlist jams *without* having to lug around a bulky thingamajig. Big, bold sound in a small package is basically Bose's thing, and they do it ~so well~.
I LOVE Bose, and this 'lil guy has been a family sidekick all summer long! (And will be when pumpkin season rolls around, too!)Promising reviews: "Speaker paired right up to my Samsung phone after downloading the app. No prob. Easy to operate. The sound is amazing!" —NHBOB"I have tried several small speakers, but they were returned because the sound was anemic & 'tinny.' Even though this Bose speaker is not billed as being able to connect to smart TVs, I was able to connect it to my LG TV (whose onboard speaker is disappointingly 'tinny') for improved sound." —MK9999Price: $129.99 (originally $149.99; available in five colors)
A luxe V-neck jumpsuit if you need one of those in-between casual-but-elevated looks that are *so* hard to nail, but not with Target on your side! Pair with your new fave gold hoops and get ready for the compliment avalanche to sweep you away.
Promising review: "Fits really well. Beautiful colors and very comfortable. Can dress it up or down!" —PhatgrannyPrice: $40 (available in sizes XS–4X and four styles)
A pastel-tinted glass tumbler for long, sunshine-y evenings on the porch. Whether you're sipping on cocktails, mocktails, or your fave lemonade, these glasses are sure to jazz up your beverage.
And they'll look amazing sitting on your kitchen shelves!Promising review: "I got four of them. They look like Scandinavian brand glasses. Great color. I just want Target to keep selling this product." —RK"These are my favorite little glasses. Perfect for small servings." —xobondoPrice: $3.25
A Daise rose and sandalwood body mist to give yourself the gift of a new daily go-to that reviewers say smells clean and lasts all day without being overpowering. (For the kind of price that will make your jaw drop.)
Promising reviews: "I love how fresh this smells, like clean linen mixed with sandalwood. My favorite spray scent so far. Cute flower shape." —Stefany "It has such an elegant smell, lowkey soft floral rose, and lowkey warm, earthy sandalwood. This delicate fragrance is calming and sophisticated, perfect for an everyday scent." —SarahPrice: $5.99
A slim fit satin button down if your idea of luxe is grown-up Eloise, but without Plaza prices.
Promising reviews: "I have gotten so many compliments on this shirt! It looks dressy and it's very comfortable!" —judyr"I was very pleasantly surprised by this shirt. The fabric and colors look high end. I'll be buying all the colors." —Supes ChicPrice: $25 (available in sizes 1X–4X)
A matted frame because we might be in the digital age, but who doesn't love seeing a physical photo framed on their wall? Look, if the royals can have large painted portraits lining their hallways, you can have a couple of frames of your fave selfies.
Promising review: "Very cute and loved that the circle added something different to my gallery wall. Good quality. Definitely thicker than your standard photo frame." —JosiPrice: $12
A couture claw clip for ~artfully~ getting your hair off your neck. (Or just, like, not feeling like you're wearing a turtleneck of hair the second you step out of the shower.)
Price: $12.99
A stainless-steel teapot if you love a spot of tea to unwind during self-care time. Pair it with a Celestial Seasonings fruit tea sampler, and you've got yourself the fanciest of summer pastimes.
Promising review: "Adorable tea kettle! We use this for hot chocolate all of the time. The stoneware on the bottom is nice, too. It looks great out on the stove all of the time." —MomofmanyPrice: $32.99
A button-front knit tank top because nothing is fancier than the perfect buttoned layering piece, and this tank will help you elevate your look this summer and fall. (Just think how cute it will be under a contrasting cardi.)
Promising review: "Love the fit, did my usual size medium. Bought in blue and black and will be ordering brown! !" —LbrazierPrice: $15 (available in sizes XS–4X and three colors)
A tube of Maybelline Baby Lips lip balm for a little pop of color and a big dollop of moisturizing goodness. This magic stuff provides EIGHT HOURS of hydrating action, so swipe once and enjoy deliciously soft lips all day long.
Promising review: "I am a long time fan of this lip moisture line! It hydrate lips and keeps them soft for much longer than traditional lip balm. Goes on clear and smooth, non sticky and non greasy." —MeghanPrice: $3.99 (available in three shades)
A Lego Pixar lamp that needs no introduction because it's *that* iconic. You can totally HEAR the happy squishing sounds now, can't you?
Promising reviews: "Great for a display model." —Wizzard"I love Legos and recently have completed a few sets. This one was super easy to put together and has many options for the ball." —New lego momPrice: $69.99
A Blogilates bow-back tank top so cute *and* functional, you'll wonder if you need to head to the gym or to brunch to show it off.
Both, btw. The answer is both. Promising reviews: "Love the material. I got a lot of compliments. I like how you can dress it up with a skort or even with jeans." —Rosemary"So so beautiful. I love the floral print. I need more activewear like this. I got so many compliments on it. It's nice enough to even wear to work." —LindsiePrice: $25 (available in sizes XS–3X and five styles)
And finally, a Simplehuman stainless steel dual-compartment trash can because one of the major perks of adulthood is you really *can* get this excited about a really nice trash can.
Fingerprint proof, silent-close lid, and easy-to-change-bag abilities, if you've ever been at a friend's place and thought, "Wow! I really love that trash can!" It was almost certainly from Simplehuman.Promising review: "This can is pricey, but so worth it!. I use the larger side for trash and smaller bin for recyclables. Everything is neat, organized, and contained!" —AnnPrice: $139.99
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