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Is texting ‘k' hurting your relationships? Here's the truth about those abbreviated chats

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Is texting ‘k' hurting your relationships? Here's the truth about those abbreviated chats

When Sam Maglio, a marketing and psychology professor at the University of Toronto, began his research into abbreviations in texting, he thought they might be a good thing. They could signal a close relationship — a kind of shorthand between friends — and indicate social connection and comfort. His research proved him wrong. Together with co-authors David Fang and Yiran Zhang, Maglio analyzed conversations from the dating app Tinder, the text-based social platform Discord and participants' own conversations, and also conducted a slew of other studies. In test after test, Magio found using abbreviations to be 'surprisingly bad for the relationship.' His research, published last year, showed texts with abbreviations were seen as less sincere and effortful, and are less likely to get a response. ARTICLE CONTINUES BELOW A viral claim that 'K' is the worst possible text might not be far from the truth. Research shows texts with abbreviations are seen as less sincere and effortful. 'The more you abbreviate,' Magio said, 'the worse you look — or the lazier you look — in the eyes of others.' As so much of our communication is wrapped up in texting and online messaging, Magio's research could be part of a road map to making more meaningful digital connections. Here's how abbreviations are received — and how to make your texts more sincere. How bad are abbreviations, really? The University of Toronto research team used eight different studies to evaluate the impact abbreviations have, including field studies and tightly-controlled lab studies. In one, the researchers analyzed conversations from 686 users on Tinder. They found that more abbreviations in a conversation correlated with conversations ending sooner. In another study, the researchers messaged nearly 1,900 Discord users at random from an anime community and asked for recommendations on what to watch. If the request had abbreviations, it was less likely to get a response. Canada Canadian iPhone and Android users should stop texting each other, experts advise, as FBI investigates cyberattacks in the U.S. Kevin Jiang The researchers found similar results in pre-existing relationships, too. They asked participants to pull up a recent text conversation on their phone. If it had abbreviations, participants reported feeling the conversation was less sincere and effortful. 'Even with those existing relationships, if they pull it up and it's got abbreviations, it's bad for the relationship,' Maglio said. ARTICLE CONTINUES BELOW ARTICLE CONTINUES BELOW Why are abbreviations negatively received? While texting as a form of communication is built on short messages sent between other activities, relying on abbreviations is 'often not valued from the receiver perspective,' according to Anabel Quan-Haase, a sociologist at Western University who researches digital communication. 'If you are texting someone and expect a longer response that shows care for the relationship,' Quan-Haase wrote in an email, 'then receiving a short reply that contains abbreviations feels like it is insincere and less meaningful.' Quan-Haase suggested the tone of texting can be misinterpreted because it lacks the unspoken cues of other forms of communication, like tone of voice, facial expressions and body movement. 'Without them, it is sometimes difficult to 'read' the tone or the intention of the sender,' she said. Why do people claim 'K' is the worst abbreviation? Recently, a claim that 'K' is the worst-received abbreviation when texting went viral, and it 'makes perfect sense' to Maglio. While he didn't research which abbreviations are worse than others, he said the ease of texting 'K' — just a single keystroke — could make it come across as 'the lowest you can go on an abbreviation.' Health You might be addicted to your phone. Here's what it's doing to you — and how to kick it Mark Colley 'K' has also taken on an implicit meaning, more than simply just an abbreviation of OK, Quan-Haase said. Alongside the texts 'k.' (with a period) and 'OK,' 'K' signals 'various degrees of annoyance or even aggression,' Quan-Haase explained. ARTICLE CONTINUES BELOW ARTICLE CONTINUES BELOW 'It basically adds a layer of communication, what we call connotative communication, to the conversation,' she said. 'It is almost like tone of voice in face-to-face communication.' What should you do instead? The lesson, Maglio said, is that language sends 'very powerful, non-stop signals,' whether intentionally or not. It's not that you should never use abbreviations, Maglio explained — it's just that you should understand how it might be received. 'We speak, we write, we communicate without giving it much thought,' Maglio said. Since completing the research, Maglio has started using voice memos more often, because they appear more effortful and sincere than regular texts. Quan-Haase said video and phone calls produce the most meaningful digital connections, but research shows strong ties rely on 'micro communications.' 'It is ultimately about the bundle of text messages, voice memos, video calls and phone calls that help build strong connections over time,' Quan-Haase said. 'It is not a single message.'

Canada's Humanity Index Falls into the Red Zone

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Canada's Humanity Index Falls into the Red Zone

Quebec Drops from First to Last in the Country QUEBEC CITY, June 10, 2025 /CNW/ - The perceived humanity in our society is declining. The Humanity Index, a citizen-driven barometer that measures perceptions of humanity within society, shows an alarming drop. In just eight months, from August 2024 to April 2025, the average score given by Canadians to their society's humanity fell from 64.9 to 59.1 out of 100 — crossing into the red zone, a symbolic threshold of societal well-being. Created to assess how citizens perceive social climate, kindness, solidarity, and dignity in their daily lives, the Index reveals a troubling reality: across the country, people believe our society is becoming less humane. "What we're measuring here is a loss of collective values. Less solidarity, less kindness, more indifference. The drop in the Index is not just a number — it reflects a growing social unease," says Pierre Côté, founder and CEO of the Humanity Index. Quebec: From First to Last While the decline is nationwide, the most dramatic drop occurred in Quebec, where the Index plunged by 9.6 points, from 68.0 to 58.4. The province, which held the top position in August 2024, now ranks last in the country. Maritime Provinces: The Only Ones Above the Line The Atlantic provinces are the only region in Canada where the evaluation of societal humanity remains above the 60-point pass threshold (61.7). Widening Gap Between Personal and Collective Humanity Canadians continue to view their personal humanity positively (75.1 out of 100), but this score has also declined (–2.5 points). The gap between personal and societal perception has now reached 15.8 points, exposing a deep divide between how individuals view themselves versus their society. Women are more critical of society (58.8) than men (59.3), but rate their personal humanity higher (77.3 vs. 72.9). People aged 55 and over remain the most confident in both societal and personal humanity. About the Humanity Index The Humanity Index is a citizen initiative that measures how humanity is perceived in society. It is based on surveys conducted with a broad sample of the Canadian population. This edition is based on a survey carried out by Léger in April 2025, involving 35,353 respondents across the country.

Message left unread? It might be because you used an abbreviation

Toronto Star

2 days ago

Toronto Star

Message left unread? It might be because you used an abbreviation

When Sam Maglio, a marketing and psychology professor at the University of Toronto, began his research into abbreviations in texting, he thought they might be a good thing. They could signal a close relationship — a kind of shorthand between friends — and indicate social connection and comfort. His research proved him wrong. Together with co-authors David Fang and Yiran Zhang, Maglio analyzed conversations from the dating app Tinder, the text-based social platform Discord and participants' own conversations, and also conducted a slew of other studies. In test after test, Magio found using abbreviations to be 'surprisingly bad for the relationship.' His research, published last year, showed texts with abbreviations were seen as less sincere and effortful, and are less likely to get a response. ARTICLE CONTINUES BELOW A viral claim that 'K' is the worst possible text might not be far from the truth. Research shows texts with abbreviations are seen as less sincere and effortful. 'The more you abbreviate,' Magio said, 'the worse you look — or the lazier you look — in the eyes of others.' As so much of our communication is wrapped up in texting and online messaging, Magio's research could be part of a road map to making more meaningful digital connections. Here's how abbreviations are received — and how to make your texts more sincere. How bad are abbreviations, really? The University of Toronto research team used eight different studies to evaluate the impact abbreviations have, including field studies and tightly-controlled lab studies. In one, the researchers analyzed conversations from 686 users on Tinder. They found that more abbreviations in a conversation correlated with conversations ending sooner. In another study, the researchers messaged nearly 1,900 Discord users at random from an anime community and asked for recommendations on what to watch. If the request had abbreviations, it was less likely to get a response. Canada Canadian iPhone and Android users should stop texting each other, experts advise, as FBI investigates cyberattacks in the U.S. Kevin Jiang The researchers found similar results in pre-existing relationships, too. They asked participants to pull up a recent text conversation on their phone. If it had abbreviations, participants reported feeling the conversation was less sincere and effortful. 'Even with those existing relationships, if they pull it up and it's got abbreviations, it's bad for the relationship,' Maglio said. ARTICLE CONTINUES BELOW ARTICLE CONTINUES BELOW Why are abbreviations negatively received? While texting as a form of communication is built on short messages sent between other activities, relying on abbreviations is 'often not valued from the receiver perspective,' according to Anabel Quan-Haase, a sociologist at Western University who researches digital communication. 'If you are texting someone and expect a longer response that shows care for the relationship,' Quan-Haase wrote in an email, 'then receiving a short reply that contains abbreviations feels like it is insincere and less meaningful.' Quan-Haase suggested the tone of texting can be misinterpreted because it lacks the unspoken cues of other forms of communication, like tone of voice, facial expressions and body movement. 'Without them, it is sometimes difficult to 'read' the tone or the intention of the sender,' she said. Why do people claim 'K' is the worst abbreviation? Recently, a claim that 'K' is the worst-received abbreviation when texting went viral, and it 'makes perfect sense' to Maglio. While he didn't research which abbreviations are worse than others, he said the ease of texting 'K' — just a single keystroke — could make it come across as 'the lowest you can go on an abbreviation.' Health You might be addicted to your phone. Here's what it's doing to you — and how to kick it Mark Colley 'K' has also taken on an implicit meaning, more than simply just an abbreviation of OK, Quan-Haase said. Alongside the texts 'k.' (with a period) and 'OK,' 'K' signals 'various degrees of annoyance or even aggression,' Quan-Haase explained. ARTICLE CONTINUES BELOW ARTICLE CONTINUES BELOW 'It basically adds a layer of communication, what we call connotative communication, to the conversation,' she said. 'It is almost like tone of voice in face-to-face communication.' What should you do instead? The lesson, Maglio said, is that language sends 'very powerful, non-stop signals,' whether intentionally or not. It's not that you should never use abbreviations, Maglio explained — it's just that you should understand how it might be received. 'We speak, we write, we communicate without giving it much thought,' Maglio said. Since completing the research, Maglio has started using voice memos more often, because they appear more effortful and sincere than regular texts. Quan-Haase said video and phone calls produce the most meaningful digital connections, but research shows strong ties rely on 'micro communications.' 'It is ultimately about the bundle of text messages, voice memos, video calls and phone calls that help build strong connections over time,' Quan-Haase said. 'It is not a single message.'

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