In Rare Open Celebration Of Polyandry, 2 Himachal Brothers Marry Same Woman: ‘Proud Of Tradition'
India is known for its rich and diverse wedding rituals. These traditions vary by region, religion and community, but often involve elaborate ceremonies, vibrant colors, music, dance and symbolic rituals. Recently, an age-old Hatti Polyandry tradition of Himachal Pradesh caught the attention of viewers, where two brothers got married to a single woman.
According to The Tribune, Pradeep Negi and Kapil Negi of Shillai village in Sirmaur district got married to Sunita Chauhan, a woman from the nearby Kunhat village, in a ceremony steeped in the cultural legacy of the Hatti community, breaking the silence on a practice long kept behind closed doors.
The event, which was held with complete mutual consent and community participation, was a rare open celebration of polyandry—an age-old ritual in which brothers share a wife.
Know More About the Tradition:
Polyandry, also known as Jodidaran or Draupadi Pratha, is a traditional practice among the Hatti community of Himachal Pradesh in which multiple brothers share a single wife. This custom, which is common in the Trans-Giri area of Sirmaur district and other parts of Uttarakhand, stems from a desire to preserve family unity and prevent the partition of ancestral land and ensuring that no woman remains widowed. While still practiced, its prevalence is declining due to cultural changes and the impact of modern conventions.
Pradeep, the eldest brother, works for the Jal Shakti Department, while Kapil is employed in the hospitality industry abroad. Despite living worlds away, the brothers united in spirit and determination to take the holy vows with Sunita, participating equally in all wedding rituals.
Speaking about their unusual marriage, Pradeep said, 'This was a mutual decision," adding that it is about trust, caring and shared responsibility. 'We followed our custom openly because we are proud of our history."
Kapil, on the other hand, shared, 'We have always believed in transparency. I may reside overseas, but this marriage ensures support, security and affection for our wife as a united family."
Lastly, the bride said, 'This was my choice. I was never pressured. I am aware of this tradition, and I selected it willingly. We made this pledge together, and I have faith in the bond we have built."
The Marriage:
Spanning three days, the wedding rituals saw several villagers and relatives from nearby locations coming to see this rare yet culturally significant union. Guests were treated to traditional Trans-Giri food, which included specific local delicacies often made for weddings in the region.
The atmosphere was happy, with people dancing enthusiastically to Pahari traditional songs, singing and bestowing heartfelt blessings on the bride and both grooms for a happy marriage.
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July 19, 2025, 09:54 IST
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