Woman, 68, who married toyboy, 25, admits 'everyone always says same thing'
Kay and her husband Ablack, who is 43 years her junior, have shared the story of their whirlwind romance after they got engaged just 72 hours after meeting in person
A 68-year-old woman has tied the knot with a man 43 years her junior, after their connection on social media blossomed into marriage. Kay and her 25-year-old beau Ablack had no inkling that their online interaction would lead to them saying 'I do'.
Merely three days after their first face-to-face meeting, they were engaged. Despite scepticism from people, the couple maintain that their bond is based on genuine affection and romance. During an appearance on the YouTube channel Love Don't Judge, Kay, hailing from the US, recounted: "He liked something I posted. I don't even remember what it was. He went from somebody who liked my post to my very best friend. I could tell him any and everything and it just grew stronger and stronger."
Kay revealed she "had a dream" about visiting Nigeria which spurred her desire to travel there. After discussing it with Ablack, he arranged her flight and assisted with other travel arrangements.
"When he showed up at the airport to come and get me it was like, 'Oh my God you're real, you're really here', it's not a scam," she expressed.
The proposal came swiftly; musician Ablack popped the question three days into Kay's visit, convinced by a sign from his prophet that they were destined to be together, leading to their marriage in October 2024. Despite their joy, the couple has faced challenges in gaining acceptance for their unconventional union, encountering significant criticism.
Ablack, who often provides glimpses into their life together on his Instagram account @ab_ablack2, found himself labelled a "fireboy" when their wedding photo became an internet sensation.
He remarked: "I never imagined I would date someone older than me. Some people say, you're married to your grandma, she's too old for you."
Kay, undeterred by the remarks and having been wed three times before, feels rejuvenated around Ablack. She considers herself Ablack's "queen" and attests that Nigerian men treat their partners exceptionally well.
She continued: "I'm his priority. If I want something he just gets it for me. In the states, you don't get that."
With frequent travels between Nigeria and the US, she is making plans to settle in Nigeria for good. Kay emphasised the uniqueness of her bond: "I've never felt love like this before. This is the one I'm supposed to be with, I just had to wait a long time for him to be born.
"We are a single unified force when we're together," she claimed. "I love her so much, she is everything I need," Ablack chimed in.
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