
I bought a trampoline for the local kids to enjoy but my spiteful neighbour made us rip it down – they lead a sad life
'There was no discussion. We want to see if we can get this overturned. The children are all upset by this'
BOUNCE ON I bought a trampoline for the local kids to enjoy but my spiteful neighbour made us rip it down – they lead a sad life
Click to share on X/Twitter (Opens in new window)
Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window)
A GRANDMA claims she has to pull down her trampoline after a 'spiteful' neighbour complained to the council about kids bouncing on it.
Lorraine Roberts bought a trampoline for children on her estate in Southampton, Hampshire, and erected it on council-owned common area in February.
Sign up for Scottish Sun
newsletter
Sign up
2
The grandma claims she had to pull down the trampoline after a neighbour complained to the council
Credit: Kennedy News
2
Lorraine bought the trampoline for the kids on her estate
Credit: Kennedy News
The 67-year-old believed all her neighbours were happy with the 16-foot equipment until she received a call from Southampton City Council last month [May 19].
Grandma-of-ten Lorraine says staff told her an unknown neighbour had complained about the 'noise and mess' children make while playing on it 'all day, every day'.
She was reportedly then ordered to take it down from the grassy area before it is forcibly removed on 'health and safety' grounds.
Shocked Lorraine admits the children can be noisy while playing but says she lives just a 'couple feet away' and orders anyone off the trampoline by 8pm.
She's since described the neighbour's complaint as 'gutless' and believes the residents should've been consulted before the decision was made to ban the equipment.
The grandma said the local children are 'disappointed and upset' over the trampoline's removal and she remains hopeful the decision can be overturned.
Southampton City Council say play equipment such as trampolines present a 'significant health and safety risk' so are banned on council-owned shared areas.
Lorraine said: "Just over a year ago, one of my neighbours put a trampoline on a shared area of grass because a lot of kids play there but it was quite flimsy.
"I've got grandchildren that play on the close so I said I'd buy a bigger, sturdier one.
"Everybody loved it. Kids were on it all day, every day. It keeps them off their iPads and PlayStations."
Shocking moment nightmare neighbour 'Chinese spy' haunt family in hedge dispute
Although the Grandma admitted the kids are noisy on the trampoline, as far as she's concerned "they're going to be noisy either way."
"I didn't know anyone had any issue with it. I thought the neighbours were happy with it.
"We all think it's spineless how [the neighbour] didn't say anything to our face. They're gutless and we've got to live with them."
Lorraine insists it's the residents' roles to take responsibility for the children, not the council.
She says the kids will still cause noise and mess without the trampoline but now they don't have anything to play on.
Lorraine said: "I was quite shocked when [the council] said they'd received a complaint from one of the neighbours. Why didn't they approach us?
"They said it was a health and safety issue but I said you're not responsible, we are. We take responsibility for the children.
"They said it's got to come down. I said no and she said if you don't take it down we will.
"I was really disappointed for the children's sake. I just like the children having something to play with.
"The complaint was about the noise and mess but you're still going to get that without the trampoline but now they won't have anywhere to play.
"The council should've come round, had a meeting with the whole close and asked what we all thought instead of just saying 'take it down'.
"There was no discussion. We want to see if we can get this overturned. The children are all upset by this."
The Top Five Reasons Neighbours Squabble
One study by Compare the Market revealed the top reason British neighbour's argue Broken fences - top of the board was broken fences and whose responsibility it was to fix it Parking: one of the leading drivers of neighbour disputes, with 54.1 per cent of people having issues with people parking in front of their house, parking bay or driveway Trees - complaints about a neighbour's tree cracking your garden path was also common with nearly half of participants finding it frustrating Bin wars - outdoor bin etiquette continues to ignite the most furious debates between neighbours Nosy Neighbours - some people have their eyes and ears at the ready to have a peek causing problems for others
A spokesperson for Southampton City Council said: 'Shared areas of council-owned grass within our communities are spaces for everyone to enjoy safely.
"While we understand the importance of outdoor play, play equipment such as trampolines present a significant health and safety risk, and cannot be safely monitored around the clock.
"For this reason, we do not permit their use in these shared areas.
"The residents are within walking distance of two parks which provide good access to play facilities.
"We are aware that this type of play equipment can be expensive, which is why we sent letters to the community to give the owner the chance to collect the trampoline themselves.'
Lorraine took to social media to voice her concerns with the neighbour's complaint and council's decision to remove the trampoline.
Lorraine said: "I cannot believe that some spiteful person from our close has complained to the council that our children are making too much noise whilst playing on the trampoline."
Another user said: "They lead a very sad life to complain about the children."
A third added: "You're joking. Isn't it good they are laughing and playing or do they want them either stuck in bedrooms or playing with guns outside? What has this world come to?"
Another said: "What a small minded person. It's lovely to hear children playing outside."
Hashtags

Try Our AI Features
Explore what Daily8 AI can do for you:
Comments
No comments yet...
Related Articles


Scottish Sun
3 hours ago
- Scottish Sun
Doomsday prepper reveals $430,000 personal bunker ‘for WW3 protection' and steps you can take to start stockpiling
Click to share on X/Twitter (Opens in new window) Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) A DOOMSDAY prepper who has a personal bunker with goods worth $430,000 has shared an urgent warning as tensions rise from global conflicts. Rowan MacKenzie is well-known for her expert advice in preparing for any disaster – including the end of the world. Sign up for Scottish Sun newsletter Sign up 9 Rowan MacKenzie has been preparing for the worst Credit: Jam Press 9 According to MacKenzie, her personal stockpile is worth $315,000 Credit: Jam Press 9 The doomsday bunker is filled with nonperishable food items and bottled water Credit: Jam Press Following escalating strikes between Iran and Israel, the 40-year-old is sharing what she believes to be crucial advice for anyone worried about possible gray-zone attacks. Rowan has admitted that she is concerned that World War III is just around the corner, so is preparing how she sees fit. 'Gray-zone attacks are exactly what the name says – it's the gray area between a time of war and peace,' the homemaker and estate agent told NeedToKnow. 'It's something we preppers consider when stockpiling. 'They need to be taken extremely seriously, as the economic crash can be just as disastrous as an actual physical war. MacKenzie also revealed how many days' worth of items to have in your stockpile at the very minimum. '[You should] stockpile at least 72 hours' worth of essentials. 'This includes water, food, medications [and] power sources, such as rechargeable batteries," she explained. 'Keep a wind-up radio nearby to stay informed if the internet goes down. 'Learn basic first aid and fire safety. 9 The homemaker also has livestock, including chickens and ducks Credit: Jam Press 9 MacKenzie has been building her stockpile for over two years Credit: Jam Press 9 Her prepping came from fears surrounding 'World War III' Credit: Jam Press 'Practice emergency routines with household members, especially little ones. 'Get to know your local resilience forum and available services. 'As defense evolves, so too must public readiness.' Although gray-zone attacks might not involve tanks or other weaponry, their impact can be just as severe on society. Rowan, from the US, says her own prepping is no longer a hobby – she now considers it a necessity. She added: 'It's becoming more and more practiced worldwide. 'It never hurts to protect the people you love. 'Don't panic; make a list and execute. 'I've said it time and time again, you've got to be prepared for anything at any time.' 9 The homemaker has also stocked up on firearms and ammo Credit: Jam Press 9 MacKenzie has also provided advice for those looking to start their own stockpile Credit: Jam Press


Scottish Sun
3 hours ago
- Scottish Sun
Marrying my long-term partner hasn't erased the pain of his affair… I want to end my relationship to be with colleague
I am so unhappy but I have met someone who does make me happy and loves me for who I am DEAR DEIDRE Marrying my long-term partner hasn't erased the pain of his affair… I want to end my relationship to be with colleague DEAR DEIDRE: I MARRIED my long-term partner in the hope that it would erase the pain of his affair. Sadly, it hasn't worked out like that. He cheated on me with a woman he knew from his past. They met regularly, shared romantic meals and mini-breaks and even went on a week's holiday. Sign up for Scottish Sun newsletter Sign up After discovering their affair, I went into survival mode and did my best to keep our family together. We are in our mid-40s and have two boys, aged 14 and 12, and I did not want them growing up in separate houses. His betrayal cut me deeply and when we married a year later, I desperately hoped it would heal the pain, but to be honest, everything feels just as raw. My husband refuses to talk about it. He said his affair is in the past, it happened, but is over now, and I should move on. I wish it was that easy. I am so unhappy. But I have met someone who does make me happy. He is a colleague and has always been a friend. Since this affair, he has been a confidant, always encouraging and supportive. We have been talking a lot over the last couple of years and something has grown between us. The feelings I have for him are not the same as I have for my husband. We want to be together. We haven't had sex but we really have an amazing emotional connection and we've confided that we love each other. I want to end my marriage but I just feel so guilty about breaking up a supposedly 'happy home' for my boys. I barely sleep. I am so tired overthinking everything that I feel incapable of making a decision. I desperately want to be with someone who loves me for who I am, listens to me and really wants to be with me. Dear Deidre: Spotting the signs your partner is cheating DEIDRE SAYS: Leaving your husband will be a huge life change for you, but you would be finally putting yourself and your own happiness first. The most important thing is you and your ex manage to co-parent amicably. Staying together for the sake of your children is potentially damaging. If you are both unhappy, they'll pick up on this. It is a complex decision, but divorce isn't always a bad thing, and sometimes it is the best option, even if it is difficult. My support pack, Thinking Of Divorce, will help you. Get in touch with Deidre Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays. Send an email to deardeidre@ You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page. MUM MAKES ME FEEL SO BAD ABOUT GOING AWAY DEAR DEIDRE: I AM looking forward to a wonderful holiday in New Zealand visiting my daughter and her family, but my mother is determined to ruin it. I'm 61, my husband is 63 and we've been married for 30 years. My mother came to live with us five years ago but recently her health has declined. She is 93 so it is to be expected. Her memory frequently fails to the extent that she recently left the bath taps running until the bath was overflowing. We have been in touch with social services who have helped us find respite care for my mother during our holiday because there is nobody else who can stay with her. My mother is now threatening to take her own life. My husband and I are both mentally and physically exhausted. We need this holiday to visit our daughter and grandchildren. My mother will only be in respite care for two weeks, but she is making me feel as though I should cancel the trip. DEIDRE SAYS: This is a sad situation but don't give in to her blackmail. You have every right to go on this holiday, so it's unfair of her to threaten you. It is distressing but you have showed love and concern for your mum. Respite care is the only option and is also the best place to cater for her needs. Please do not beat yourself up. You made a difficult decision but it was the right one – and came out of love. LOVER'S SURPRISE CHANGE OF HEART DEAR DEIDRE: I WAS seeing a woman who was affectionate, loving and very attentive. She showed me off to her friends and family and told me she wanted a future with me and to have children. Everything was perfect but things changed after she told me she'd been sent home from work with stress. She said she felt overwhelmed with life and wanted to run away. She's 32 and I'm 33. She then went to stay with her dad for the weekend and now says she wants space. I know that she had a breakdown five years ago and took some time off work then. She told me she can't be in that state again. Even though she said I was the perfect boyfriend and that I've done nothing wrong, I am struggling to process it. How can someone go from 100 to zero overnight? I've told her I'll give her space, and the door is open, but where do I go from here? DEIDRE SAYS: Her change of heart sounds like it is more about her issues than rejecting you, but give her the space she needs. She may be the sort of person who rushes into a relationship and then tends to rush out again. It's also possible that she's scared of commitment or just got swept up with her feelings and reconsidered. Don't wait for her to make up her mind, and do keep your social life going. My support pack, Mend Your Broken Heart, will help. MS TRAUMA HAS RUINED OUR LIFE DEAR DEIDRE: A FEW years ago my girlfriend was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis and during a relapse she nearly died. I was with her at the time and have been left with what I think is undiagnosed PTSD ever since. I'm 34, she 32 and we have a child – the medication she was on messed up her birth control. Due to the lesions on her brain, she lost her memory and broke up with me. However, three years on we have now rekindled our relationship. I know that when we were apart she had a few partners. The relationships she had with these people were traumatic and she's not the same person now. She's said horrible things happened to her but won't discuss it. Our sex life is non-existent and I'm struggling to cope. She was the one who walked out on me and put herself into these situations. I protected her and cared for her. I'm wondering if I should stay around. I've also found a couple of sex toys in a drawer at her house. Why am I being neglected sexually if she obviously still has a sex drive? Is it too late for us, or is my pride getting in the way? DEIDRE SAYS: A diagnosis of MS may have come as a shock to her. She may have started to feel differently about herself and withdraw. It's understandable you feel shut out since she won't share what happened to her when you were apart. Encourage her to seek support through Women's Aid ( Whatever happened sounds to have affected her desire to have sex, but with the right help things can improve. If you feel you need to know more about the sex toys, ask her lightly about what you found. Try to stay open-minded or she might feel judged and defensive. It is also vital you see your doctor about your undiagnosed PTSD.


Scottish Sun
7 hours ago
- Scottish Sun
Moment miracle Brit survivor of Air India jet heads BACK to burning wreck to rescue brother saying ‘I have to save him'
Click to share on X/Twitter (Opens in new window) Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) THIS is the astonishing moment miracle Brit Vishwash Ramesh rushed back to the burning Air India plane to save his brother. The 40-year-old sole survivor was captured staggering towards the blazing students' hostel - which claimed 38 lives - as black smoke billowed in the sky. Sign up for Scottish Sun newsletter Sign up 9 Vishwash walking by the crash site as the wreckage burns behind him 9 Rescuers work to remove parts of the wreckage from the rubble 9 Brit survivor is heard saying he needs to go back and rescue his brother Credit: Twitter Footage emerged today shows emergency worker Satinder Singh Sandhu flailing his arms in the air in a desperate attempt to stop the Brit from walking back into the crash site. Dressed in a white t-shirt and trousers, Vishwas is seen eventually wandering over to the emergency worker as flames leapt behind him. Satinder revealed how he pleaded with the dad not to return to the inferno, warning he would died if he did. He recalled shouting as loud as he could to grab the dazed man's attention, then "begging him not to go back in there." Amid panicked crowds, the surviving Brit turned to Satinder and said: "My family member is in there, my brother and he's burning to death. I have to save him." According to the emergency worker, Vishwas was very disoriented, and limping but was still able to speak coherently. He told the Mail Online: "There was also blood on his face, but he was able to speak. He told the paramedics that he was flying to London when the plane fell and that he wanted to go back to save his family." Locals appear rushing around in panic and calling the emergency services when they spotted him. The businessman was taken to the 1,200-bed Civil Hospital less than a mile from Ahmedabad airport where the doomed Air India flight had taken off from before crashing just 33 seconds later. His dad Ramesh has been at his bedside but has been too upset to talk since the tragedy in which he lost his youngest son Ajay. Pilot of doomed India Air jet hailed a hero by locals who cheated death by a few feet Family friend Deepak Devjil said: 'He is still grappling with the tragedy.' The dad received a special Father's Day gift yesterday when his four-year-old son sent his best wishes. His youngster and wife have travelled to India following the crash and the family will soon be reunited, but Vishwash spoke to his son on the phone yesterday. The story of Vishwash's escape has astounded the world - and left experts speculating over how he cheated death. His brother, Ajaykumar Ramesh, 35, was sitting five seats away and tragically lost his life in the crash. Vishwash was sitting in seat 11A when the plane came down, which is right by the emergency exit. The Brit, whose family is from Leicester, told local media he was able to push open the plane's fuselage and get out before the plane blew up. 9 Buildings were left charred from the crash Credit: Dan Charity 9 Debris at the site of the plane crash Credit: EPA 9 A grieving resident upon hearing news of her brother's death Credit: Reuters But it is currently unclear whether the opening Vishwash "slipped out" of was the emergency door or a rupture in the aircraft's fuselage. Aerospace and aviation professor Graham Braithwaite speculated the lucky Brit may have actually been flung out of the wreckage. He said: "The aircraft was loaded with fuel and it crashed into a heavily populated area. "I can only imagine that he was thrown from the wreckage, and that somehow as it crashed, what it hit managed to absorb some of the impact." He added: "Looking at the scene, I would imagine that the disruption to the aircraft would have been huge. "If anybody could have got out, then they probably could have just gone out in a gap in the fuselage - you'd struggle to infer from this, therefore, that is the seat you must always sit in." Vishwash has relayed his memory of the moment the plane went down, and his account could hold the key to figuring out what went wrong. One detail in particular has peaked the interest of crash investigators. The Brit revealed that the cabin lights began flickering just before the jet sank through the air. He said: "When the flight took off, within five to 10 seconds it felt like it was stuck in the air. "Suddenly, the lights started flickering - green and white. "The aircraft wasn't gaining altitude and was just gliding before it suddenly slammed into a building and exploded." Vishwash's flickering lights revelation came after a passenger who travelled on the plane the day before the crash claimed electrical parts such as the back-of-seat screens weren't working. Aviation experts have speculated that the reports of dodgy electrics could be a sign of a power failure, possibly explaining the crash. 9 A fire officer stands next to the crashed Air India Boeing Credit: Reuters 9 Vishwash, a British national, was the only survivor Credit: HT Photo 9 India's Prime Minister Narendra Modi visits the site where the plane crashed Credit: Reuters