If You're Finally In Your 30s, Don't Be Scared, Just Make Sure You Have These 35 Things

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22-02-2025

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Buck up, kiddo. I mean...adult-o.
1. A set of silicone Kegel weights because doing pelvic floor exercises can help you better control your bladder and have more pleasurable sex.
Read more about Kegel exercises at Cleveland Clinic.
Promising review:"Since starting, my bladder control has significantly improved. I am now able to sneeze or cough without peeing myself. Yes, that's right. I am able to hold my pee longer, which means I can actually make it to the bathroom without dribbling on myself. The best part is that just a few short weeks into the program, you will have results that you can feel. I think anyone who has ever had kids should try this out. The overall quality of my life has improved. Ditch your panty liners, stop the embarrassing dribbles, and no more mad dashes to the restroom because of a weak bladder. Even my sex life has improved; I have control of those pelvic muscles now. Just remember to wash the weights before and after each use with an antibacterial spray, and allow time to air dry before putting them away. I say air dry because if you wipe them dry with a cloth you run the risk of giving yourself a bladder infection or urinary tract infection, and those are no laughing matter. Easy to use, easy to clean, stores away quickly." — Julie Tauber
Get a set of six weights from Amazon for $49.98.
2. A pair of soft silicone Loop noise-reduction earplugs if you've become sensitive to any loud/distracting/annoying sounds entering your space as you've gotten older (looking at you, engine-revving motorcyclists!). These can help block out distracting sounds so you can focus on close conversations and whatever tasks you have to get done.
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Promising review:"I work in a laboratory, so I am constantly surrounded by lots of sounds varying in pitch and frequency, which can be very overwhelming, especially for someone with noise sensitivities. I have had several people recommend these to me, so I decided to give them a try. I am so happy I did! When I put these in, it feels like I'm coming into my peaceful little bubble. They allow me to have a higher tolerance for noise and have overall reduced my stress and overstimulation of the environment I'm in. It seems like they do a good job at blocking out noises I personally find the most distressing (ie. high pitched, constant noises)." — Makayla
Get it from Amazon for $34.95 (available in seven colors; check out Loop's Amazon Storefront for more options related to concerts, offices, and parenting).
3. A skin-firming neck and chest Gold Bond cream designed to help improve the texture, elasticity, and appearance of your skin. Plus, it's got hyaluronic acid to keep your skin hydrated. If you've never thought to add your neck and chest to your skincare routine, now might be the time to start.
Promising review:"I've been using this for five days, and I can't believe how much it's helped with the saggy skin under my chin. I'm 37, and I've been using various products, but nothing was making a difference, and my skin continued to get loose in that area. I came across this, looked at the reviews, and decided to try it, though I honestly wasn't sure it would work for me, considering other things I've tried that haven't helped. I can't even express how much better I feel now. I have no idea how this cream works and actually tightens up the skin, but I'm so grateful. I'm no longer self-conscious about it, and I actually like looking in the mirror now and not seeing the extra skin hanging from the bottom of my chin." — 📚#WHYCHOOSE
Get it from Amazon for $11.97.
4. A pack of 100+ light-dimming sheets so your digital alarm clock doesn't keep you up with its glaring numbers. Oh the irony.
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Promising review:"These are simply awesome! Such a small thing can make such a big difference. At night when I opened my eyes, I was flooded by little dots of light intruding my space from all my electronics: the TV and cable receiver, the modem, the routers, the electric blanket control switch, the microwave, the smoke alarms, cell phones, etc. And it doesn't take much to interfere with a good night's sleep. These will mute and soften those bright lights so they don't bother you anymore. Thanks for a great 'little size, big results' product!" — Ziapetlady
Get it from Amazon for $3.99.
5. A pack of two durable legging organizers because your collection of leggings has just been stuffed in a drawer, taking up space and getting super scrunched up. Make it easier to grab your favorite pair from your closet!
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Promising review:"I bought these because I have limited closet space. The ability to hang 20 pairs of leggings saves me tons of room. I also like the clips that hold the leggings; they do not leave marks on the waistband!" — Sarah
Get them from Amazon for $15.99+ (available in two colors and a pack of four).
6. A non-greasy CeraVe under-eye cream that contains hyaluronic acid and niacinamide to helps hydrate and soothe skin, and may leave you with brighter and less puffy under-eyes.
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Promising review:"This has truly been a savior for my under-eye concerns. It works wonders on dark circles and puffiness, leaving my delicate eye area feeling nourished and rejuvenated. The gentle formula doesn't irritate, and I've noticed a significant improvement in the overall texture and appearance of my skin. A must-have in my skincare routine!" — Veronica Smith
Get it from Amazon for $14.44.
7. A pack of four cactus-shaped dryer balls to make sure your clothes and bedsheets dry evenly and completely. Plus, they're reusable and just so darn cute!
Promising review:"These are the only dryer balls I've found that actually made me not need fabric softener sheets. It cuts down on static, and I don't find pet fur clinging to my clothes when I pull them out of the dryer." — Tianhui Fan
Get them from Amazon for $8.99+ (available in five styles and larger pack sizes).
8. A pack of four duster sponges you simply dampen and then you're ready to clean! It's that easy. Watch as it catches and removes dust, debris, hair, and stains around your home.
Promising review:"I am a bit of a neat freak. These have been soooo useful for cleaning my baseboards, blinds, and fans. They can be used on really any surface, but they are specifically good in those spots. They can be submerged in warm, soapy water and reused over and over again. They are comparable to the Scrub Daddy damp dusters. There are a bunch of them in the box, and they are all individually wrapped. A great deal and a great product!" — Bryn
Get them from Amazon for $9.99 (available in six color combinations and three pack sizes).
9. A bottle of Wet & Forget shower cleaner because no one wants to scrub their bathtub clean. With this, you'll just spray it on, wait 8–12 hours, then rinse it off. Super easy!
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Promising review: 'I have well water. Something in my well water reacts with copper plumbing and turns my shower tiles blue. Since my bathroom color scheme isn't on the blue spectrum, this is problematic. The well water also causes the shower glass to film up quickly. I've tried dozens and dozens of cleaners and scrubbed 'til my arms ached, trying to get ahead of the blue and scumminess. My ambition in life is NOT to be a full-time bathroom scrubber! I saw this stuff on a professional house cleaner's TikTok (sorry, I don't remember which one) and thought, 'What the heck, might as well give it a try.' Oh my goodness, the first day after my shower, I sprayed this stuff all over and walked away. The next morning, there was a NOTICEABLE reduction in the blue, and the glass looked clearer, too. On day two, I sprayed again and walked away. The next morning, the blue was gone except for a few spots on the floor tile, and the glass looked amazing. On day three, I sprayed the remaining spots, and the next morning, the shower practically looked new. NO SCRUBBING AT ALL!!!! This is my new favorite shower cleaner. The ONLY con I have is that it makes me sneeze while I'm spraying from inside the shower, but I can live with that.' — L. J. Petillo
Get it from Amazon for $20.98+ (available in two sizes, two scents, and a pack of two).
10. A bottle of Feed-N-Wax wood polish that'll not only enhance your floor and furniture's shine, but also layer them with a protective coating of carnauba wax and beeswax, so there's less polishing for you to do in the future.
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Promising review:"I LOVED using this in my kitchen. It made my cabinets look like they were recently redone. I didn't do anything extra; I just wiped my cabinets with my normal cleaner and then used this, and like magic, my kitchen was brand-new. I also used it on some shelving, banisters, and my hutch; they all looked amazing. And the hutch wasn't as annoying to dust for a while." — tiffany b
Get it from Amazon for $9.98.
11. A vegan K-beauty facial cleanser formulated with rice water to help brighten and hydrate skin. This rich, foaming cleanser will also help smooth out your skin.
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Promising review:"Doesn't irritate my skin at all. Amazing quality. Easy to use. Doesn't break me out at all. Removes all the dirt and grime off my face. Leaves my skin looking much brighter and helps remove that 'I never sleep' look." — Aurora James
Get it from Amazon for $12+ (available in two sizes).
12. A pet hair remover so you can reclaim your couch from the mob of fur that's been calling it home in a few quick swipes. And because it doesn't use disposable adhesive strips, you can use this thing over and over and over and over and...
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Promising review:"I've had it in my possession for like two hours, and I've cleaned everything. The couch, the blinds, the cat tree pad, the chair; I'm obsessed. I feel like this thing should win an award for being so awesome. I feel like it should be in raffle baskets and giveaways and silent auctions for every event that highlights 'things cat people need.' It's better than those sticky rollers; it's better than the one-directional velvet wand thing that I always use the wrong way. It's the best." — Meowser
Check out our ChomChom pet hair remover review for more deets!
Get it from Amazon for $24.99 (available in two colors).
13. A pack of K-Cup cleaners if you haven't cleaned your machine in awhile and your coffee hasn't been tasting quite like coffee lately. Pop one of these nontoxic cups into your Keurig to give it the deep clean it's been needing.
Promising review: 'I had no idea that cleaning a Keurig was a thing. I bought these because I saw them on TikTok, believe it or not. I wanted to give it a go because my Keurig isn't that old and I didn't think it would do anything. IT WORKS SO WELL! My Keurig wasn't as nasty as some I've seen luckily. I would highly recommend. Keeps everything running correctly and clean.' — Lauren
Get a six-pack from Amazon for $9.95.
14. A wine wand designed to remove 90% of histamines and sulfites, which can be responsible for headaches and upset stomachs. And not only is it super portable (yes, take it with you on your girls' trip to the vineyard), but it can also aerate your wine!
Read more about sulfite allergies and wine at Cleveland Clinic.
Promising review:" I will admit, I was a bit skeptical before I purchased these. My boyfriend has never been able to drink wine due to an allergy to the sulfites. He has tried several times over the years with both red wine and white wine, but after one sip, he would begin to get itchy and wheezy. I have always been a wine drinker and recently moved to San Francisco. I have been thoroughly enjoying living so close to Napa and Sonoma. I decided there had to be a solution, and Amazon did not disappoint. These wands are super easy to use and we have been able to enjoy multiple bottles of wine together with no reactions! I can even tell that it aerates very well and helps bring out some of the flavors when I compare our glasses to each other. I would definitely recommend!!" — Amanda Taylor
Get a 3-pack from Amazon for $11.99+ (available in larger pack sizes).
15. The Pink Stuff cleaning paste because no sticky saucepans, streaky stainless steel, or gunked-up glass shall prosper against you! This versatile and easy-to-use paste has got you covered from your caked-on stovetop to your dirty rain boots. It can even remove those colorful drawings your kids left on your white walls!
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Promising reviews:"I have never seen my sink so clean! It removed the limescale with a regular wash cloth and a little scrubbing." — Cndrla
"I need this in bulk!! I have tried so many cleaning solutions to get out hard cooking stains on my stove top and nothing worked! This stuff took it right out without a problem!!" — Micaela Gunderson
Get it from Amazon for $5.97.
16. A hydrating Dr. Scholl's heel repair balm that'll help soothe dry feet and fill heel cracks. If your feet need deep-penetrating moisture, this hydrating balm might do the trick.
Promising review:"I have a history with dry, very cracked, crocodile-like (lol!) heels. My heels were so hard and cracked that they would cause tears in my sheets and socks. I have tried [a million] products. All of them worked for like a hot minute. This though. This has CHANGED my feet!!! I went through a regimen of applying it daily after a shower and putting socks on. The texture of my feet gradually got smoother and smoother, and now they feel and look like normal feet!!!" — Amazon Customer
Get it from Amazon for $6.47.
17. And three pairs of self-heating Dr. Scholl's foot masks formulated with shea butter to help moisturize, and essential oils to help soothe and calm. Just wear these masks for 30 minutes to get some much-deserved relief and relaxation.
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Promising review:"After some shoes killed my feet after walking all day in Europe, this foot mask saved the day. It felt AMAZING on my feet and helped me recover a lot faster than just taking ibuprofen. Don't travel abroad without this!" — Maria
Get it from Amazon for $11.97.
18. A water-based instant carpet spot remover since it'll erase life's little messes in the blink of an eye. Those stubborn wine, pet, coffee, food, and dirt stains will be a thing of the past!
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Promising review:"The only reason I'm giving the Folex 5 stars is because there's no place to give it 10. My dog, Sweetie, while playing on the tan carpeting in the family room, got hold of a blue Pilot G2 pen and chewed through the outer casing and the ink cartridge, leaving an approximately 6-inch by 12-inch area of carpeting splotched with blue ink. It took four or five applications, but following the label instructions to the letter, the spot was totally removed. Way to go, Folex. Outstanding!" — Bob
Get it from Amazon for $6.33.
19. A water-resistant insulated water bottle carrier because you've got a day full of walks, hikes, and errand-running to attend to and staying hydrated for all of that is simply necessary.
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Promising review:"Very handy when traveling or at the gym! I got this one after getting a different brand that is smaller. I love the extra pockets on this and the roomie section for ANY water bottle or a smaller water bottle and other stuff. The zipped pocket holds my iPhone Max just fine. Just took this on a cruise and several people commented wishing they had one. So much easier than a backpack or something for your water bottle." — Judy
Get it from Amazon for $14.99+ (available in 14 colors).
20. Shower curtain rings with separate hangers for your curtain and liner that will make taking them down and switching them out so much faster and easier.
Some reviewers even use these to hang their pants/jeans!
Promising review:"This is one of those items you didn't know you needed, and once you get it you can't help but wonder how you ever managed before. I absolutely hate taking the shower curtains off because of the whole open and close for multiple shower curtains. I know you're like, 'It's just shower curtain hooks.' And it is. But when you have to change out the creepy shower liner that likes to attack you, and you dread doing so, this just adds seconds to your life. No more unsnapping. Simply take out the liner, place the liner on the appropriate hook, and presto." — Nardsbaby
Get it from Amazon for $6.99+ (available in 16 colors).
21. A glasses lens cleaner made with carbon microfiber to gently remove streaks and smudges.
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Promising review: "I saw this on TikTok and wanted to get it. I wear glasses daily and often don't realize how dirty they are until I see a reflection through them. I've used cloths before, but they get weirdly oily and leave smear marks. This does not. I love it so much, and I don't lose it in my purse." — Clair F
Get it from Amazon for $19.99 (available in 21 colors).
22. A tube of Nerdwax if your glasses love to slide down the bridge of your nose like a 2-year-old on a playground. This will create a layer of friction between your glasses and skin, allowing your glasses to stay put for as long as all frickin' day.
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Nerdwax is a US-based small business that specializes in all-natural anti-slip eyewear products.
Promising review:"I can see why it's one of the most successful products seen on Shark Tank. Truly a game changer. I thought I would forever struggle with my glasses moving down my nose all day long, but this really keeps them put! One less annoyance to deal with while wearing glasses. I already know I'll be a lifelong customer for this product." — M.L. Gomez
Get it from Nerdwax on Amazon for $9.99.
23. A reparative K-beauty snail mucin essence with a hydrating and hypoallergenic formula that can potentially help lighten dark spots and fine lines.
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Promising review:"I was skeptical because I thought this was just an overhyped item, but within the first two days, I saw a noticeable difference in the glow and texture of my face. After a week, even more so. I already have a pretty solid skincare routine so I didn't think this would make the big impact that it did. I highly recommend, and it will definitely be a staple of my routine from now on." — andy
Get it from Amazon for $18.95.
24. A pair of fleece-lined Crocs because your feet deserve comfort all year long. This cozy spin on a classic will keep your toes nice and warm.
Promising review: "Magic for your feet! I never thought I'd be a Crocs person, but after a year of only wearing slippers during COVID-19, my feet were not doing well. I wanted something soft and warm, like a slipper, but with arch support and a durable sole. Didn't realize that was going to be so hard to find! They're warm enough to run around without socks in spring and fall but work great with adding socks of all sorts of thicknesses for the winter. There's a reason people that spend all of their day on their feet swear by these shoes; I'm starting to understand why." — airmcghie
Get them from Amazon for $37.80+ (available in women's sizes 4–17/men's sizes 2–15 and 34 colors).
And if you're more into fur than fleece, Crocs makes faux fur-lined platform Crocs too!
25. A saline nasal gel formulated with aloe to help soothe irritated and dry noses. Whether it's allergies or winter dryness that's got your nose feeling blue, this nongreasy gel will give you some comfort.
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Promising review:"I don't like to talk about it, but every year, my nose becomes super dry to the point where I sometimes get a bloody nose. I usually use some squeeze saline, but it got so bad this year that I decided to get this gel. A dab on a finger or a swab and my nose is hydrated, moistened, and not dry as a desert. No winter bloody noses! It is very light, is not slimy or like Vaseline, and it does not have any smell." — Catherine
Get it from Amazon for $3.62.
26. A bottle-emptying kit so you can get every last drop of that $$$ serum you treated yourself to. These reusable caps will help save you lots more $$$.
The kit comes with six adapters (to make them fit various bottle neck sizes) and six purple dispensing stands.
Promising review:"This is such a great tool for using every last bit of product and reducing waste. We used this on a bottle of lotion that we thought was empty but got nearly six more months out of it when we put this on. We were shocked. I use this for my shampoo and anything else that I can think of." — Felishia Rae
Get the kit from Amazon for $19.99 (available in smaller packs).
27. A pack of eight space-saver bags that are simply essential for traveling. These airtight bags don't require a vacuum or pump and can fit easily in a backpack or suitcase. Or use them to store out-of-season clothes in your closet.
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Fellow BuzzFeed writer Emma Lord swears by these:
" HELLO, I AM OBSESSED WITH THESE. Despite all the rave reviews I was definitely skeptical of space-saving bags that didn't require a vacuum, and even as they were actively squishing my clothes into oblivion I still couldn't quite believe it. I had easily two suitcases worth of clothes I wanted to pack for a three-week trip to London, and I managed to neatly pack the entirety of my wardrobe in one roller carry-on bag. Truly all I had to do was put my clothes in the bag, push them to the bottom, and then sit on it to get the air out before sealing it up. I had tons of extra bags and make a habit of taking them with me in case other people joining me on trips need them to be able to pack souvenirs on the way home. I'm never taking a long trip without these again — these are worth every damn penny."
Promising review:"These work great. I use them for travel and for storing clothes in the attic between seasons! And they don't rip or tear!" — Deeda
Get it from Amazon for $15.98.
28. A pack of two flexible dryer vent cleaners because there's likely a bunch of trapped lint causing your clothes to still come out kinda damp. Use this to get all that fuzz out, which will also help to prevent dryer fires!
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Promising review:"I clean my dryer vent after every single use. I was shocked to see so much lint and dust come out! It was very simple to use and it really works! I kept one for myself and gave the other to my daughter." — Shari Schmidt
Get it from Amazon for $8.49.
29. An orthopedic knee pillow for all you side sleepers out there. It can provide your knees with extra comfort and support and could potentially help relieve back, sciatica, and hip pain. Because, sorry, you're not 15 anymore and your bones have been trying to tell you that.
Read more about the best sleeping positions for pain at Cleveland Clinic.
Promising review:"I'm a side sleeper and have had hip pain that kept me from sleeping all night for a long time. I used a regular pillow between my knees, but it didn't cut it. So, I decided to just try this pillow. It has made all the difference in my sleep. Hip pain no longer disrupts my sleep." — C. Bingham
Get it from Amazon for $21.49+ (available in two sizes and two styles).
30. A padded wire-free bra with drawstrings that'll allow you to adjust the amount of cleavage you wanna show. This bra also features soft foam lining for comfort and an added lil' ~push up~.
A reader just like you bought these and likes them so much they left a comment saying so:
"I stumbled upon a review for this bra in one of your posts, immediately headed to Amazon to check it out for myself, and omg, I had to immediately order one because for the price, why not, right?! Well, it came in, and I loved it so much that I had to order more. No more overpaying for the Bombshells from Victoria's Secret; these bras are hands down way better and also only a fraction of the cost! I cannot say enough good things about them. I absolutely love them!" — shelbypeach
Get it from Amazon for $19.99+ (available in band sizes 32–40, cup sizes A–D, and 10 colors).
32. An egg cracker and spoon rest because you gotta crack a few eggs if you wanna make an omelet, and the way you've been doing it has led to bits of eggshells in your mouth...
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Promising review:"I absolutely cannot believe I'm doing this. I got this because I am ALWAYS having to pick out the shell when I crack an egg, whether for breakfast or my baking. Since buying this, I have cracked dozens of eggs without ANY shells in it. To say I am happy is an understatement. If you don't have one you should rush to get one. We are going to get them for wedding gifts when we know that the couple loves to do their own cooking. Kudos to whoever thought of this. It works perfectly, every time." — Edwin Myers
Get it from Amazon for $9.99+ (available in five colors and packs of three).
33. A set of YogaToes gem-shaped toe stretchers that may help with bunion, hammer toe, or plantar fasciitis pain.
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Check with your doctor before starting any new personal care regimen. Note: these should be worn barefoot and not while wearing any shoes.
Promising review:"I have an overlapping toe and a bunion that started forming on one foot. I use the YogaToes daily for 15–30 minutes to help create space between the toes and relax the feet. I love how my feet feel when I take them off and walk around. My feet feel stronger and more relaxed. I am a fitness instructor and also teach yoga. I use them before class for a few minutes. They help me feel more grounded as I move." — Deirdre Sherman
Get it from Amazon for $36.95.
34. A portable Bissell multipurpose carpet cleaner to take care of those spots and stains on your carpets, couches, and more. It's got powerful spray and suction so those stubborn messes will be gone in mere moments. Deep clean made easy!
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Promising review: "Yup, saw it on TikTok and had to buy it. My car's upholstery was so dirty from my dogs and years of NOT getting it deep cleaned. This is a game-changer. I should've taken a before and after because it was awesome. Not to mention how satisfying it is seeing the dirty water get sucked back into the tank. Easy to prep. Easy to use. Easy to clean. I definitely recommend" — Taylor L.
Get it from Amazon for $98.59.
35. A makeup-correcting stick because having to completely remove your makeup to correct a mistake wastes time you simply do not have. Plus, it's infused with anti-inflammatory vitamin E.
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Promising review:"Why didn't someone think of this sooner? For years, I've been using cotton buds dipped in makeup remover to remove little goofs or mistakes. This is so much better and portable! Erases waterproof mascara marks around my eyes easily. Must-buy product!!" — Katherine
Get it from Amazon for $7.03.
The reviews for this post have been edited for length and clarity.