Ex-Wife Of Diddy's 'Sex Slave' Speaks Out, Accuses Rapper Of 'Destroying' His Life Amid Sex-Crimes Trial
Tonia Troutwine, the ex-wife of Sean "Diddy" Combs' alleged "sex slave," Jonathan Oddi, has opened up about how the rapper "destroyed" his life.
She claimed that her ex-husband lived a healthy and drug-free life prior to meeting the music mogul, but that all changed when he became the "sex slave" to the rapper and his ex-partner, Cassandra "Cassie" Ventura.
Tonia Troutwine also stated that the rapper's dark influence still haunts her ex-husband despite him knowing that Sean "Diddy" Combs is in jail and being prosecuted for sex crimes charges.
Amid Diddy's ongoing sex crime trial, the ex-wife of his alleged "sex slave" has offered rare insight into how the rapper reportedly ruined Jonathan Oddi's life.
Speaking with TMZ, Tonia Troutwine shared that Oddi's involvement with Diddy and his so-called "freak off" sessions marked the beginning of a downward spiral for her former husband, whom she was married to for six years.
She specifically pointed out that Oddi lived a healthy lifestyle before meeting Diddy and had no involvement with alcohol or drugs.
However, "everything that went down with Diddy destroyed him" and seemingly set him on a path that ultimately led to his 2018 arrest for shooting up a Trump hotel.
At the moment, Oddi is currently in prison on the charges that stemmed from the incident, just like Diddy is also being detained in a county jail during his ongoing trial.
Still, Troutwine claims that her former husband fears a possible retaliation from the embattled rapper despite his current situation.
The claims from Troutwine come after she confirmed that her ex-husband indeed signed an NDA with Diddy around the time of their separation in 2014.
Oddi had previously told the police during his 2018 arrest that he signed the NDA in exchange for $5 million. At the time, he also alleged that Diddy was "scared" he would "expose" him, seemingly referencing the numerous "freak offs" he had with the rapper and his ex-girlfriend Cassie.
"I had sex with Cassie [Ventura] and Sean [Combs]. Basically, he would masturbate and tell me what to do to Cassie. I was like a sex slave. For them, that's what I was," Oddi told the police at the time.
The NDA in question was obtained by the Daily Mail and appears to bear Diddy's signature, though it remains unclear whether the signature is authentic or forged.
Previously, Troutwine also claimed that her former husband's breakdown began some months before Ventura officially ended her relationship with Diddy in 2018.
"I don't think it's a coincidence," she told the outlet. "So, if any of this is true — that P. Diddy abused Cassie or was being aggressive, Johnny definitely would've softened that situation and would've tolerated the abuse instead. He would've tried to help the situation and not make Cassie feel bad about it."
Unsurprisingly, Oddi's name has come up in Diddy's ongoing trial despite not being one of the witnesses on the federal prosecutors' list.
Cassie, who is the prosecution's lead witness, claimed that Oddi might have filed one of their "freak offs" encounters in 2013.
Amid the trial, many other details about Diddy's alleged "freak offs" have also been revealed, particularly through the testimony of Cassie, per CNN.
The singer claimed that many of Diddy's assistants and personnel were fully involved in providing logistics such as baby oil, Astroglide, and condoms. They were also often responsible for cleaning up after the sessions and booking hotel rooms when the parties took place in other states.
According to Cassie, Diddy tasked her with the duty of finding escorts for the "freak offs." He would then choose who to hire from among them and arrange for their transportation to his location. Each escort was typically paid between $1,500 and $6,000 in cash only.
Cassie also stated that she always participated in the "freak offs" because she didn't have "much of a choice," adding that she was "basically a sex worker."
In November 2023, Cassie opened the floodgates of lawsuits against Diddy when she filed a bombshell suit accusing him of sexual assault.
Twenty-four hours after the lawsuit was filed, it was settled out of court, with Diddy paying his ex-girlfriend an undisclosed sum at the time.
However, according to Variety, during her testimony on Wednesday, May 14, 2025, Cassie finally confirmed that Diddy and his companies paid her $20 million to settle the lawsuit.
When asked why she decided to testify against Diddy, Cassie said, "I'm here to do the right thing. I can't carry this anymore … the shame, the guilt."
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