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Russell Howard on how tell parenting and political jokes without sounding corny, ‘authenticity is key'

Russell Howard on how tell parenting and political jokes without sounding corny, ‘authenticity is key'

British comedian Russell Howard has that special knack for pointing out both the absurdity in the mundane and the ridiculous in the terrifying.
He became a household name in the UK through programs like the celebrity panel show 'Mock the Week,' which is similar to NPR's 'Wait Wait …Don't Tell Me,' his own headline-riffing 'The Russell Howard Hour,' and the rite of passage for all personalities willing to make fools of themselves on air by competing in hilariously ludicrous challenges: 'Taskmaster.'
In his most recent special, 'Live at the London Palladium,' which he released in January via his website, he notes that his wife Cerys Morgan's job as a medical doctor means she saves lives. His? To think of funny ways to explain the difference between the words 'out' and 'down.' He also compares humans' fear that artificial intelligence will take their jobs to the way goats must have felt when we invented the lawnmower.
His new tour, which includes an appearance at the Hollywood Improv on Mar. 23, will again find new takes on some of stand-up's most well-worn topics: parenting and politics. Howard and Morgan welcomed their son in May. And, despite this new time constraint, he somehow found time to scour the news for new material.
Speaking in January over Zoom, Howard says he took paternity leave before heading to Canada to workshop material he'd jotted into his phone during those early parenting days (and nights); some of which he freely admits might as well have been 'hieroglyphics from a lunatic in a cave.' He says he'll also frequently try out material at London's Top Secret Comedy Club just to 'throw sh— at the wall and see what sticks.'
'Normally to get it cooking, it takes me about six months and then, like really simmered and turned into a nice casserole, it takes me about a year,' Howard explains.
He also adds that 'I'm lucky enough that there are people who will let me know whether my feelings are correct by laughing. And if they do, it's fine. If they don't, okay, I'll try it three or four more times to see if it works … it's about being ruthless, I think, with yourself.'
In an interview that has been edited for length and clarity, Howard elaborated on his process as well as his thoughts on the state of the world and how comedy podcasts can be mined for good.
Parenting is a well-tread topic of stand-ups. How can you still make it interesting?
It's such virgin, fertile ground becoming a dad. You're in it and loving it. And then humor naturally arises … That's the thing about stand-up. It's the sidecar to the motorbike of your real life [and] there's always something you can just pop in.
To non-parents, or indeed, parents, talking about your child is a bit like explaining what your tattoo means. Not that many people are interested. So it becomes a really fascinating challenge to see what is universal.
My stuff has been quite political and sociological in the last couple of years. This is quite emotional, I guess. It's really funny, but it's all done from a position of naivety and love and excitement. Just that feeling of being smiled at by somebody for having done nothing is an incredible feeling. As an adult, you have to try so hard to get a smile and for it to just appear from somebody who looks like you and your wife, it's pretty magical.
There was a real phase where, because Louis CK was doing this stuff about his kids, a lot of comics ended up kind of ripping him off and just saying 'my kids are p—cks.' It becomes a very hack way of talking about 'f—ing children.' And they become the new mother-in-law. I just don't feel like that. I just can't imagine ever describing my son as a p—ck just to make strangers happy for a nanosecond.
How do you tell stories like these without it sounding corny?
I think authenticity is key. There's an awkward truth to every human being. I love watching videos of Deaf babies hearing for the first time [and] seeing the look of excitement when they can hear their mums. I also love it when I see drunk men who've fallen asleep on a train and their friends have written something on their foreheads.
My dad's got this brilliant phrase. He calls it the Red Face test. If you can tell it to an audience or somebody without going red in the face, then it's fine. He used it to talk about it for taxes and if you're doing tax schemes. If you're explaining it to somebody and your face goes red, then it is illegal.
Similarly, President Trump was constant fodder for comedians during his first administration. Is it hard to find new things to say about him now that he's back in office?
If you talk about something with passion or interest, you naturally figure out when you're boring on stage, or when you're pushing people, and your brain will say something funny to get you out of it.
Talking about the rise of Elon Musk within the kind of cultural discourse is kind of fascinating to me. I'm an English guy watching a South African control an American president, and seeing him [also support] Tommy Robinson, who is a football hooligan from the UK. It's hilarious to me that he's clearly an intelligent man — he can put a rocket in space and create an electric car — but he can't do his research to know that Tom Robinson defended a Winston Churchill statue by [being part of a group that did] a Nazi salute. We're not dealing with wisdom here.
The deeper you go, there's always a layer of absurdity. It's finding the absurdity within it and then getting big belly laughs once you've zoned in on your angle.
With Trump 2.0, it's sort of that thing of how do you go a bit deeper? Do you even want to talk about him? In Europe, there's a sense of resignation where people are just like, 'Ah, really, America?.' There doesn't seem to be anger. There just seems to be this still sadness. It's the observation of the machine because you see how everything is weaponized and everything is tribal. Even comedy's become tribal in America.
I'll tell you what audiences are definitely bored with is the just regurgitated 'isn't Trump orange?' joke … You're trying to find the meat rather than the gristle. I think Trump is gristle.
You also have a podcast, Five Brilliant Things, that is much softer. You ask celebrities and comedians like John Oliver and Stephen Merchant to tell stories about things that bring them happiness. How do you balance this with your stand-up persona?
The difference is you're listening to people. That's the skill of interviewing, isn't it? It took me years to do that for my TV shows.
We're taught that comedians are some of the most hardened people in the world. How do you get them to let down their guards?
I think that's so lovely about the concept because you can put anybody on there and you'd see a different side of them [because you're asking them] 'What do you love?.' It's illuminating when you let somebody ramble about things they adore because they give away [sides of themselves].
It's very easy to talk about things you hate. But it takes a lot of courage to tell people what you love And it doesn't matter how dark you are.
That was the aim, really. I just wanted to do something that was forever funny or forever interesting. So it wasn't attached to topicality.
Every comedian seems to have a podcast now. How do you choose which of your material will go on a podcast or social media and how much will appear in your stand-up?
Some people view podcasts as entertainment and some people view them as religions. That's the big thing, isn't it? What do you take from this? Is it a long radio show or is that person a prophet? And I definitely think it's a hang.
What's great about a podcast, and why people have such a strong relationship with them, is because this [person] goes to work with you; is in your ears when you're on the train. There are people who feel like they've had a chat or a voice note from Marc Marron from [listening to his 'WTF' podcast].
As a consequence, he can probably go deeper to his fans at a gig. His last special, ['From Bleak to Dark,' which was about the death of his partner Lynn Shelton] was obviously dealing with something horrific. But it was a really honest assessment of devastation. He probably couldn't have done that if he hadn't done the podcast because that gave him the space to have that kind of role.

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‘A giant parenting group': how online comedians are making a living by laughing about the chaos of kids

Many Instagram-frequenting parents of small children will have seen George Lewis's sketch about two toddlers discussing their feelings of abandonment and relief wrapped in a game of peekaboo. 'It was a normal day, I was just playing with Dad. And then he put his hands in front of his face and he was just gone,' the British comedian and father says in the widely shared video. 'He was behaving so erratically.' Life through a two-year-old's lens – especially in relation to their sleep-deprived parents – is fertile ground for a growing group of online parent comedians whose content is clocking up millions of views. At the heart of the material lies age-old truths: toddlers are sometimes barmy and parenting is often mad. There is a special solidarity among the carers of young children whose days revolve around coaxing vegetables into mouths and bottoms on to potties. In Canada, Farideh Olsen's take on the absurdities of motherhood has one eye firmly on the patriarchy. A sexy husband, her songs suggest, is one who does housework, has therapy and respects women. The 42-year-old singer says it has been a surprise to see how much mothers love watching other mothers 'joking about children and partners and marriage and their love for their children'. 'And, I think that's because a lot of mothering is extremely lonely,' she says. 'You're at home with your kids by yourself, maybe you meet up at a park, but then you don't have the depth of a relationship to joke about your kids.' In the odd three minutes or so that mothers have to check their phones, 'they see something that kind of reflects their life – they find the levity in it,' she says. UK comedian Michael McIntyre was a forerunner when it came to mining laughs from parenting struggles. He told packed theatres well before Covid: 'You never love your children more than when they are unconscious, but still breathing.' Today's troupe of parenting commentators home in on micro moments – a request to cut a toastie exactly in half, the unhinged cackle that follows being asked how the toddler slept, that game of peekaboo – that capture the same sentiment. Farideh thought her music career had been both serious and over before she began writing songs about motherhood. She never considered herself a comedian, nor was she interested in material about parenting, until she had children. While many parenting influencers are female, comedy – including the short-and-sharp social media variety – 'is still very male-dominated', she says. Sydney-based stay-at-home father Sean Szeps' video about the ABCs of parenting – 'A is for 'Absolutely not', B is for 'Brush your teeth'…' delivered with more than a little loopy energy – has almost 40m views on his social media platforms. Last year, all of the 37-year-old's video posts, inspired by his twin seven-year-olds, had a combined 228m views, according to Szeps. Zach Mander, 35, based in Brisbane, has 265,000 TikTok followers and his most popular post has more than 10m views. He has followers all over the world but, as with Szeps, most are in English-speaking countries. They both credit their successes to the pandemic when creative communities on social media took the edge off lockdowns with children. Like their overseas counterparts, they've earned sizeable niche audiences that wouldn't have been accessible to real-world comedians playing clubs with disparate audience members. And they're doing it with disarming honesty. 'Up until that point, my style was incredibly positive, and then the pandemic hit, and I couldn't hold back any more,' says Szeps, who's married to TV presenter and podcaster Josh Szeps. 'Technology,' he says, exploded 'at the same time as we evolved to realising that it would be much better if we were honest about parenthood'. The result was that a 'shit-ton of mums and dads now make an entire career and a living on just sharing what women mostly, but parents overall, have been feeling for decades, which is: it's hilariously hard. It is undeniably difficult. If we can't laugh about it, we're going to sob uncontrollably'. Mander's spoof investigative examinations of Bluey characters, and a video about his children inexplicably losing a slice of pizza in the car (it emerged weeks later 'almost mummified'), are among his biggest hits. 'I've always made content on things that I was experiencing, and it doesn't come much bigger than parenting,' he says. 'I'm amazed we don't talk about it more.' For some, it's really paying off. Szeps, who has a background in social media advertising, has been living off his Instagram account's sponsored content for four years and growth is up 50% year on year. It helps, too, that there will always be new parents. Mander, whose children are two and four, says that because the early years parenting cohort resets about every five years, so does a 'whole lot of people experiencing this for the first time – and those are my cohort'. Viewers are mostly women, both Szeps and Mander say. Szeps, who moved to Australia from America in 2017, has a theory as to why some of the dozen or so male 'power hitters' in the parenting humour space are men talking exclusively to women – and it's down to old-fashioned gender roles. 'We don't want women necessarily to be brutally honest about how hard parenting can be, because that makes us worried for the kids. When a man does it, it's much more accepted,' he says. Parenting jokes sometimes break into the wider satirical space, of course. The Betoota Advocate recently ran a headline: 'Toddler who refuses toast cut the wrong way allegedly ate four servings of vegetable dahl at daycare.' For Szeps, Instagram has become a 'massive, giant parenting group'. 'You still have to navigate the complications. You still have to navigate the perfect parents. You still have to navigate comparison. 'Parenting is so hard, but I don't feel alone in it any more, the way that I felt prior to sharing my experiences online.'

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