I'm a Dubai wife & there's 10 phases you go to before marriage – the ‘finding a hobby' period equals unlimited spending

The Sun

10-07-2025

A RICH Dubai wife has revealed the 10 phases you must go to before marriage.
Soudi, a stay-at-home wife who is married to her millionaire man Jamal, explained that during the 'finding a hobby' period, you will be exposed to 'unlimited spending' on your hubby-to-be's credit card.
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Not only this, but the brunette beauty who lives in influencer hotspot Dubai, acknowledged that you mustn't 'ask questions' during the 'always spontaneous' period.
Posting on social media, Soudi shared the 10 'phases of dating an Arab man', leaving many totally stunned.
And prepare to be stunned, as numerous users described Soudi's relationship as 'very sad.'
The first phase, according to Soudi, who was 'born to be an Arabian wife' and even claimed to have ' manifested ' her marriage, is the 'dating phase.'
During this phase, when going on dates, you must 'always dress 10/10.'
Not only is appearance important at this time, but during this period, you will be taken to luxury restaurants and can expect your man to reply 'after 0.1 seconds.'
The second stage when dating a man from Dubai is the 'don't run away gift' period.
During this phase, women shouldn't desire 'words of affirmation,' but instead, can expect to be 'spoiled with gifts.'
Soudi stressed that for a lot of men in Dubai, buying designer gifts, such as bags, clothes and even posh candles, is 'their way of showing affection.'
After this comes the third stage of dating, which involves 'random vacations every month.'
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According to Soudi, this phase is 'always spontaneous', and you won't have to worry about expenses, as all you'll need to do is 'enjoy yourself.'
But Soudi warned that it's important that during this period, you 'don't ask questions' and instead, 'just participate."
When it comes to the fourth stage, women can expect 'flowers and lack of time.'
Soudi claimed that during this period, you can expect that your potential husband-to-be will 'always' be busy, but will 'never fail to show his love', which will involve receiving flowers weekly.
Once this stage is over it's into the 'finding you a hobby phase.'
With your potential hubby busy earning a living, Soudi claimed that during this period you can expect your partner to 'drop you off at Pilates every morning.'
Soudi claimed that when you enter this phase, you 'won't have to work anymore' and instead, 'he sends you to art galleries instead.'
And it's not just admiring art that's involved in this stage, as according to this content creator, it also promises 'unlimited spending to buy anything you want' too.
After this comes the " Lamborghini phase', which according to Soudi, needs 'no explanation.'
Following on from this is the 'constant spoiling' phase, which 'helps prepare you for the final stage.'
Next it's the 'five star getaways' period, whereby your days are spent at lavish retreats and posh hotels.
Then, after this is the 'princess treatment' phase, which Soudi described as the "preparation for the final stage.'
For the ninth stage of the process, which is also known as 'the wifey stage', aka the 'final phase', you can expect numerous questions and requests from your man.
Soudi claimed that once you reach this phase, you shouldn't have male friends, will need to let your husband know where you are and may be questioned by him on what you wear.
Once you pass this period, you can then enter the 'modest wife era', which Soudi revealed is the goal for those wanting to be an Arabian wife.
Social media users react
The TikTok clip, which was posted under the username @ soudiofarabia, has clearly left many open-mouthed, as it has quickly gone viral and racked up 3.8 million views.
Not only this, but it's also amassed 215,800 likes, 1,952 comments and 12,500 shares.
But social media users were shocked by Soudi's claims and described her relationship as 'weird.'
One person slammed: 'How sad. How very very sad.'
Another added: 'This is not a relationship, it's a business deal.'
A third commented: 'May this 'love' never find me.'
Meanwhile, someone else snapped: 'No thanks, I'll make my own money.'
Not only this, but one woman claimed: 'Couldn't have worked on me. Gifts make me feel weird.'