If You've Dated Someone With Different Political Views, How Did Things Turn Out?
If you've ever been in a relationship with someone who doesn't share your political views, you know it's not always easy. Whether the difference is subtle or a stark ideological divide, balancing love and politics can lead to some pretty interesting challenges.
This seems to be quite common in today's climate, and it's not always easy to blame anyone for it. A survey done by the Survey Center on American Life reveals that more than 50% of single women in America said they would be less likely to date a Trump supporter. Meanwhile, that same study says that 39% of single men would be less likely to date a feminist.
For more anecdotal evidence, look no further than the latest season of Love Is Blind. Season 8 ended with Sara Carton rejecting Ben Mezzeng because she felt their values didn't align, specifically surrounding social issues such as Black Lives Matter and sexual and gender equality.
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'I remember I asked him about Black Lives Matter,' Sara told her mother and sister after leaving Ben at the altar. 'He was like, 'I guess I've never really thought too much about it.' That affected me. Especially in our own city. …How did it not make you think about something?'
Devin Buckley and Virginia Miller's romance fizzled out similarly. Virginia decided against marrying Devin because his political and social views differed greatly from hers.
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"Devin told me a lot about his core values. Something that he did not want to talk about on camera. I still, to this day, don't really feel comfortable telling you Devin's views, but I will be really clear about mine," she said. "I 100% support the LGBTQ+ community. I also believe that women should have the decision to choose if they wanna have an abortion or not. I also believe that different religions should be valued. That is our different ways of communicating to God, like different languages."
That isn't always the case either, though. Sometimes, a bond can be stronger than politics. With this in mind, I want to ask the BuzzFeed Community to share their experiences dating someone with different political views.
Perhaps the topic of politics became more prominent in conversations. Did every dinner start feeling like a political town hall? Or did it force you to get more informed?
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Maybe you tried to change each other's minds. Did it work?
Regardless of the outcome, we want to hear from you. Comment down below with your experiences dating someone with different political beliefs. Alternatively, if you'd prefer to remain anonymous, fill out this Google Form. Your response could be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed post.
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