10 years on, survivors of fatal Mount Kinabalu expedition return to finish what they started
Mr Emyr Uzayr (left) and Mr Prajesh Dhimant Patel returned to Mount Kinabalu in May to finish the journey that they embarked on in 2015. PHOTO: COURTESY OF EMYR UZAYR
10 years on, survivors of fatal Mount Kinabalu expedition return to finish what they started
SINGAPORE - A decade has gone by since several pupils and teachers were killed on the slopes of Mount Kinabalu in Malaysia due to an earthquake.
News coverage of the tragedy has fizzled out , the mountain has reopened to climbers after a period of closure for repairs, and life went on.
But memories of that fateful climb have never strayed far for some survivors. Two of them from Singapore - Mr Emyr Uzayr and Mr Prajesh Dhimant Patel - returned to the same mountain in May to finish the journey that they embarked on in 2015.
At only 12 back then , they were among 29 Primary 6 pupils and eight staff from Tanjong Katong Primary School on an expedition to scale the mountain, when a 6.0-magnitude earthquake in Sabah caused a landslide and boulders to come crashing down.
Seven pupils, two teachers, and an adventure guide accompanying the group were among 18 people who were killed on June 5, 2015 .
The duo told The Straits Times that even though there was fear and hesitance , they sought closure and wanted to do it for their friends who could not.
'There was a feeling of emptiness that grew over the years, and it felt like the journey was incomplete,' said Mr Uzayr, who is now a 22-year-old undergraduate studying finance at the National University of Singapore.
'I was really scared, but I was still determined to do it. And I had Prajesh with me. If I were to go alone, I don't think I would have managed to climb up there.'
The two friends had lost touch after primary school though they follow each other on Instagram, and only reconnected after Mr Uzayr asked if Mr Prajesh was interested in completing the hike.
There was a minor setback on May 21 when they were told by a ranger they could not continue their ascent to the summit the next day due to bad weather and safety concerns.
Fortunately , the skies cleared up and the pair were able to complete the climb to the top in the early hours of May 22 .
' I could see the stars. It was as if our friends cleared the skies for us,' said Mr Uzayr.
Hiking up the tallest mountain in Malaysia was exhausting for the two friends - both physically and mentally. At 4,095m above sea level, Mount Kinabalu is the tallest peak in Malaysia.
'Every step taken, all the good moments came flooding back,' said Mr Uzayr.
'I can still recall the bad memories, but I choose not to dwell on it because it won't do me any good. Instead, I look at the positive memories, the jokes, the laughter, the happy conversations.'
Mountain guides Billy Sapinggi and Cornelius Sanan , who helped to guide the 2015 expedition, also joined the duo on their recent hike.
(From left) Mr Prajesh Dhimant Patel and Mr Emyr Uzayr with mountain guides Cornelius Sanan and Billy Sapinggi.
PHOTO: COURTESY OF EMYR UZAYR
Mr Prajesh , who was rescued by Mr Sanan in 2015, said having them as guides helped the duo have a better understanding of what went down on that fateful day.
'They told me how they found me hanging off a rope that was caught on a tree,' said Mr Prajesh , who has no memories of what happened immediately after the earthquake. The 21-year-old is studying information systems at the Singapore Management University.
'With Mr Sanan as my guide, I was able to find out more about how he had come to find me and why he decided to bring me down. Hearing these stories from them made me feel really grateful for these true heroes.'
Mr Uzayr (left) and Mr Prajesh (right) with Mr Sanan.
PHOTO: COURTESY OF EMYR UZAYR
During their hike, the duo also chanced upon and spoke to family members of Mr Robbi Sapinggi and Mr Valerian Joannes , two mountain guides who had lost their lives during the incident in 2015.
The father of Mr Sapinggi works as a guide as well, while Mr Joannes' brother works as a chef in a restaurant located on the mountain, said Mr Uzayr.
He said: 'A worker actually told me that this chef had lost his brother, so I knew I had to talk to him. I introduced myself and told him we were embarking on this after what happened 10 years ago.
'He looked at me, and immediately teared up. He gave me well-wishes, and we shook hands.'
When they finally reached the summit at around 5.45am on May 22 , it was an emotional release.
'Finally after 10 years, I could let go of all the suppressed emotions,' said Mr Uzayr.
'It was an acceptance of the future, no longer lamenting about the past or having a survivor's guilt. There was a renewed sense of purpose.'
Memorial gifts and flowers left at a tribute site set up in Tanjong Katong Primary School on June 9, 2015.
PHOTO: ST FILE
His father , Mr Wak Sadri , described his son as a 'tough young man' who has never let his parents down.
'The moment he asked me for permission (to go on the recent hike), I told him, don't come back until you finish what you started,' said the 47-year-old, who runs a vintage shop .
'Your friends in heaven, and other families and friends need this closure, be it in Sabah or Singapore.'
The duo descended the mountain on May 22, and returned to Singapore the next day.
Reflecting on their journey, Mr Prajesh said that hearing the perspectives of the guides and those they met on the way made him appreciate their determination and sacrifice.
'Due to the little memory I had of the mountain, this hike certainly brought some sense of closure.'
For Mr Uzayr, the climb made him feel lighter mentally, and was his way of honouring those who have died, and other friends and family members who were affected.
'I hope this really helps to inspire people, especially our younger generation, to keep striving for the best, to never give up, and to live life with no regrets.'
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