Hull cemetery installs 'Letters to Heaven' postbox
Richard Barker, bereavement services manager at Hull City Council, said: "The group were inspired by seeing similar letters to heaven postboxes in other parts of the country, and how they've helped people deal with their sadness at what is always a very tough time."We thank them for their donation, which we are so honoured to accept."It was unveiled by the city's Lord Mayor Councillor Cheryl Payne alongside Ms Sutcliffe.The postbox is similar to one in place at the Priory Woods Cemetery, near Cottingham.Listen to highlights from Hull and East Yorkshire on BBC Sounds, watch the latest episode of Look North or tell us about a story you think we should be covering here.
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