‘Marlee Matlin: Not Alone Anymore' chronicles the actor's personal battle for dignity

Los Angeles Times

27-06-2025

Marlee Matlin has a word tattooed on each of her wrists. On the left is 'perseverance,' on the right is 'warrior.'
'After 37 years, I'm still hustling,' she says by way of explanation in 'Marlee Matlin: Not Alone Anymore.' Referring to the ink on her left wrist, she adds, 'I look at this all the time. Every day.'
'Not Alone Anymore' is hardly the first celebrity documentary to salute its subject's tenacity. But if the contours of this story are familiar — the rise, the fall, then the rise again of an Oscar winner — director Shoshannah Stern's affectionate portrait is all the richer for the layers it reveals about both Matlin and the larger struggles of the Deaf community she embodies. The 59-year-old actor's legacy may indeed be one of perseverance, but 'Not Alone Anymore' touchingly details just how much more challenging her battles with addiction and sexual abuse have been than those of other famous people.
The film's inventiveness starts with its opening frames, in which closed captioning describes the sounds that accompany the production companies' logos: '[low humming],' '[dramatic, echoey flutters].' These descriptions occur throughout the documentary, as do subtitles for every talking head, including the Deaf participants. Obviously, these creative decisions allow Deaf and hard-of-hearing viewers to more easily experience 'Not Alone Anymore.'
But it's also a subtle acknowledgement of Matlin's trailblazing work in the late 1980s, when she used her newfound fame to convince lawmakers to require televisions to include closed captioning — a groundbreaking development for a community who had been deprived of a fuller engagement with the media they were watching.
This wasn't the only way in which Matlin has left her mark. In 'Not Alone Anymore,' she breezily recounts how, at 19, she was plucked from relative obscurity to star in her first film, the 1986 adaptation of 'Children of a Lesser God,' based on Mark Medoff's acclaimed play, about a love affair between Sarah, a Deaf janitor, and James, a hearing teacher. Matlin won the Oscar, becoming the first Deaf actor to do so. (Nearly 40 years later, she remains the youngest lead actress recipient.) At the time, her victory was hailed not just as a coronation of a promising talent but also a triumph for the Deaf, who too often feel marginalized and underestimated. But, as the documentary reveals, real progress would prove trickier to achieve.
Matlin and Stern, who is also a Deaf actor, have been friends for decades, and their interviews are mostly conducted sitting together on a couch, the conversations exuding the cozy intimacy of old chums chatting. Making her directorial debut, Stern deftly draws out her subject. Audiences will learn about Matlin's past history of drug abuse and her fraught romantic relationship with her 'Lesser God' costar William Hurt, whom she has accused of sexual and physical abuse. (Hurt died in 2022.)
But 'Not Alone Anymore' gently probes the unique difficulties Matlin's deafness created as she navigated those traumas. When she went to rehab, the facility was ill-equipped to treat a Deaf patient. And during a poignant discussion about Matlin's sexual abuse, she explains growing up with no understanding of the phrase 'domestic violence.'
'Deaf people only have their eyes to rely on for information,' she tells Stern. It's an illuminating illustration of the dangers of what the Deaf community refers to as language deprivation.
Despite her Oscar win, Matlin would repeatedly have to advocate for herself in an industry seemingly uninterested in Deaf characters. Stern uses 2021's best-picture-winning 'CODA,' which costarred Matlin, as a happy ending of sorts for her film, without denying the ongoing movement for greater Deaf visibility. But if 'Not Alone Anymore' can sometimes lean too heavily on uplifting sentiment, Matlin's story possesses a bittersweet aftertaste.
As evidenced by Matlin's years of striking, engaging performances, she is a winning presence in the documentary — funny, charming and open — even while we sense the lingering wounds from a difficult upbringing exacerbated by sexual abuse she endured in childhood. Beyond being a spokesperson for the Deaf, Matlin has also emerged as a voice for survivors, even when the world wasn't receptive to what she had to say. 'Not Alone Anymore' notes, with pointed irony, that Matlin published her candid memoir 'I'll Scream Later' in 2009, years before #MeToo, so her accusations against Hurt didn't carry the same weight in the media as the ones that would later stop powerful predators such as Harvey Weinstein.
It was hardly the first time Matlin waited for society to catch up with her. When she first arrived in Hollywood, she couldn't have possibly imagined how much of a warrior spirit she would need. 'Not Alone Anymore' honors a woman who learned how to fight.