‘It hurt to the core': Fairhope woman reunited with what's left of husband's memorial bench from pier renovations
FAIRHOPE, Ala. (WKRG) — Every month after her husband passed in 2010, Brenda Till would take a walk down the Fairhope Pier to visit her husband's memorial bench that she purchased nearly 13 years ago.
'It was a memorial marker. It was a place for us to go and visit with him,' Till said. 'I would come at night and talk to him. It was our little time, our space.'
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But everything changed one evening in the past few months when she noticed the bench was gone.
'When I got out to Frank's bench, well where it should have been, it was heartbreaking,' Till said. 'It really was. I can't even tell you what I felt that night.'
All of the memorial benches on the pier were removed during renovations and repairs to the Municipal Park as a part of the city's Working Waterfront Project that began in August 2024.
The original memorial benches along the pier were replaced with ones made of a composite, durable material. City officials said they plan to add memorial plaques to the benches soon. The old benches were made of wood and were beginning to tarnish from the outdoor elements.
'It's not the bench. It's the sentiment behind the boards,' Till said. 'My first cousin's bench was the first bench on the left as you go in. The next bench on the right was a good friend of ours, and he used to go fishing with Frank. The one up from that, we knew their family.'
'No one ever said, 'And we're throwing away your benches.' That's what hurt me more than anything,' she added.
In a January council meeting, the city declared the benches as surplus, so they could return the engraved boards to the families who originally purchased the bench. City property is not allowed to be given away without going through the proper channels first such as marking the material as surplus when it is no longer needed for public for municipal purposes.
When the city decided to surplus the boards, there were two disposal options for family members who purchased the benches: to dispose of them via landfill, or the engraved bench boards were available to family or person who donated the bench according to the council meeting notes.
Now, families can collect what's left of those benches.
Till said she was eager to discover her loved one's engraved boards were safe and couldn't wait to pick them up — until the city informed her the pickup address was the city landfill.
'I called my kids, and I said, 'I don't know if I can do this. I don't know if I can go to the dump and get Frank,'' Till said. 'It hurt to the core, it really did. But at least we got the boards back.'
At the end of the day, Till said she was just happy she was able to bring this piece of her husband's memory home.
'The relief was just unreal,' Till said. 'I didn't want to get emotional, but it meant a lot to us, to my whole family.'
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And she already has big plans for what she wants to do with her husband's wooden memorial boards.
'My sons are going to make me another bench with the boards, and we'll sit it out by the house,' Till said. 'So we'll have Frank at home still, and I'm thankful for that.'
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