Eastern Cape community steps in to support fatherless boys
NEW BRIGHTON - This Father's Day, the Nabo-Ngabantu non-profit organisation has hosted a special event in New Brighton, Eastern Cape.
The goal of this event was to support youth struggling with substance abuse and crime.
The event included a Father-Son lunch, aiming to reintegrate these youths back into society and strengthen family bonds.
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