Yoga in a Zimbabwe tavern is the latest mental health outreach in a struggling country
CHITUNGWIZA, Zimbabwe — It's before sunrise on a Saturday and a small group has gathered at Socialite Bar in on the outskirts of Zimbabwe's capital . Instead of nursing hangovers, they sit with eyes closed and bodies in meditative poses on the bare floor.
It's an unlikely setting for a yoga class. In Zimbabwe, the practice is rare and mostly found in the wealthy suburbs. Yet it is quietly taking root here in a beer tavern in Chitungwiza, a low-income town 30 kilometers (18 miles) outside the capital, Harare.
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