‘He didn't think he was a good man': new book reveals unseen portrait of JFK

The Guardian

7 hours ago

J Randy Taraborrelli has already written five books on the Kennedy family but his sixth, JFK: Public, Private, Secret, is his first that's directly about John F Kennedy, 35th US president from 1961 until his assassination in Dallas two years later.
'I have been writing about the Kennedys from Jackie's perspective for 25 years,' Taraborrelli said, referring to Jacqueline Kennedy, the first lady who lived for another 30 years after he was shot, a figure of worldwide fascination.
Taraborrelli's first book about the Kennedys 'was Jackie, Ethel, Joan: Women of Camelot, and that was in 2000. And then I did After Camelot, which was a lot about Jackie and her marriage to [Aristotle] Onassis,' the Greek shipping tycoon, 'Camelot' the name given to the Kennedys' apparently charmed circle, in reference to the legendary court of King Arthur.
'I also did Jackie, Janet and Lee, which was about Jackie and her mom [Janet Auchincloss] and her sister [Lee Radziwill]. Two years ago, I did Jackie: Public, Private, Secret, which was Jackie, cradle to grave. When that was successful, I thought, 'It's time to tell JFK's side of the story.''
Evidently, Kennedy books sell. So do books by Taraborrelli, whose subjects have also included Diana Ross, Madonna, Marilyn Monroe, Frank Sinatra, Cher and Elizabeth Taylor.
For JFK, he turned to the vast Kennedy archives but also his own extensive interviews, looked at anew, and new sources including Monroe's publicist, Patricia Newcomb, now 95, and Janet Des Rosiers Fontaine, once secretary and girlfriend to JFK's father, Joseph Kennedy, now 100 years old.
Readers 'know what they're going to get when they read one of my books,' Taraborrelli said. 'It's not going to be … a blow-by-blow of every moment in JFK's political history. I wanted to do more of a human portrait, something people can [use to] really sort of understand this man and like him or hate him, at least.'
Taraborrelli's central theme is JFK's treatment of women.
'We've always looked at JFK as this unconscionable cheating husband,' he said. 'I wanted to maybe not defend him as much as explain him, try to get into his head and tell his side of the story. This book is really a companion to Jackie: Public, Private, Secret. When you read them both, you really get a full picture of that marriage.'
It's a sympathetic picture. Taraborrelli's JFK is a relentless adulterer but one who came to some realization of his weakness, through the painful consequences of his behavior, through a belatedly deepening connection to his wife, and through the trials of office.
Taraborrelli said: 'The thing about JFK is that as unconscionable as his actions were, he still had a conscience, which made it even more difficult for him, because if you have no conscience, then you can just be a crappy person and you're OK with it. It's when you have a conscience that it causes problems for you internally.'
JFK's behavior has certainly caused problems for his reputation. As Taraborrelli was writing, Maureen Callahan published Ask Not: The Kennedys and the Women They Destroyed, a lacerating account, ceding nothing to the trappings of glamor and power.
Taraborrelli did not read it: 'If it had come out at a different time, I might have. But when books start coming out while I'm working on a book, I don't even want to know what's in them, because I don't want to inadvertently repeat the same material or be in some way influenced.
'I also made a decision early on with JFK that I did not want [the book] to be a compendium of all of his affairs … an A-through-Z list of every woman he ever slept with, because these women, many of them have written books of their own, and many of them have been interviewed for books. Their stories have been told.
'I wanted to find women that made a difference, like Joan Lundberg actually made a difference in his life. Judith Exner made a difference, though I don't believe anything she ever said about anything. She was there, you know. Mary Meyer made a difference. Marilyn Monroe makes a difference, historically if not personally.'
Whether JFK had an affair with Monroe is part of a conspiracy-laced legacy fueled by Kennedy's policies and presidency, his proximity to organized crime (in part through Exner, also involved with a Chicago mobster), and his assassination, all of it fuel for a thriving publishing industry of labyrinthine what-ifs. Taraborrelli says he has no wish to join it. He deals with the assassination in a few final pages, pointedly ignoring old questions: did killer Lee Harvey Oswald act alone, what did the CIA know. Releases of government files came and went. Taraborrelli stayed focused on his man.
He thinks there was no Monroe affair – chiefly, though Jackie expressed concern, because no evidence exists. But Taraborrelli does say JFK had a previously unknown affair with Lundberg, a Californian air hostess, in the 1950s, when he was an ambitious senator from Massachusetts. It ended for Lundberg with Kennedy paying for an abortion.
Taraborrelli said: 'JFK met Joan when he was on the outs with his family. Jackie had a stillbirth in 1956 and JFK did not return from a vacation to be with his wife. It took him a week to get back. And when he got back, everybody in the family, both sides of the family, wanted nothing to do with him. In fact, Jackie's mom was so upset that she made him sleep in the servants' quarters over the garage.
'And so he went to Los Angeles, and he met [Lundberg], and she didn't know anything about him, other than that he was a famous senator, but she didn't know him personally, and she didn't know anybody in his life. And he was able to open up to her honestly and use her as sort of a pseudo-therapist to try to work out some of his issues. And he was trying to grapple with how could he have done this to his wife?'
As Callahan shows, Kennedy men doing unconscionable things to women has never been rare. JFK's nephew, Robert F Kennedy Jr, is now US health secretary, after extensive coverage of his philandering and its tragic consequences.
Of JFK, Taraborrelli said: 'At one point, Joan said to him, 'I think that you're a good person.' And he said, 'No, I'm really not.' He did not even think he was a good man. He said he felt like he was stuck in himself and he couldn't figure out a way to get out.'
Nor could Kennedy's sister, Rosemary, who endured developmental difficulties and whose father arranged in 1941 'for brain surgery that went terribly wrong, turned her into an invalid, and then he institutionalized her and told the family they needed to forget she existed, and they all did, but JFK held this shame that he let this happen to the sister he loved.
'In the book, you realize that if he was able to disassociate himself from his own sister, who he loved, then how was he to feel about a baby Jackie had that died, who he didn't know? It's like he didn't have empathy. Jackie realized that, so she found Rosemary, the sister [JFK] had not seen in 15 years, and she encouraged him to go to and reconnect with his sister, because she knew he could not be a fully realized man, holding this dark secret and feeling ashamed.
'And so that was another building block. And then when their son Patrick died [living less than two days in August 1963] that was another building block.'
As Taraborrelli sees it, such experiences helped bring 'Kennedy out of himself' on the brink of his death, 'turn[ing] him into a different man, a man with good character … and so in this book, you see JFK take accountability for his mistakes. He says, 'The way that I was was painful, and by painful, I mean shameful.'
'He also takes accountability as a president when the Bay of Pigs [the 1961 invasion of Cuba], for instance, is a disaster. It was something he inherited from [President Dwight D] Eisenhower but he didn't blame the other administration, 'I have to clean up that guy's mess,' all that stuff. JFK went to the American people and said, 'I'm the president. This is my responsibility. I did this, and I'm sorry.' And guess what? His approval rating went up to 85%, because people want a president who takes accountability.
'But he had to become a man who could take accountability first, and he did. That's a great story, and I think it's a really hopeful story to tell, especially in these days when we question what is leadership and what do we expect from our leaders.'
JFK: Public, Private, Secret is out now