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Every year, they live and die as Revolutionary War reenactors. This year, it's special.

Every year, they live and die as Revolutionary War reenactors. This year, it's special.

Boston Globe08-04-2025

The soldiers on both sides are all Revolutionary War reenactors, and this recent, full-dress rehearsal for
'These were the first casualties to die for what we represent today,' said Henry Liu of the Lexington Minute Men, who will participate in his 35th reenactment earlier that day at Lexington Green, where the first battle of the Revolution occurred. 'It gives me goosebumps every year.'
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For Minute Men and Redcoats alike, the extended outdoor drama is a chance to blend play-acting with a deep impulse to honor the men and women who sacrificed here, real people whom they have read about and studied.
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'The goal is to show people what this battle was about,' said Bob Allegretto of North Andover, who brings more than 40 years of experience to the fight, where he will portray a British major on horseback.
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Valerie and Michael V. Graves portray a British Civillian Corps member and a Commanding Officer of His Majesty's Tenth Regiment of Foot at the Lexington Battle Green in Lexington. While the couple's day jobs are quite different, as Valerie is a receptionist, and Michael teaches at a university, they both enjoy being British reenactors of the American Revolutionary War.
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'Take cover! Fire!' another British officer barked during the rehearsal, as a cluster of His Majesty's troops crouched behind a stone wall and peered into the thick forest for a fleeting glimpse of their pursuers.
The reenactors run the gamut -- young and old, fit and overweight, male and female. They gather regularly from across New England to train, drill, and swap stories about a moment in history that many Americans know only through myth and stereotype.
The hobby often becomes a family affair taken up by succeeding generations. The passion gets passed along, too.
On April 19 in Minute Man National Historical Park, about 40,000 people are expected to watch what the National Park Service calls a 'tactical demonstration' unfold in fastidiously choreographed detail along Battle Road Trail, which stretches about five miles from Concord to Lexington.
No blank cartridges were fired during the recent drill, as they will be for the crowds, but almost everything else was designed to replicate the real thing.
That commitment comes with a price tag. Redcoats and Minute Men alike spend about about $2,500 to $3,000 each on period clothing, accessories, and muskets. And that doesn't count the cost of trips to venues outside Greater Boston for multi-day reenactments at Revolutionary battlefields such as Saratoga, N.Y., and Yorktown, Va.
Members of the Tenth Regiment of Foot, a reenactment group portraying British troops at Lexington and Concord undergo drills in preparation for the April 19 commemoration in Lexington.
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'It's an expensive hobby,' said Liu, a 59-year-old banker when he's not time-traveling. 'We used to be able to get away with linen and leather' for their outfits, but the Lexington Minute Men now require clothing to be as accurate as possible, which means wool for the coats, waistcoats, and breeches. Even the bayonets are real.
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If nature calls during a break in the battle, the woods are conveniently available. And when reenactors are encamped 18th-century style, a porta-potty is often a walk away.
'We're not at the point where we're digging trenches for that,' said Becky Audette of Ayer, a co-captain of the Acton Minutemen. 'We're weekend warriors, and every one of us needs to go back to work on Monday without a broken back.'
So why do they do it? Stephen Cole, captain of the Lexington Minute Men, offered a simple, direct explanation while addressing the group at a recent indoor run-through of this year's reenactment.
'The reason we're here is to honor the men and women we portray,' Cole said, a reminder that each of the Minute Men chose a specific person to represent. 'It's about keeping this alive for the 300th anniversary.'
Along the way, there's plenty of fun to be had. Friendships stretch across decades, and laughter erupted when Lexington Minute Men who will die on the green were told to remain 'dead' while the reenactment unfolds.
American Revolution reenactors Becky and Michael Audette stand on the Old North Bridge in Concord. The couple began reenacting in 2017 and have made their hobby a family affair. 'I think knowing your country's history is important. We never took our kids to Disney. We took them to a lot of odd places," said Becky.
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And then there was this: 'Please do not use any modern phrases. Watch the profanity!'
Jim Roberts, who turns 70 on April 19, will portray Lexington tavern owner William Munroe and call the roll of the Minute Men before the British Regulars arrive on the Green and spill the first American blood of the Revolution.
Roberts, a Lexington native who joined the reenactors 40 years ago, said the spirit of Patriots Day — 'its reverence' — was instilled in him as a child while watching the town's annual parade.
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'It's nice to fire muskets every once in a while,' but the camaraderie is special, Roberts said. And when they re-create a Revolutionary camp, he added, 'are there a couple of coolers inside a wooden box somewhere? Yes, there are.'
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That fellowship also is felt on the 'enemy' side, where the chance for Americans to wear 18th-century British military garb, load and fire a Brown Bess musket, and chase after pesky Colonials brings its own unique satisfaction, even in reenacted defeat.
'I grew up watching 'Pirates of the Caribbean' and liked the 18th century, so I had to do this,' said Tyler Salfity of Quincy, a 21-year-old corporal in the British 10th Regiment of Foot, whose historical forebears made the arduous 40-mile round-trip from Boston to Concord on the original Patriots Day.
'Honestly, it's the most fun I've ever done,' said Salfity, a history major at Bridgewater State University. 'I echo commands, yell at the guys, and tell them to get back in the ranks. I also make sure everyone has gone to the bathroom before we get under way.'
Their muskets were inspected by sergeants. They formed up in ranks. They drilled with their weapons.
'We keep track of attendance,' Graves said. 'If you're going to be promoted, we want you to show up.'
Not only that, but each new recruit repeats the oath of allegiance to King George III that the original soldiers were required to take, Graves said.
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After the inspection, the regiment decamped to the church parking lot, where it marched under the glare of a few streetlights and rehearsed the encounter on Lexington Green, where eight Colonial militia were killed and 10 wounded. On the other side, one British soldier was wounded.
Then as now, the 10th Regiment can feel the heat. When the reenactors marched in this year's St. Patrick's Day parade in South Boston, they were booed lustily from beginning to end.
'It's part of the fun. We're the bad guys, so it's only natural,' said Salfity, the British corporal. 'And it's kind of accurate, you know? Boston was not a very friendly city to the British back then, so why now?'
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More Tim Clayton/Corbis via Getty Images What struck me watching the doc is how young you were when we all were introduced to you. What was it like seeing a lot of this old footage while doing the documentary? It was the first time that I'd seen most of that footage, if I'm being honest. Obviously, the Olympic stuff I had seen, but the home video stuff and all the footage—I was reacting for the very first time that I'd ever seen that. It was very surreal to look back at my whole life in that way. I remember watching it back the first time—I was very emotional. Because I was like, "Oh my gosh. This is all the stuff that I did and had to go through." And I kind of felt sorry for younger me and how I was thrust into this thing, not really knowing how to deal with any of it. Not really having any advice or knowing anyone that was going through the same thing. Because growing up in a small town of Plymouth, there weren't many people around that had had any similar experience. 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Queen Elizabeth II meets the Olympic diving team including Tom Daley (R) at a reception held at Buckingham Palace for the 2008 Great Britain Olympic Team on October 16, 2008 in London, England. Tim GrahamWhy did you want to do the documentary now? Once I released my book in 2021, right after the Olympics in Tokyo, they approached me to do a little bit of a retrospective about my whole career and things like that, because there's so much footage out there from various documentaries that I've done in the past. But then it got to a point where they were like, "Oh, do you want to do something where you look back on everything?" And I was like, "Yeah, that would be great. But also, surprise! I'm also going back to dive again for another year." And it was one of those things that just—I don't know—it always feels weird when people approach you to do things like that. Because you're like, "Oh, what? Who would care? Who's interested in any of that?" 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How hard was it looking at that old footage, and what impact do you think he had on your Olympic success? My dad was a great guy, and he taught me so many valuable lessons I didn't even know he was teaching me at the time. Mainly to not care what anyone else thinks. As long as the people around you are happy and healthy and you're not hurting anyone, you're doing well. And he taught me so much about perspective. But seeing those videos back for the first time when they first came up, oh my gosh, it took me out. I was not ready to be hit with that straight away. I don't know if anyone else feels the same as me, but I feel guilty sometimes about the fact that, as I'm getting older—I lost my dad when I was 17, and of course, I like to think that he comes into my head every single day. But then there's some times where he doesn't—then I'm like, I don't want to forget about him, but I don't know how to feel about it being so present all the time. And just seeing that documentary and knowing that that's there for me to be able to always look back on and cherish those memories is pretty special. Tom Daley (L) and Dustin Lance Black pose at the PFLAG 50th Anniversary Gala at The New York Marriott Marquis on March 3, 2023 in New York City. Tom Daley (L) and Dustin Lance Black pose at the PFLAG 50th Anniversary Gala at The New York Marriott Marquis on March 3, 2023 in New York City. Bruce Glikas/WireImage There's also the impact of your husband, Dustin Lance Black. From the doc it does feel like so much of your life aligned after meeting him, from your marriage to even your Olympic games. Yeah, it gave me a sense of perspective. Of realizing that I'm more than just a diver. That diving isn't what matters most in life. It's all of the stuff on the outside. It's your friends, it's your family, it's feeling loved and supported. And without that, it's really difficult to succeed and not put the tons and tons of pressure on yourself. But when you go into a competition knowing that you're going to be loved and supported regardless of how you do, it's so incredibly freeing, and allows you just to be able to fly in the way that you never thought that you even possibly could. You've accomplished so much at such a young age. What do you do now? Honestly, I spend all my time knitting. There's lots of knitting that happens, which is great. Made with Love, my knitting business, is where my passion lies, and I want to keep expanding. But I also have done different TV hosting things. I just finished shooting a TV show in the U.K. called Game of Wool, which is basically like the knitting version of [The Great British] Bake Off. It's like a competition show. I'm hosting, and then there's two judges, 10 contestants. Each week, someone gets cast off—if you're a knitter, that is a knitting pun, when you cast off your work from your needles. It has been really fun. There's lots of things that we've been doing and working on with that. So yeah, we'll see what comes from that. But ideally, to work in TV hosting and expand my Made with Love passion. Britain's Tom Daley (L) knits in the stands next to Lois Toulson during the men's 3m springboard diving semi-final during the Paris 2024 Olympic Games at the Aquatics Centre in Saint-Denis, north of Paris, on... Britain's Tom Daley (L) knits in the stands next to Lois Toulson during the men's 3m springboard diving semi-final during the Paris 2024 Olympic Games at the Aquatics Centre in Saint-Denis, north of Paris, on August 7, 2024. More OLI SCARFF/AFP via Getty Images How often do people ask you to randomly knit them things? Oh, all the time. I get asked to knit things all the time. And if I knit you something, that means that you're really important. Because I'm so busy with knitting things all the time for different people and different things. I do just genuinely love it. An ideal day would literally just be sitting by a pool—actually, I've done that my whole life—maybe on the beach, let's say. And just knitting the whole day. It's just so therapeutic to me. I often look forward to going on long-haul flights just to be able to have uninterrupted knitting time. Wow. You are going to be a great senior citizen. I know! I'm so ready for being a senior citizen. Well, kind of. Not really. But yeah, I feel like I'm going to be able to pass the time. As long as my hands are still working nicely as I get older. What do you ultimately hope people take from this documentary? I mean, there's so many different things. I think, obviously, never giving up on your dreams and working as hard as you possibly can toward them. But also accepting help, keeping people around you and being able to keep those open lines of communication. Being able to really have a support system around you—whether that's family, whether that's friends—and realize a sense of perspective that you're more than just what you do. And if you take a step back or take a break from what you do, and you see it from a different perspective, it really allows your perspective to shift when you go back into it. So I think that's one thing that I hope people take away from the documentary.

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