
Divorce Lawyers Shared The Wildest Reasons Their Clients Split Up, And The Stories Are Suuuuuuper Juicy
There's no doubt in my mind that divorce lawyers probably hear some of the most bizarre details about people's marriages.
A while back, Reddit user dankph asked: "Divorce Lawyers of Reddit, what's the most outrageous reason someone filed for divorce?"
Some responses also came from this thread because they were just too good to ignore.
And the stories range from painfully petty to jaw-on-the-floor-shocking. Here are the best ones:
1. "At my last firm, we did general law, which included probate. A couple did their will with our firm. We drafted everything. They were in their mid-70s to early 80's and married for 40 years total. Divorced and remarried once. The husband wanted us to put in his will that his kids get his entire estate, but he did not want us to tell his wife. He wanted to have us make a secret will and a fake will. The fake will would be signed with her present, and then he wanted us to shred it, and he would come in later to sign the 'real will.' He accidentally copied his wife on the email that had all of this information disclosed in it. Two weeks later, he called us and said he wanted to file for divorce instead."
— PetiteChaos
2. "Because the wife spent $42,000 on psychic hotlines."
— jdoc1121
3. "His wife was a loud chewer at the dinner table. He developed a complex and literally needed out as he couldn't bear to eat with her."
— TISM_riverphoenix
4. "A couple got divorced over a cat. The wife called the cat Snowball because of its white fur and only wanted the cat to eat wet food or chicken breast. The husband called the cat Lily, again because of its white fur, and believed it should only eat dry food. These two argued for a year over custody of the cat but did not give a shit about their human kids, aged 15 months, 4 years, and 6 years old."
— sxcamaro
5. "The husband taught the parakeet certain cuss words for his wife. The bird lives with him now."
— brandonrandom9
6. "My client was the outrageous one, so my heart went out to his poor wife. He made their lives a penny-pinching hell. He was obsessed with avoiding unnecessary driving (wear and tear on the car, gas expenses), so he cut the whole family's hair at home and never let them eat at a restaurant or go to the movies. Weirdest of all: He kept one toilet paper roll on him at all times, and everyone had to get one square from him before they could go to the bathroom — he never gave more than one square. The wife finally got fed up and left him when: 1) He gave her bangs during an in-home haircut and 2) their daughter was so traumatized by the toilet paper thing they couldn't potty train her."
"Also, he HATED paying his divorce lawyer bill. He was also an old-fashioned mega-catholic who considered divorce a deadly sin. He viewed my whole job as an unnecessary (and sinful) expense."
— Julietcaravello1
7. "My dad was a divorce lawyer. He had a client who wanted to divorce her husband for two reasons: He did not have enough hair on his chest and he did not drive fast enough."
"Keep in mind this was in the '70s when chest hair was a bit more important."
— Bodhi_ZA
Max
8. "The wife was kidnapped in Mexico, and her husband refused to pay ransom. Eventually, her family managed to pay, and she was left on the side of the road."
"I don't know how much they wanted as ransom. But it was substantial as the conversation between her family and him was how he had it liquid, and they had to liquidate investments to get that amount. Her husband also wasn't with her on the trip. The wife was traveling with cousins and went downstairs alone to get ice cream and wait for them to get ready. I do not know all the details. She was extremely distraught talking about it and it was not necessary to pry. But it was clearly traumatic, and even though I had a million more questions, I left it alone."
— [deleted]
9. "I still remember an early case that I worked on where the man divorced his wife for her bingo addiction. She went to bingo 10 to 12 times per week. She was 82, he was 86."
— [deleted]
10. "The clients were two 20-somethings. They were irreconcilable because he kept smoking her weed stash when she wasn't home."
— [deleted]
11. "My boss's wife just filed for divorce because he used too much toilet paper. She was a super-thrifty coupon lady, and would even listen when he was in the bathroom to see if he was using too much."
— dizzylyingdown
12. "I was a legal assistant when this case came in, but this lady divorced her husband of two months because he got her an iPad case for her birthday instead of the expensive jewelry she wanted."
— [deleted]
13. "The husband had an argument with the new in-laws during the wedding and moved out at around 5 a.m. during the first night."
— apolloxer
14. "One that sticks out to me was when the husband and wife were both playing an online role-playing game like The Sims, except more adult. Well, the wife got very heavily involved in the game, spending 10 hours a day playing, and she wouldn't stop. The breaking point was when the husband set up a fake avatar to see what she was doing and found her avatar having sex with some random guy's avatar."
— Reddituser
15. "I worked for a law office where the owner would talk about a man who sued for divorce because his wife would no longer allow him to use a loaded gun as a... 'marital aid.' She had apparently agreed to it at some point and was fine with the gun as long as it was empty, but that just wasn't good enough for him, and he thought this was reasonable grounds for divorce."
— IRtheLaw19
16. "Because the husband insisted on bringing his mother on their honeymoon. That's where the wife discovered that the reason was because his mother was still breastfeeding him. Yes, the husband — a grown man — was still breastfeeding."
— OMGisCarolein
17. "My neighbor filed for divorce because her husband smacked his lips when he ate and slurped his coffee and soup — she thought if she didn't divorce him, she'd end up going to jail for battery."
— mollymuppet78
18. "The husband was frustrated by his wife's hoarding. She was frustrated by his utter uselessness. He filed for divorce, and she was my client. Her prized possession was a room or two full of scrapbooking materials. His prized possession was a yard full of junk cars that he never worked on. They had no children and no real assets. They hated each other more than any two people I'd ever met, and the only terms they would agree to were these: he gets the scrapbooking stuff, and she gets the cars."
"My client also took the house, as he had no income and didn't want it anyway. It was the shortest divorce decree I ever drafted. I intentionally squeezed it onto one page, and the judge and I had a good laugh over it. Once the decree was signed and filed, she hauled all the scrapbooking stuff to the yard, and he removed it to the dump. She then called a junk shop I referred her to and had all of his cars removed from the yard."
— schmerpmerp
Max
19. "A friend of mine divorced her husband because his dick was too big. She said it was fun at first, but that sex became 'too much work.'"
"When she first told me, I refused to believe it. But then she showed me a picture of them dancing at their reception, and holy shit was this guy packing heat!"
— PantiesMallone
20. "I overheard a divorcing couple in my associate's office arguing about all the reasons they disliked each other when all of a sudden the husband started screaming about the wife leaving shit stains in the toilet."
— joeredspecial
21. "The husband wanted a divorce because the wife was still wiping the ass of their perfectly healthy teenage son."
— Reddituser
22. "I once had a client who married a woman he met while he was stationed in Guantanamo Bay. Well, she was practicing cooking American dishes for him when she decided to make spaghetti and added an ingredient from an unlabeled freezer bag to the sauce. When I asked her what it was, she just replied hysterically that she didn't know any better. That's when her husband chimed in and said that the ingredient was MENSTRUAL BLOOD!"
"The wife explained to me through tears that her mother and grandmother had told her that's the way to keep her man. Her husband couldn't let it go."
— Palatron

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He helped me find my voice and be confident when it came to asking for what I want and letting a guy know what didn't feel good. Looking back, the age gap is a bit too much at that age, but I am thankful for him. He was really respectful and attentive." —Anonymous "My secret relationship is the necessary kind as opposed to the fun and exciting kind. I'm a trans man, and my partner is still in the closet. We're both bisexual, but he's never gone public about his relationships and sexual encounters with men, while I've been openly bisexual since I was 13." "It was a hot, messy, scandalous affair." "He was a successful and celebrated musician. We both were in relationships with other people. We genuinely loved each other and probably wished that it could be something more 'normal', but life didn't work like that. It was the kind of relationship that caused a buzz of electricity when we were in a room together, and everyone could feel it. He died unexpectedly, going on six years now. The day after he died, I was at a cemetery caring for a loved one's grave. I could sense the weight of it all, and at that moment, a car with a personalized plate drove by. The plate said 'LOVU4EVR' and I believe it."—Anonymous, 52, Canada "20 years after high school, a girl I knew then reached out and asked me to lunch. She told me how successful she and her husband were, and how wonderful their family was. Within 2 weeks, she caught him cheating and was over at my place doing things best not mentioned at meals. This went on for over 10 years. Once she and her husband finally split up, there was no more fun in our secret. She hooked up with the first guy that talked to her, and I retired. Everyone is happy. Even the cuckold." —Anonymous, 53, Denver "At first, it's fun and incredibly exciting! Sneaking around, stealing kisses, and spontaneous rendezvous for some action. Then basically, all your friends catch on since it's impossible not to be somewhat obvious. On top of that, people in a secret relationship normally can't keep their mouths shut and tell one person, making them swear not to tell anyone, but they will. "Overall, it's an awesome charade that can become pretty fulfilling, and mostly no one in your inner circle will care unless you are cheating. That's just quick gratification with long-lasting ramifications.I was in a 3 year relationship that began as a secret. Great experience and would never trade it for anything."–u/Hooligan_Hardguy "This is a throwaway for good reason. In my freshman year of college, I had been dating a girl for 3 years. She went to a different school at the time, so I didn't see her much, and the long-distance thing took a toll. About a month into my first semester, I met this girl in one of my classes. She was incredibly good-looking and very sweet. I had developed a bit of a crush on her, but it was nothing serious, just a bit of daydreaming. Then one day, I got a message on Facebook from her asking if she wanted to help me review her essay. She claimed to have read something of mine and really liked my writing style. I thought it was odd because she would always sit next to and talk to this other guy in class, and had never actually spoken to me. So, I met with her in the library and we started talking." "Basically, I was in love with a girl who loved me, but was more in love with her best friend. Her best friend was extremely possessive and kind of a terrible person, and didn't want to share her. It bordered on abuse and manipulation, but I couldn't convince her otherwise. So our relationship was a complete secret. Long story short, I ended up getting my heart broken, while she ended up with the person she really wanted to be with. We didn't talk for several months, and I just pretty much numbed myself to the pain. We just started talking again recently, actually, but I'm very guarded around her. For as much as I cared about her, I'll never do something so stupid again. It makes it hard to trust people." "I was a dirty little secret for the better part of 10 years (on and off). It sucked. He was insistent on not openly dating me, but everyone in his circle knew about me. His refusal to be open about it just hurt me (though he always had a good excuse.)" "Last we talked, he told me he was openly dating, and giving everything I asked for to a trailer girl with four kids who never graduated from high school. (I hold two degrees from a top-ranked university) So I declared him 'dead to me' 6 months ago and have never felt better."–u/Kopannie "Badly. We worked together and ended up dating for about a year and a half. During that time, he met my family, we went away for the weekend, did all that couple stuff, etc. But the ENTIRE time, he was completely paranoid about people at work finding out. There could be no pictures on social media, we couldn't go to work together, we couldn't leave together, we couldn't have list goes on. For a year and a half, it was horrible. And by the way... people at work knew anyway." –u/littlebev "My ex-girlfriend and I kept our relationship a secret for the first few months just because some people in our friendship group would have been unhappy about it. Eventually, we let everyone know about it, and it went well. We lasted four years and split up last year because the relationship had run its course, and we wanted different things." And finally, "Badly, yet somehow we are still friends. Took about a 5-6 month cooling-off period, though. Basically, I had to hide the relationship from my mother because she hated my gf for the actions she had done to me in the past and for how she dresses. My dad knew about it but chose not to tell my mother, as my mother has a bit of a hot streak when it comes to her temper. It mostly worked out; not being able to have her at my house all that often was a bit of a pain, but I found ways around it. What killed it, though, was not only my mother finding out eventually but an argument about sex, as I overreacted to the prospect of having a child. The breakup was somewhat amicable, but I also found out that not long after the breakup, she had sex with her ex. That shattered me for a while, but now it's nothing but a distant memory." –u/Cruxisshadow H/T: r/AskReddit
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Doechii Called Out Donald Trump In Her BET Award Acceptance Speech As She Used Her Stage Time To 'Speak Up For All Oppressed People'
Doechii has won widespread praise after she used her acceptance speech at last night's BET Awards to shine a spotlight on 'all oppressed people' amid the anti-ICE protests in Los Angeles, attacks on trans rights, and Israel's occupation of Palestine. The 26-year-old star used her public profile to deliver the inspiring speech when she won the Best Female Hip-Hop Artist award on Monday. The ceremony took place at the Peacock Theater in Los Angeles — where President Donald Trump recently deployed 2,000 National Guard soldiers to put an end to protests that erupted over the weekend. People had taken to the streets of LA to campaign against the Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) department's raids of numerous workplaces in the area while searching for alleged immigration violations. On Friday, more than 40 people were arrested in a raid, with LA Mayor Karen Bass telling reporters, 'ICE initiated enforcement actions on several workplaces. That created a sense of chaos, outrage, fear, and terror because people are very worried as to what happened to their families.' Trump's decision to use military force against the protestors led to numerous attendees being tear-gassed, including Billie Eilish's brother, Finneas O'Connell. And Doechii was keen to acknowledge what was going on in Los Angeles outside of the glitz and glamor of the BET awards. Related: 21 Incredible Photos Of Hollywood Legends Back In The Day That I Guarantee You've Never, Ever Seen Before 'I do wanna address what's happening right now outside of the building,' she began. 'There are ruthless attacks that are creating fear and chaos in our communities in the name of law and order. Trump is using military forces to stop a protest, and I want y'all to consider what kind of government it appears to be when every time we exercise our democratic right to protest, the military is deployed against us.' Related: 21 Times Celebrities Revealed Wildly Juicy, Shady, Or Even Disturbing Things In Interviews 'What type of government is that?' Doechii asked to the cheers of the star-studded crowd. 'People are being swept up and torn from their families, and I feel it's my responsibility as an artist to use this moment to speak up for all oppressed people.' 'For Black people, for Latino people, for trans people, for the people in Gaza,' she went on. 'We all deserve to live in hope and not in fear, and I hope we stand together, my brothers and my sisters, against hate, and we protest against it. Thank you, BET.' Needless to say, viewers at home were left incredibly impressed by Doechii's speech, with many applauding her for meeting the moment. 'Way to meet the moment!! Fantastic speech! I don't even know what else to say,' a popular comment on a Reddit forum reads. 'Thank you Doechii for using your platform for good.👏' somebody else wrote. One more added: 'Literally brought tears to my eyes that she's using the stage time she has to advocate.' 'Standing on the right side of the history and looking gorgeous. She has more spine than other artists,' another commented, and one more concluded: 'THIS is how you use your platform. She's an absolute queen for that. People in Hollywood should be taking notes.' You can watch Doechii's inspiring speech below — let me know your thoughts in the comments! BET / Via More on this After Numerous People Were Tear-Gassed At Anti-ICE Protests, Here's A Roundup Of Celebrities Who Are Using Their Platforms To Speak OutLeyla Mohammed · June 9, 2025 "Put This On A T-Shirt" — People Are Praising This Anti-ICE Protestor's 3-Word Response To Getting Tear-Gassed At The LA ProtestsMichaela Bramwell · June 8, 2025 Bella Hadid Visibly Relaxed When Amelia Dimoldenberg Subtly Let Her Know That She Was In A Safe Space To Embrace Her Palestinian Heritage, And It's Seriously BeautifulStephanie Soteriou · June 9, 2025 Also in Celebrity: Chrissy Teigen Posted The Results Of Her Hairline Lowering Surgery, And Ouch Also in Celebrity: 18 Celebrities Who Called Out Other Celebs On Social Media For Bad, Problematic, Or Just Plain Mean Behavior Also in Celebrity: Here Are 16 Actors Who Saved Their Skin By Turning Down Roles In Movies That People Notoriously Hated