‘My son was cut out of BBC's Harry and Meghan wedding highlights because he is black'
Sheku Kanneh-Mason was chosen to perform at the 2018 wedding, held at St George's Chapel, Windsor.
His mother, Kadiatu, said she was dismayed to see that he was cut from the BBC highlights coverage, and was not featured in newspapers the next day.
She suggested that the media did not know how to deal with a black cellist, as classical music was normally the preserve of white musicians.
Speaking at the Hay Festival, in Wales, Mrs Kanneh-Mason said: 'When Sheku played at the royal wedding, that night he was not in any of the BBC highlights. So there was the choir, there was the preacher but he was left out as though he hadn't been there.
'The next morning, we looked through all the papers. He was not there. So they decided that he was going to be absent. And we thought, what's going on here?
'I think what it was: the gospel choir was doing what it was supposed to do. The preacher was doing what he was supposed to do. But a black cellist? A black cellist cancels itself out … he's not doing what he's supposed to be doing, he's not doing a black thing. That's really interesting, unpacking what the media thinks we're supposed to do.'
Sheku, the first black winner of the BBC Young Musician competition, was chosen to perform at the wedding after the Duke saw him play at a charity event. He played three pieces of music at the ceremony.
The wedding also featured gospel singers The Kingdom Choir, who performed Stand By Me, and a sermon by American preacher Rt Rev Michael Curry, who was the first black presiding bishop of the Episcopal Church.
Mrs Kanneh-Mason has written a book, To Be Young, Gifted and Black, about Sheku and his six musically gifted siblings, exploring 'issues of cultural, racial and national identity'.
She said of Sheku entering the BBC Young Musician competition: 'I panicked because he had a massive afro at that point and I thought, 'If he goes on the stage with that… the judges are not going to believe he's a classical musician. Should we make him a bit more formal?'
'In the end, he went on as himself but we had to think about that: what the presentation was, what the image was. It's one of those things going on all the time.'
Mrs Kanneh-Mason said that her daughter, Konya, a pianist, was racially abused by an audience member while a student at the Royal Academy of Music.
She said a man came up to her daughter and said 'I think you played beautifully – I don't know, because I was looking at your body all the time.
'Then he said, 'You shouldn't be here, because you people are taking all the jobs from the white musicians who should be here'. And she looked around and thought, 'I am the only black musician, the only black person in this room, so whose job am I taking?''
Asked about her children suffering 'micro-aggressions', Mrs Kanneh-Mason said: 'They're called micro-aggressions but actually they're maxi-aggressions. They happen all the time. And having to navigate that on a daily basis is very difficult.'
A BBC spokesman said: 'BBC News reported widely on Sheku Kanneh-Mason's role in the 2018 royal wedding including news that he was selected to play, multiple stories of how the day unfolded and on the impact of his performance.'
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