Do you often put things off? A Hong Kong hypnotherapist can help you find out why
It is hard to picture Sonia Samtani as a painfully shy teenager with self-esteem so low that she was too scared to speak up, even when ordering a meal at a restaurant.
For years, Hong Kong-born Samtani felt she was inadequate: at home her sibling was more important, while at school her peers were.
'At school, there were not many Indians and I knew that my family was different, my culture was different, my upbringing was different. I remember thinking, 'Oh, if only I had white skin and blue eyes, I'd be happier,'' Samtani recalls.
'Everyone around me seemed more confident and articulate, and there was something stopping me from feeling that way. I was unconsciously looking for a better coping mechanism.'
I'm avoiding something, so what is that? … Is it my mother's voice when I was young telling me that even if I got 98 per cent, that was not good enough?
Sonia Samtani on procrastination
She changed her looks and behaviour before realising that it was her beliefs that needed modifying.
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