Penwortham Rotary Club's new monument liked to a gravestone
The stone has received some positive reviews."I think it looks great. A huge thank you to the rotary for again serving our community and volunteering their time to not only contribute but make it look nicer."Maybe some of the critics should try grabbing a trowel and doing something different," one Facebook user said. The Rotary Club said it was changing the stone to a circular design with the hope the stone will attract new members.The Preston South club was set up in 1967 to help local charities, groups and individuals.
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