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Watch: This ₹20 mangalsutra story of an elderly couple is going viral for all the right reasons

Watch: This ₹20 mangalsutra story of an elderly couple is going viral for all the right reasons

Time of India19-06-2025
In a time when social media is filled with expensive gifts and grand gestures, a simple and emotional moment from Maharashtra has touched millions. A 93-year-old man, on a pilgrimage with his wife, walked into a jewellery shop– not to ask for help, but to buy a mangalsutra with his savings.
What happened next was a rare act of kindness that moved even the shopkeeper.
Nivrutti Shinde and his wife Shantabai, both in their 90s, were on their way to Pandharpur for the Ashadhi Ekadashi festival. As per online media reports, the couple from Ambhora Jahagir village in Jalna district have been walking this pilgrimage together for many years, known for their strong faith and close bond.
During their journey, the couple stopped at a jewellery shop.
Nivrutti, dressed in simple clothes, had ₹1,120 with him– money he had saved to buy a mangalsutra for his wife. It wasn't about buying something expensive, but about showing his love and respect.
At first, the shop staff thought the elderly couple had come for help, as many pilgrims do. But when Nivrutti explained why they were there, everything changed. Moved by their honesty and love, the shopkeeper refused to take the full amount.
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As quoted by The Mint, the shopkeeper said, 'The couple entered the shop and the man gave me ₹1,120, saying he wanted to buy a mangalsutra for his wife. I was overwhelmed by his gesture. I just took ₹20 from him as a token of blessings, and handed over the mangalsutra to the couple.'
The emotional exchange was caught on video and quickly went viral, gathering millions of views across platforms. People from across the country reacted with warmth and praise, not just for the couple's bond but also for the shopkeeper's kind gesture.
Comments poured in, with one user saying, 'This is what true love looks like.' Another wrote, 'No diamonds, no fancy gifts– just a lifetime of commitment. Salute to this man.
' Others added, 'God bless this gentleman,' and 'I am crying seeing this! This is absolutely heartwarming.'
This story is based on widely circulated social media posts and media reports. The Times of India has not independently verified the authenticity of the video or the identities of the individuals involved.
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