Late Notices, July 18, 2025
Justin S. Ford
MAYSVILLE, Mo. -Justin Scott Ford, 61, died July 16, 2025. Visitation noon to 2 p.m. July 20 at Turner Family Funeral Home in Maysville. A memorial service with military honors after the visitation at 3 p.m. www.turnerfamilyfuneral.com
Lawrence R. Koelzer
SAVANNAH, Mo. -Lawrence R. Koelzer, 69, Savannah, Missouri, died July 16, 2025. Farewell Services and Public Livestream 3 p.m. Saturday, Meierhoffer Funeral Home & Crematory. Visitation 6 to 8 p.m. Friday, Meierhoffer Funeral Home & Crematory.
Joan P. Peterson
Joan Phyllis Ruhnke Peek Peterson, 83, St. Joseph, died July 16, 2025. Farewell Services and Public Livestream 1 p.m. Thursday, St. Paul Lutheran Church. Interment Memorial Park Cemetery. Visitation one hour prior to the service. www.meierhoffer.com.
Jeffrey C. Sidwell
Jeffrey Craig Sidwell, 59, of St. Joseph, died July 16, 2025. Cremation services have been entrusted with Heaton-Bowman-Smith-Sidenfaden Chapel of St. Joseph, Missouri. The family will hold a service at a later date.
As published in the St. Joseph News-Press.
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