3 Places Where Your ‘Fernweh' Is Likely To Go Off The Charts, By A Psychologist

Forbes

27-05-2025

'Fernweh' is a German word that has no true English equivalent, but the feeling is both universal ... More and bittersweet. Here's where you can go to feel more of it.
There's a nuance between the German words fernweh and wanderlust. Wanderlust, originally German for 'a desire to hike or roam,' has taken on a more playful tone in English. It's now the kind of word you'd throw on a travel blog or an Instagram story. Fernweh, by contrast, is deeper.
It's the kind of thing you reserve for your Sunday night conversations with yourself, when the world feels slightly off-kilter and your chest tightens with the feeling that you belong somewhere else, even if you don't know where.
It's hard to explain fernweh without mentioning heimweh, the German word for homesickness. The two are rough opposites. So if heimweh is missing a place you know all too well, fernweh is an aching for a place you've never been.
But here's the beauty of the word: It's not entirely sad. Fernweh carries a kind of bittersweet connotation, much like longing with a hint of hope. And if you want to lean into that complex emotion, here are three places you can go to feel it more deeply.
There's something about sitting in a dark movie theater, eyes wide, sound all around you, that makes the world outside feel inconsequential. And for many, that's exactly when fernweh creeps in.
In 2023, over 819 million movie tickets were sold in the U.S. But by 2025, that number dropped to around 697 million. But even as the numbers decline, the effects of watching a movie in a theater remain potent.
A 2023 study published in Marketing Letters shows that people actually prefer the big screen experience over the home video experience. The difference is visible in the ratings they leave.
The big screen gives your fernweh room to breathe. Because when you're sitting at the movies and the Glacier Express chugs through the Swiss Alps, or the camera pulls back on an old town in Morocco, you're already there. That's what good cinema does, it immerses you in another life for a few minutes.
If you've ever thought of an airport as a portal to strange human behavior, you're not alone.
We've all seen it: people drinking wine at 7 a.m. or doing impossible yoga poses near Gate 14. And sometimes, it gets darker. Arguments, panic attacks or even the occasional in-flight outbursts make headlines.
Researchers point to sensory overload, lack of control, time distortion and even the loosening of social norms as triggers. In short: airports, by their very nature, make people behave differently.
And they also make people yearn. You're surrounded by lives in transition from one 'life' to another. Even if you're not flying — and you're just seeing someone off — you can still feel it in your bones. That buzzing emotional frequency is fertile ground for fernweh to grow.
Sometimes, just being near the departure board is enough. Maybe you glance at flights to Reykjavik, Seoul or Nairobi and feel something. Maybe a small part of you wonders what your life would look like if you belonged there. Or at least it wants to know what it's like to be there, even briefly.
Watching your own city's skyline is an underrated way to wind down. There's something quietly reassuring about realizing the world doesn't depend on you, that what you think of as 'your life' will keep moving, with or without your participation.
There's a reason we're drawn to high places — hotel balconies, hilltops or the 100th floor of a skyscraper. As psychologist Sally Augustin, PhD, puts it, being up high gives us prospect and refuge: a broad view of the world from a secure, safe place. Seen from above, the world looks both beautiful and available. And in that moment, fernweh often stirs.
Because sometimes, all it takes is a bird's-eye view to wonder who else you could be, and where you'd have to go to meet that version of yourself.
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