Tamaiti Williams on anxiety, and fatherhood
The tighthead prop played a leading role for the Canterbury Crusaders in a final that saw the black-and-reds return to Super Rugby supremacy after a disappointing 2024.
While he rehabs his knee, Williams and other rugby stars are opening up on their physical and mental health challenges, as part of a campaign by All Blacks' partner, Bupa.
Tamaiti Williams speaks of his experience of anxiety, particularly with the premature birth of his now 15-month-old daughter, Kaea.
Tamaiti's partner Alice Weir had a difficult pregnancy with pre-eclampsia.
Kaea was born 3 months early - and then had a long period of hospital stays.
New Zealand's Tamaiti Williams reacts after South Africa won the 2023 Rugby World Cup Final.
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