
My child is a people-pleaser – how do I teach them it's OK to sometimes say no?
Some children seem born to keep the peace. They smile obligingly, hand over the last sweet, go along with the game even when it's not what they want.
Teachers call them 'lovely'. Other parents call them 'a pleasure'. At home, they rarely cause trouble. But sometimes, behind all that agreeableness, is a child who is quietly learning that their worth comes from keeping others happy. People-pleasing can start early!
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