Invisible Made Visible
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An episode performed live onstage, with stories about trying to take things that are normally invisible (unspoken feelings, secret lives, radio hosts) and make them visible. It features David Sedaris, Tig Notaro, Ryan Knighton and David Rakoff, months before his death.
This is a rerun of an episode that first aired in May 2012.
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