Gen Z co-opted the smiley face emoji, but beware — it means something totally different to them

New York Post

14-05-2025

Smiling at Gen Z? Better watch your back.
What used to be the universal symbol of warmth and joy has taken a sinister turn — at least in the eyes of Gen Z.
The classic smiley face emoji now means something completely different to those under 30.
Instead of conveying happiness, the grinning yellow face is now seen as dismissive, passive-aggressive, or straight-up sarcastic.
And if you're sending it to younger colleagues or friends, it could be rubbing them the wrong way.
Hafeezat Bishi, a 21-year-old intern, recently told the Wall Street Journal that she was taken aback when her older coworkers used the smiley emoji in emails and texts.
4 Flashing a smile at Gen Z? Brace yourself. The classic symbol of warmth and friendliness has morphed into something far snarkier — at least to them.
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'I had to remember they are older, because I use it sarcastically,' Bishi said, explaining that she often views the emoji as conveying a 'side-eye smile' rather than genuine enthusiasm.
Meanwhile, Sara Anderson, a 31-year-old cheerleading coach, told the outlet that she regularly includes the emoji to add 'lightness' to her messages.
But that's exactly the disconnect — what seems friendly to older folks can come off as phony or even biting to the younger crowd.
According to Erica Dhawan, author of 'Digital Body Language: How to Build Trust and Connection, No Matter the Distance,' older generations tend to take emojis at face value, while younger 'digital natives' assign entirely different meanings.
4 Author Erica Dhawan says older folks read emojis by the book — but for Gen Z, those little icons pack a whole new punch.
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'People over 30 tend to use emoji according to their dictionary,' Dhawan told the Journal, emphasizing that for Gen Z, emoji meanings have evolved into a whole new lexicon.
But the generational gap isn't just about smileys.
Back in March, Amit Kalley, founder of mom-and-dad support site For Working Parents, warned that emojis have become a covert language for teens to communicate everything from drug slang to hate speech.
'It's far from an exhaustive list, but it's based on common emojis used to say something very different to what you'd think,' Kalley wrote on Instagram, pointing to a 'periodic table of emojis' that decodes the hidden messages.
4 What looks like a friendly emoji to boomers and millennials? To Gen Z, it could mean a fake smile or a not-so-subtle jab.
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And the emoji evolution doesn't end there.
A recent study from Oklahoma State University found that emoji use can reveal a lot more about your personality than you might think.
Researchers surveyed 285 undergraduates, mostly 20-year-olds, to see how their emoji habits aligned with personality traits.
4 To Gen Z, that classic smiley face emoji isn't all sunshine — it's more of a smug, side-eye smirk that can come off as passive-aggressive in texts like above.
'Emoji use may be related to strategies to manipulate the perceptions of others and to present a positive impression of oneself,' the study said, suggesting that what you send could say more about you than you realize.
So, the next time you slap a smiley face emoji on a message to Gen Z, think twice — it might not come off as cheery as you'd hoped.