Martha Nolan-O'Slatarra was 'shining light' who lived 'a short but packed life', funeral hears
Ms Nolan-O'Slatarra, 33, who was originally from Carlow but lived in Manhattan,
died in Montauk in New York's Hamptons on 5 August.
She was found unconscious on a boat at Montauk Yacht Club. Her cause of death has yet to be confirmed.
Mourners gathered this morning to remember the 'loyal' friend who lived a 'short life, but a packed life'.
The priest told the congregation gathered in the Cathedral of the Assumption in Carlow that people had travelled 'from so many parts to be here to support Martha's family'.
Among the symbols brought forward to represent Ms Nolan-O'Slatarra's life was her passport, her swimwear brand East x East, a makeup bag and brushes, the Irish and US flags, and a tin whistle to symbolise her love of musical instruments.
Also brought to the altar was St Martha's prayer, which mourners were told her mother Elma recites every Tuesday.
Mourners gathered at the Cathedral of the Assumption in Carlow on Wednesday morning to remember Martha Nolan-O'Slatarra.
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The prayers of the faithful mentioned Ms Nolan-O'Slatarra's grandparents, her partner Nick DiRubio and her friends, who saw her as 'loyal, supportive, and full of life'.
DiRubio told mourners: 'I think Martha had a special way of lighting up every room she walked into, whether it was her signature 'hi' or her famous hand gestures.
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'One couldn't help but feel her positive presence in every space she entered. Martha had a way of putting people she loved first, she loved helping people and many of you in this room have been lucky enough to experience that love,' he said.
'Whether it was telling you to 'cop on' and focus on the good in this life, or just being a shoulder to lean on, the shining light that Martha brought into this world is a reflection of everybody in this room – friends, family, loved ones both past and present.
We've all been lucky to have known Martha, and we must live every day forward with her in our hearts, may she rest in peace.
Her sister Jacqui told the congregation that her 'beautiful' sister had 'taught me everything I needed to know in life'.
'I didn't always see you, but I always knew you were there,' she said.
The hearse carrying the coffin of Martha Nolan-O'Slatarra leaves the Cathedral of the Assumption, Carlow following her funeral service.
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Alamy Stock Photo
'Growing up with you was like having a built-in best friend, from sharing secrets to late-night talks, we've been through it all together, through thick and thin, a sister's love is consistent.
'We know each other's quirks, dreams, and fears. The bond between us sisters is unique and unbreakable.
'So here's to the sisters, the ones who make life brighter, who know you best and who love you the most. Cheers to the laughter, the tears and the countless memories that were made. You will be in my heart forever, Martha.'
Ms Nolan-O'Slatarra was found on a yacht docked in the coastal New York town of Montauk in the early hours of 5 August.
She was pronounced dead at the scene by first responders. Her death remains under investigation by Suffolk County Police.
The police force said a post-mortem examination '
did not show evidence of violence
' but that her final cause of death required further investigation, adding that a preliminary investigation and exam were inconclusive.
With reporting from Jane Moore
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