Operation Thank A Veteran: Honoring heroes with heartfelt notes
At Presbyterian Manor, it's not about parades or fireworks; it's about messages from the heart, as their Operation Thank a Veteran campaign is delivering cards to residents who made the ultimate sacrifice.
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The campaign allows anyone, anywhere, to submit a message of gratitude online. Once submitted, staff members print the cards and hand deliver them to residents before the Fourth of July.
Jerri Thomas, Director of Marketing, says some of the most touching messages have come from people who have never even met the veterans.
'One time I got a message from someone that, said my unborn child thanks you. Thanks to you, my unborn child is going to live in a free country because of your service and your sacrifice and the things that you did to be a hero. They're so appreciative. It's amazing. Some of them have tears in their eyes,' Thomas said. 'One of the most common things that I hear is that they can't believe people remember because it's been so long ago. And we want them to know that it doesn't matter how long ago it was, their service counted. It matters.'
As Independence Day approaches, the message is clear: sometimes the simplest thank you is the one that matters most.
If you'd like to participate, it's free, just go to: Tribute Gift | Presbyterian Manor
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