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A Coming-of-Age Party in Los Angeles That Traveled Back in Time

A Coming-of-Age Party in Los Angeles That Traveled Back in Time

New York Times29-04-2025
Just east of Downtown Los Angeles, a stylish young crowd lined up on East Olympic Boulevard in Boyle Heights on Saturday night, bathed in the pink glow of the Don Quixote banquet hall.
Inside, Anita Herrera, a Los Angeles native who now lives and works as an artist in Mexico City, had curated the event and fund-raiser, El Quince, with a collective of fellow artists. Together, they reimagined and celebrated the look and traditions of early 2000s Southern California quinceañeras, which mark a girl's entry into adulthood at age 15.
'I wanted to push this conversation and push the boundary of this idea that a party is actually art,' Ms. Herrera said. 'It is actually one of the highest forms of contemporary art.'
Tickets benefited Los Angeles Nomadic Division (LAND), an organization that supports local artists and their projects throughout the city and is celebrating its 15th anniversary.
Quinceañeras have always taken many forms, but in recent years, some have made a turn for the extravagant. There are backyard parties, as well as big-ticket affairs in lavish halls. More recently, teenage boys have also stepped into the spotlight, hosting their own coming-of-age parties. But the heart of the quinceañera — and the feeling of belonging and of being seen and celebrated by the community — endures.
Ms. Herrera, who has family ties to the Mexican state of Michoacán, was born and raised in Huntington Park, Calif., a city just southeast of downtown Los Angeles, which she calls the 'quinceañera capital of Los Angeles.'
Pacific Boulevard, which runs through the neighborhood, is a cultural hub of dress and suit shops, party supply stores and various other vendors that cater to quinceañeras and similar celebrations.
But she didn't have a quinceañera when she was 15.
'I wanted my parents to use the money for something else,' Ms. Herrera said.
Still, Los Angeles — specifically Huntington Park — remains a muse. Her recent work has included a series of curated parties, designed to spark conversations around navigating dual identities. The events, called the Diaspora Dialogues, 'are about creating spaces where even if you don't understand the same language, you can still understand the same communal language of celebration, and it's not just about Mexican culture,' Ms. Herrera said.
The hall inside Don Quixote, a popular setting for quinceañeras, weddings and baptisms for nearly four decades, was decorated in sky blue and white. In the center of the stage, beneath a blue-and-white balloon arch, there was an extravagant multitiered cake, with small bridge staircases and a glowing fountain.
'I chose the pastel baby blue for the night because it's nostalgic to me, and it was a universally loved color of that time,' Ms. Herrera said.
There was a portrait of the quinceañera court, comprising artists affiliated with LAND, and a collage of quinceañera pictures that were submitted by community members and party attendees from their own personal photo albums. A lavish, shimmering periwinkle quinceañera gown, designed by Diego Medel, a dress designer based in Huntington Park, hung on a mannequin.
Throughout the banquet hall, attendees were dressed in full glam, with a nod to Y2K style. There were pastel and metallic slip dresses alongside shiny suits and boxy blazers, as well as mini braids, pigtail buns and hair gems.
'I didn't have a quinceañera because I couldn't afford it,' said Ashley Sherengo, a marketing director who was dressed in a short, pastel pink, butterfly-printed dress with matching butterfly clips in her hair.
'That's why I was super excited to go to this event,' she added. 'Now that I'm 32, reliving these moments as an adult feels super special and nostalgic.'
The participating artists also wanted to push the cultural boundaries. Quinceañeras can be costly and often as expensive as weddings. The parties have also traditionally leaned into femininity, reinforcing stereotypical gender norms and expectations placed on women.
'This party is not so rooted in tradition,' said Lizette Hernández, 32, a participating artist from Compton, Calif.
'I feel like quinceañeras have a lot of rooted problems with sexism and classism, and this one is inclusive and open to communities that maybe felt excluded in the past,' she said.
Attendees took a seat for dinner, while waiters began to serve birria — a traditional meat stew — along with beans and rice.
As the lights dimmed, and a fog machine filled the room. It was time for one of the most important parts of any traditional quinceañera — el vals, or the waltz.
Ten of LAND's artists were introduced as they walked in pairs onto the dance floor to the sound of the Puerto Rican singer Chayanne's 'Tiempo de Vals.'
At the center of the floor, the singer-songwriter San Cha sat on the ground, resting her face against a nearby stool as if asleep in a dream. Suddenly, she awoke and rose to be greeted by the markers of this rite of passage — presented with a doll, sneakers and a crown. She began to sing, performing a cover of Selena's 'Si Una Vez,' with accompaniment by the saxophonist Lu Coy.
San Cha then climbed onto the long rectangular quinceañera court table, transitioning into 'Cucurrucucú Paloma,' As she reached the finale, her voice was overtaken by cheers and applause from the audience.
Many attendees filled the dance floor and danced to hip-hop from the early 2000s and regional Mexican music, while others had their portraits taken.
In a dressing room, Ms. Herrera took a moment for herself.
'All our personal histories go into our collective histories, and the quinceañera is one of those big cultural touchpoints,' Ms. Herrera said, reflecting on the evening, as artists walked through her dressing room. 'Tonight was about making something — maybe not with the traditions of the family you were born with — but with your chosen family.'
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