Bayardo bomber Féile tribute before 50th anniversary 'cruel and crass,' says victims' group
Linda Boyle was 17 when she died from her injuries a week after the Bayardo pub bombing in August 1975.
Five people were killed and more than 60 injured in the west Belfast tragedy. Wednesday, 13 August marked the atrocity's 50th anniversary.
Brendan 'Bik' McFarlane received a life sentence for his role in the attack, he died earlier this year following a short illness.
The band Shebeen paid tribute to him during their performance at the Falls Park event on Sunday.
Linda's family said she had so much to experience in life "but others determined that her rights mattered for nothing".
'We looked up to her and remember her as a stylish young woman who was caring and friendly and who had a real zest for life.
"She would now be of retirement age and would be at a point where she should be relaxing and exploring a further chapter of life, Linda's storybook was ended before she got beyond her first chapter.
'But for the years we had her, she brought blessings to our family and to the community at large, she might have just been a girl, part of the statistics to others but to our family she was extraordinary, she was so special to us and her murder destroyed so much in our family. Her murdered extinguished so much joy, never to be fully replaced'.
Commenting on the tribute to Brendan McFarlane at this year's Féile an Phobail, the family added: 'We can barely find the words to express how we feel about what happened. It's absolutely disgusting, especially as the 50th Anniversary was only a few days away and those engaged in that sick tribute knew that.
'Why do some within this society continue to stoke the fires, why do they want to continue to hurt the innocent? Haven't they had their pound of flesh already?
'It's so depressing that these things happen, and it's not an isolated incident, almost weekly we see instances of glorification of terrorism and what's done about it? Brief outrage and then people go back to their own lives and priorities but what of the innocent victims of terrorism? Where do we go?"
A terrorism victims advocacy group has also criticised the tribute to McFarlane.
Kenny Donaldson from the South East Fermanagh Foundation added: 'For this to be done just days ahead of the milestone 50th Anniversary of the Bayardo pub bombing is particularly cruel and crass.
"Those involved will have been very aware of what they were doing and that makes this all the more shameful.
"The Bayardo attack was a brutal, sectarian motivated attack which resulted in the murder of five people, and which left a trail of destruction behind it.
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