Miss Manners: Spare party guests the ‘life story' video
Dear Miss Manners: We've been invited to a combination multi-graduate/Father's Day gathering at an in-law's house. The hosts suggested it in order to honor all the fathers in the family, as well as the three graduates: my husband from grad school, our son from high school and the hosts' daughter from high school. Our in-laws have offered to provide all the food and beverages.
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