Sevenoaks Hospital to benefit from share of £1.7m CIL funds
Five parks across Swanley will benefit from a shared £131,634, while £110,000 has been allocated to the cost of a new heating and hot water system at Edenbridge Sports Pavilion.Safety improvements will be made to the Valley Road footpath in Fawkham, with £20,000 allocated to help pay for a new pedestrian crossing at Dartford Road in Sevenoaks.Mr Williams said that, since introducing CIL in 2014, the council had secured "nearly £19m in developer contributions".
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