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Megwenya Matthews (aka Timotheus 31) of North Turramurra writes: 'Being an Argonaut was a highlight of my childhood – the joy of hearing my contributions on the wireless, the serialised stories, games of charades, the songs and the erudition of the experts on nature (Tom the Naturalist aka Alan Colefax), art (Jeffrey Smart), literature (A. D. Hope) and music (Mr Melody Man aka Lindley Evans). Best of all was when my mother took me to a live session in Darlinghurst where Mac (Atholl Fleming), Chris (Leonard Teale) and the others presented the program. None were as I'd imagined but all lived up to expectations! Afterwards I sometimes sneaked an episode of Blue Hills, but my mother didn't really approve!' Fair enough. It was pretty racy stuff.
Fans of the radio comedy Yes, What? (C8) have suggested it's time for Michael Fletcher to re-format. Both Judy Burge of Kelso and Marilyn Irons of North Narrabeen got theirs in CD form from the National Film and Sound Archive of Australia.
The current political climate has been impacting the viewing of Geoff Gilligan of Coogee, with recent titles being The Russians Are Coming and I t's a Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad World. According to Geoff, 'It's all a bit scary.' Watch 'em with your loved ones, Geoff. No man is an island.
Meri Will of Baulkham Hills keeps her cool: 'When our family bought a refrigerator in the '50s, the ice chest (C8) was relegated to the garage. Dad used it as a tool cupboard until he died in 2005. Now my sister-in-law uses it to store items of pottery before firing. Its latch and hinges remain in good order, ensuring a snug seal.'
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SBS Australia
03-08-2025
- SBS Australia
'Men deserve to be more than providers': Who is guiding men through modern manhood?
More than 50 years ago, the women's liberation movement reshaped society's expectations of womanhood. As commentary around 'toxic masculinity' persists today, Insight asks if men need to be liberated from traditional masculinity. Watch episode Male Liberation at 8.30pm on SBS or on SBS On Demand . Geoff Devereaux, who works in the domestic violence space , says when he's asked groups of men what it is to be a good dad, "provider" is often the first — and last — word on the list. "Oftentimes, that's where that list tends to stop," Geoff told Insight. Geoff helps his seven-year-old stepson with his homework. He cares for his infant son and takes turns doing the bedtime routine with his wife, who works night shifts. But he feels that society often does not allow men to be nurturers. "Men deserve to be more than providers. We deserve … the opportunity to be more than that," he said. "[It's] also about us working on ourselves, to have healthier connections with our families." Geoff said his father was a healthy male role model to him growing up. Despite that, societal messaging around what a man 'should' be, still shapes his behaviour. "Whenever I'm feeling insecure … I'll bring up the fact that I train in Krav Maga — as a way of proving that I'm masculine, by training in self-defence," he said. "Subconsciously, I've linked masculinity to violence." 'The world didn't come crashing and burning' Like Geoff, Harry Garside took up a contact sport to 'better' align with traditional representations of masculinity. "What do you see on movies? You see men fight. They save the world; they do these wild things," Harry said. "I think being so soft and not like my brothers — not fearless … I initially started boxing to be more like them ... I felt quite insecure, and I didn't really know it." The youngest of three boys, Harry was nine when he took up boxing. Harry Garside after a boxing match in 2015. Source: Supplied The Olympic bronze medallist, 28, says that the sport has since given him the confidence to explore himself in his adult life — including a period of dressing in more traditionally feminine clothes. He also credits a youth program he participated in as a teen, and its nail painting activity, for shifting his mindset. "It was quite a unique experience, because I think I was a boy who was just like: 'What am I painting my nails for? This is bullshit'." "But then I think we realised, when we did that, was the world didn't change ... The world didn't come crashing and burning. We didn't change as people." A lack of male role models? Content creator Richard Jackson doesn't think that strong societal expectations about what men 'should' be is a bad thing. He believes there is too much "contradictory messaging" surrounding the topic. "The blueprint ... used to be the clear 'provider-protector'. A strong, stoic [man]," Richard told Insight. "Whereas nowadays, there are lots of parts of society that are saying that's to be dispensed with — or it's not useful anymore." Richard believes young men want more role models. Source: Supplied Richard, whose parents' divorce impacted how he views masculinity, largely credits social media as his education for understanding what being a good man means. The 31-year-old cites Canadian author Jordan Peterson and British American influencer Andrew Tate as key people who taught him about manhood. "I think for a lot of young lads, they look for role models. And they find their way in the digital sphere and see what resonates," Richard said. "... I think there's a big yearning in the space for clear direction." Some criticise Jordan Peterson for his right-wing views on political correctness, gender identity and climate change. Tate is set to stand trial over multiple charges including rape and human trafficking in June 2026 in the UK; he denies all allegations made against him. 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'Oh shit, what's this masculinity shit?'" "That's actually opened up worlds and ways of thinking to me that I'm incredibly grateful for." By comparison, Leigh feels that heterosexual men police their behaviour — particularly around physical contact and affection. "Being queer means that there's many more spaces where you get to be tender and it's not a risk," he said. Living authentically as men As a naturally affectionate man, Geoff says he knows the judgement Boucher spoke to of being openly tender in public. He recalled a parent-teacher evening where his stepson came up and "put his arms around my neck and kissed me on the cheek before he went and played". "I distinctly remember the really clear look of disapproval from another one of the fathers that was there," he said. The experience hasn't changed Geoff's behaviour. He says his home is a place where "'I love you's and hugs and cuddles are given freely". Geoff with his son and stepson. 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"If we can turn the mirror on what we're doing for other people or are we looking after ourselves so we can be a better human for [others], then I think the world is always a better place — regardless of if you're a man or a woman." For counselling, advice and support for men who have anger, relationship or parenting issues, call the Men's Referral Service on 1300 766 491. For crisis and mental health support, contact Lifeline (13 11 14), SANE Australia (1800 187 263) or 13Yarn (139 276), a 24/7 Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islanders crisis support line.
Sydney Morning Herald
03-08-2025
- Sydney Morning Herald
Waxing lyrical about a bottler of a time
'Such memories of the '60s with dinner party wines (C8),' says the progressive Richard Stewart of Pearl Beach. 'Thank you, Bill Yonge: Sparkling Rhinegolde, Mateus, Ben Ean Moselle proudly on the dinner table. And then, next dinner party, the same bottles, now empty, proudly stuck with a lit candle providing a sophisticated ambience.' Adrian Bell of Davistown remembers an even classier move: 'Sophisticated C8-ers will recall when the way to a girl's heart was to present her with the empty bottle in the basket woven cane covered Chianti bottle, used as a candleholder in the cool Beatnik era.' For George Baias of Summer Hill, that other oft-mentioned fizzer, Porphyry Pearl, was a 'drink of high sophistication' from the 1960s [John Frith of Paddington calls it an 'awful wine'] and recalls that it 'was advertised by Graham Kennedy on In Melbourne Tonight - made by the 'méthode champenoise' and only eight shillings and sixpence for a 'large' bottle.' Peter Snowden of Orange fancies a switch from lavish wine to swanky beer: 'I recall all the fancy wines and romantic tipples shared by C8 devotees of late, but gee I long for a crisp, chilled, twenty-six ounce bottle of Reschs DA. 'Dinner Ale, the perfect accompaniment to any setting'.' Shut the gate! Jack Munro of Concord West thinks that 'Surely the world's first big scandal (C8) took place in the Garden of Eden and should be known as Applegate.' 'A switch to get reserve fuel (C8)? Luxury!' says Peter Cole of Narrabeen. 'In VW Beetles, one had to use a foot-operated lever (remember them?) to access the last gallon or so of fuel. This was a great relief until you discovered that your partner had done that days before. Time to find the nearest public phone (remember them?)' It was the same deal for John McIntyre of Port Macquarie who says the lever 'turned the petrol intake pipe onto its side' to get to that final drop. Jane Howland of Cammeray has a sartorial update for Greg Baker (C8): 'I haven't noticed the disappearing breast pockets in men's suits, but I have noticed that young men wear blue suits at least a size too small.' It's the absence of pockets in the shirt that has Brian Kidd of Mount Waverley (Vic) shirty: 'It was a handy place to put the mobile phone when not in use. Shirtmakers – bring back the pockets!'
The Age
03-08-2025
- The Age
Waxing lyrical about a bottler of a time
'Such memories of the '60s with dinner party wines (C8),' says the progressive Richard Stewart of Pearl Beach. 'Thank you, Bill Yonge: Sparkling Rhinegolde, Mateus, Ben Ean Moselle proudly on the dinner table. And then, next dinner party, the same bottles, now empty, proudly stuck with a lit candle providing a sophisticated ambience.' Adrian Bell of Davistown remembers an even classier move: 'Sophisticated C8-ers will recall when the way to a girl's heart was to present her with the empty bottle in the basket woven cane covered Chianti bottle, used as a candleholder in the cool Beatnik era.' For George Baias of Summer Hill, that other oft-mentioned fizzer, Porphyry Pearl, was a 'drink of high sophistication' from the 1960s [John Frith of Paddington calls it an 'awful wine'] and recalls that it 'was advertised by Graham Kennedy on In Melbourne Tonight - made by the 'méthode champenoise' and only eight shillings and sixpence for a 'large' bottle.' Peter Snowden of Orange fancies a switch from lavish wine to swanky beer: 'I recall all the fancy wines and romantic tipples shared by C8 devotees of late, but gee I long for a crisp, chilled, twenty-six ounce bottle of Reschs DA. 'Dinner Ale, the perfect accompaniment to any setting'.' Shut the gate! Jack Munro of Concord West thinks that 'Surely the world's first big scandal (C8) took place in the Garden of Eden and should be known as Applegate.' 'A switch to get reserve fuel (C8)? Luxury!' says Peter Cole of Narrabeen. 'In VW Beetles, one had to use a foot-operated lever (remember them?) to access the last gallon or so of fuel. This was a great relief until you discovered that your partner had done that days before. Time to find the nearest public phone (remember them?)' It was the same deal for John McIntyre of Port Macquarie who says the lever 'turned the petrol intake pipe onto its side' to get to that final drop. Jane Howland of Cammeray has a sartorial update for Greg Baker (C8): 'I haven't noticed the disappearing breast pockets in men's suits, but I have noticed that young men wear blue suits at least a size too small.' It's the absence of pockets in the shirt that has Brian Kidd of Mount Waverley (Vic) shirty: 'It was a handy place to put the mobile phone when not in use. Shirtmakers – bring back the pockets!'
