‘Meghan Meghan is too vacuous. Why can't she promote women in a realistic way?' slams expert
Lydia Major
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MEGHAN Markle has thrown herself into her jam-making business venture and Netflix cooking show this year.
However, royal experts have blasted the Duchess of Sussex, 43, for focusing on 'vacuous' projects following ditching royal life and charity work.
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Speaking on The Sun's Royal Exclusive show, broadcaster Esther Krakue and News.com.au's Royal Reporter Bronte Coy spoke about Meghan's recent ventures.
Bronte claimed: '[She's a] professional hot girl.
'She's a content creator slash influencer now, I would say.
'And there's nothing wrong with those things.
'But the influencer part, she's selling the stuff on Instagram.'
Esther added of the former Suits actress: 'I mean, I find it strange that she didn't quite lean into the things that she has professional credits for, like she didn't do some theatre charity or things?
'I just wish she did things that are less vacuous.'
She added that she'd like to see Meghan focus on topics such as theatre, art, and also 'promoting women in a realistic way, not this kind of very glossy sheen.'
In the past, Meghan has been an advocate for gender equality and women's empowerment, doing a 2015 speech on International Women's Day at the UN.
As a working royal, Prince Harry's wife supported numerous women-focused charities, including Smart Works, a UK charity helping unemployed women get back to work, and bringing out a cook book with Hubb Community Kitchen, following the tragic Grenfell Fire in London.
Meghan's idea of parenting was a no-go from the beginning, Harry's much more hard-lined
Speaking of Meghan's eight-part podcast, Confessions of Female Founder, which featured successful female entrepreneurs and their business and family journeys, Esther claimed many of the women weren't relatable.
The London-based broadcaster and columnist explained: 'All these rich women with very rich husbands that had very little to lose, except a couple of her guests.
'Just be real, just be honest and do something that's a bit more authentic, I think.'
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Bronte agreed, sharing how the average mum can't relate to an A-lister speaking about the 'struggles' of home life, while employing a nanny.
She added: 'I have a son, and when I hear people from positions of great privilege where they can afford nannies and a lot of help go on and on and on about the working mum thing.
'Yes, it's time away from your kid, I definitely understand that aspect.
'But it's not the same as the working mum idea that, you know, a lot of the rest of the world has to deal with.
'You do have help. And also you are at home a lot. I don't know. I find that a little bit grating.'
I find it strange that she didn't quite lean into the things that she has professional credits for, like she didn't do some theatre charity or things. I just wish she did things that are less vacuous
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However, Esther stressed: 'I don't even want to feel like we're beating down on everything she does.
'I genuinely wish her all the success, but I feel sad that she feels the need to be this thing that she's clearly not.'
The Duchess of Sussex previously shared how she's relied on a nanny for five years to help her raise Prince Archie, five, and Princess Lilibet, three.
The mum-of-two opened up on her close pal's podcast, The Jamie Kern Lima Show.
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Meghan told how jam-packed her morning routine is - before the nanny drops her kids to school and she "jumps into meetings".
This year Meghan has been busy with the release of her latest Netflix series With Love, Meghan, in which she hosted Hollywood pals.
Shortly after came the roll out of her brand As Ever, despite the company facing a series of setbacks.
The mum-of-two then dropped Confessions Of A Female Founder, which has just finished its first season.
The Duchess has also been promoting her ShopMy page, where she shares links to her wardrobe and pockets a commission.
THE Duchess of Sussex has kept busy since stepping down as a senior working royal in 2020 and relocating to California. Here are some of her business ventures...
Archewell Foundation – A nonprofit supporting charitable initiatives.
Netflix Deal – Producing content like Harry & Meghan and With Love, Meghan.
Archetypes Podcast – Former Spotify show on female stereotypes.
Clevr Blends – Investment in a women-owned wellness latte brand.
Cesta Collective – Minority stake in a handbag brand supporting Rwandan artisans.
As Ever – Previously known as American Riviera Orchard lifestyle brand selling jam.
ShopMy Page – Online store featuring her curated fashion and beauty items.
New Podcast – Confessions of a Female Founder focusing on entrepreneurship.
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