Wildria Fay Hay Fuselier
Fay is preceded in death by her husband, Morris 'Choty,' and her parents.
She is survived by her five children, Morris 'Moe' Fuselier III of Lancaster, Calif., James Alton 'Jimbo' Fuselier (Janet) of Waiheiwa, Hawaii, Mary 'Melissa' Murphy ('my angel') of Iowa, La., John Hayden Fuselier (David) of Houston, Texas, and Jared Francis Fuselier (Natalie) of Iowa. Also, in-laws, Robyn Fuselier, Stacie Ardoin, and Joe Murphy; her seven grandchildren, Hayden Fuselier, Janee Fuselier, Jalee Kate Fuselier Palompo (Mark), Justin Murphy (Melissa 'Cricket'), Jodi Lynn Murphy Guillory (Shannon), Kalee Fuselier Hebert (Nelson), and Hilary Joseph Fuselier, and her 12 great-grandchildren.
Granny's reminder to us, 'If you love someone enough you can still hear the laughter when they're gone.'
A Mass of Christian burial will be at St. Charles Borromeo Catholic Church in Fenton on Wednesday, Aug. 13, 2025 at 11 a.m. with the Rev. Jom Joseph, Celebrant. Burial will follow at Hebert Cemetery in Hecker. Visitation will begin Tuesday at Johnson & Brown Funeral Home of Iowa, from 5 p.m. until 8 p.m., with a rosary recited at 6 p.m. and will resume Wednesday in the funeral home from 8 a.m. until 10:15 a.m. Pallbearers assisting in her service will be her three grandsons, Justin Murphy, Hilary Fuseiler, Hayden Fuselier, and three great-grandsons Connor Guillory, Cullen Guillory, Heyd Murphy.
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