Video games used to help NBA champ Isaiah Hartenstein unwind in the offseason. Now it's daddy duty.
'My wife gave me more daddy duties,' Hartenstein, whose 1-year-old son, Elijah, was seen snoozing on his shoulder during the trophy ceremony, tells me during our conversation for Yahoo's OT Diaries. 'She said, 'You're waking up at 5 a.m. now.''
But the NBA champ is also hoping to make time for chilling out during the offseason. 'You're on such a high in that moment, and probably most excited for a bit of relaxing afterward,' the 27-year-old says about his success. Here's how he keeps himself grounded — and why he won't be on a basketball court for a month.
It's such a big high, you feel a little crash after a couple of days. I'm not saying it's a depressed feeling, but you feel your mood going down a bit. For me, it's just been a lot of meditation and getting back to breath work to settle into a normal routine.
My post-championship life so far has been waking up early with the baby. Just spending more time with the family is definitely important.
There are so many ups and downs and so many emotions you have to deal with in the NBA. It was in my fourth year that I started to get into meditation and focusing on the mental side of the game. It's just me trying not to be on a roller coaster where I'm too high or too low, but staying more centered.
I think a lot of people from the outside just see us [NBA athletes] as emotionless robots that just go out there and play. But I mean, all of us are human beings. We all go through different things, and being in a situation where I can regulate those emotions, where I can get back to zero, it's been very helpful. Some days it's not going to be perfect. Some days I can do all those things and I'll still feel a certain emotion. But just being consistent with it, I'll always be getting better.
Through meditation, reading books and I use this app called Mastry that's kind of like an AI mental coach. I used it before each game throughout the playoffs. They're all just little tools that help me stay grounded. Just like working your muscles for basketball, I think you really have to work on the mental side.
I'm a bit stricter in season. You end up having a routine that you stick with throughout the season, so it gets to a point where it's just a habit and you don't even have to think about it. During the offseason is when I try different things. It's more free-flowing.
Not every season is the same. They bring different challenges where some of the same things might help, and some don't. You have to figure out what works for you at that time.
Physically, just making sure that my body recovers. It's a superlong season and it takes a big toll on your body. I do massages and stretching. I'm a big ice bath guy, and I like to be in the weight room.
Mentally, it's about giving yourself a little break where you can shut off a bit from basketball, but also pushing yourself to stay focused.
I won't go on the basketball court for maybe a month to give my body some rest. But now with social media, it's also about turning off your phone and getting away from that [noise]. It's kind of hard to do, but that's where you mentally get away from it all.
A big thing that helps me check out is doing charity stuff, 'cause that's where you know it's bigger than basketball. Being around people in need and helping them out humbles you; just seeing what really matters in life.
It's changed a lot. No more video games, things that used to be my hobbies during my downtime. I'm gone so much [with basketball] that when I'm home, I try to spend as much time as I can with my family. My wife does an amazing job of taking on the load [of parenting], especially in the season when I need my rest. So now I try to help as much as possible.
I love fashion. It's a part of me. It's the kind of avenue where you can express yourself through your tunnel fits, through what you wear. Being my size, it's not always easy to find stuff. ... If I go to 10 stores, probably one store will have something in my size. So I have [stylist Dan Solomon] to help me get clothes and put stuff together.
It's been great, and I think it's something cool. Especially on [OKC], we're very into it. You kind of have like a friendly competition each game where you look at the other person and see what he has on. It's cool.
My mom.
South Park.
Cheesecake Factory red velvet cake. That's always something where I have to keep myself from eating that.
Something happening to my family.
Supertight jeans.
Barcode — it's like a sports drink.
TikTok. When I start scrolling on TikTok, my wife has to tell me to put the phone down.
A journal for my thoughts or manifestations. I write those down.
It's German. His name is Billa Joe. I listen to him before every game.
Meditation and visualization.
Call of Duty.
The only time I have right now is with my son, so I guess being a dad.
This conversation has been edited for length and clarity.
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