Wicklow abuse survivor gets closure after clerics acknowledge what happened to him
A man from Greystones, who was a victim of abuse as a child, has finally been able to feel some sense of closure having completed his Higher National Diploma in Art & Design, at Bray's Institute of Further Education (BIFE).
While his abuser is no longer alive, the bold step was taken to invite representatives from the order to the exhibition, where his major piece, 'We Are Forced to Bear Witness', was on display for them to see. The title is taken from a line in TS Eliot's 'Murder in the Cathedral', with its themes of faith, power and sacrifice, which his abuser guided him through for his Leaving Cert.
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