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Winnipeg Free Press
04-08-2025
- General
- Winnipeg Free Press
Some introspection can help break strife-sex cycle
Opinion DEAR MISS LONELYHEARTS: I know why my girlfriend won't see me face-to-face anymore. It's because we can't help but be sexual — both her weakness and mine — and we never end up working out the problems between us. Even after we can't agree on anything at all and have had a big fight, it's ended up with great sex. That's how we are. (We are both women, by the way.) Last week it seemed to really fall apart. She told me she'd had enough of my nonsense and has moved out to her cabin on Lake Winnipeg for the rest of the summer. She says she's working remotely. Do I even believe that? I really need to see her and look into her eyes, to find out. She's not even picking up her phone regularly. I asked her if I could visit, so we could finish talking things over, and she said no because it was too soon. I was shocked. This relationship is just wearing me out, but I can't seem to move on. When things are good, we have the hottest physical connection, but we still fight too much. — Sick of Fighting, Wolseley Dear Sick of Fighting: This fighting dynamic is burning your relationship out. Your mate is telling you in every way she can that she's had enough. It's time to use a different tactic — accept that you do need to keep your distance and consider seeing a relationship counsellor or a psychologist for a few visits. Your mate will be curious to know what's being discussed. Let her do most of the phoning or messaging to you until she comes back to the city. Let her have time to miss you and think about what's going on. Be a little mysterious. It can be lonely at the lake, especially in August when people are heading home to get kids ready for school, so give yourself time to get your head straightened out and see if you still want her back in your life. It's time to stop apologizing and take back some of your power. Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I have somehow ended up in a romantic mess at the restaurant where I work and I really need to keep this great part-time job after the summer. I never should have started dating someone from work, but it was kind of a thrill. And then, I dated a second employee. Now both relationships are over and we are all still working together — and I am feeling pretty awkward. Help please. — Balancing Act, downtown Winnipeg Dear Balancing Act: These little workplace romances have been just a summertime adventure for you, but you want to keep your job, so you must get over yourself. Be extra respectful and stay friendly with both co-workers. They may be moving on to heavy workloads at school or something else this fall, but they too may want to keep on working there. Let's hope you were just a summer diversion to them as well, and they are fine staying friendly co-workers with you. It's all about co-operation and helping one another when you're working for tips. Please send your questions and comments to lovecoach@ or Miss Lonelyhearts c/o the Winnipeg Free Press, 1355 Mountain Ave., Winnipeg, MB, R2X 3B6. Maureen ScurfieldAdvice columnist Maureen Scurfield writes the Miss Lonelyhearts advice column. Read full biography Our newsroom depends on a growing audience of readers to power our journalism. If you are not a paid reader, please consider becoming a subscriber. Our newsroom depends on its audience of readers to power our journalism. Thank you for your support.
Economic Times
13-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Economic Times
'Women have to take care ...' Sharmila Tagore's daughter Soha reveals the secret behind superstar's 43-year-old marriage to Tiger Pataudi
Synopsis Sharmila Tagore, a celebrated actress, balanced her career and family life. She shared her relationship philosophy with her daughter, Soha Ali Khan. Sharmila believed in mutual respect, acknowledging emotional needs and male pride. Soha and Neha Dhupia found this guidance helpful in their marriages. Soha also recalled her brother Saif Ali Khan's longing for their mother during her acting career. Agencies Sharmila Tagore's Balancing Act: Legacy, Lessons, and Lifelong Love Sharmila Tagore, once among the most celebrated leading ladies of Indian cinema, took a path that was unconventional for many of her peers. In 1968, she married legendary cricketer Mansoor Ali Khan Pataudi. Despite the expectations of the era—where most actresses stepped back from the spotlight post-marriage—Sharmila carved her own course. She continued to act while managing family responsibilities, raising children, and supporting her husband's public life. Her ability to navigate fame and domesticity has long been appreciated, but behind her graceful presence was a personal principle that guided her approach to relationships. She eventually passed down this philosophy to her daughter, actor and author Soha Ali Khan. In a recent interaction with The Hollywood Reporter India , Soha opened up about this guidance from her mother. She shared that Sharmila believed mutual respect within a marriage relied on acknowledging each other's emotional needs. According to Sharmila, while a man should be mindful of a woman's emotional world, a woman should be sensitive to a man's pride. Soha, who is married to actor Kunal Kemmu, explained that embracing this viewpoint helped her maintain balance and harmony in her own marriage. She also acknowledged that contemporary perspectives may differ, with many emphasizing that both genders possess egos and emotions. Nevertheless, Sharmila's insight remained meaningful to her, offering clarity through the complexities of long-term relationships. 'My mother told me that women should take care of the man's ego, and a man should take care of a woman's emotions. If you're able to do that, then you are going to have a long and successful relationship. A lot of people today will feel men also have emotions and women also have egos, but that advice has stood me in good stead..." she said. Soha also noted the importance of friendship in marriage, especially when navigating the pressures of daily life. She emphasized that placing all emotional expectations solely on a spouse could strain the bond, and that having a broader support system is key to lasting Neha Dhupia, who participated in the same conversation, echoed Soha's sentiments. She recalled receiving similar advice from Soha before her own marriage to actor Angad Bedi. Neha mentioned how she was cautioned about the delicacy of male egos and encouraged to be mindful in communication. Over the years, Neha admitted she has learned to be selective in disagreements and has come to value the preservation of friendship within marriage. She described the journey as ongoing, requiring consistent effort to prevent the relationship from becoming also reflected on her childhood, sharing memories of how her brother, actor Saif Ali Khan, often missed their mother during her peak acting years. She remembered instances when Sharmila would rush home to see him, only to be met with resistance and hurt because of his longing. These moments of emotional strain revealed the hidden costs of balancing professional ambition with and Mansoor remained married until his death in 2011. After a long pause, she returned to Hindi cinema in the 2023 family-oriented film Gulmohar and also reappeared in Bengali cinema with Puratawn, a psychological drama—marking her return to regional films after two decades.
CairoScene
14-06-2025
- Entertainment
- CairoScene
‘Calder/Hiquily: Balancing Act' Exhibit to Open at Opera Gallery Dubai
'Calder/Hiquily: Balancing Act' Exhibit to Open at Opera Gallery Dubai The exhibition will explore the thematic intersections between the works of Alexander Calder and Philippe Hiquily, both of whom are renowned for their contributions to kinetic and sculptural art. Opera Gallery Dubai is set to present 'Balancing Act', a new exhibition featuring works by American sculptor Alexander Calder and French artist Philippe Hiquily. Running from April 16th to May 4th, 2025, the exhibition will explore the thematic and formal intersections between the two artists, both of whom are widely recognised for their contributions to kinetic and sculptural art. 'Balancing Act' places the work of Calder and Hiquily in dialogue, highlighting shared artistic themes such as movement, balance, and anthropomorphic abstraction. While distinct in style and background, both artists employed playful and dynamic approaches to sculpture, engaging with the visual language of motion and spatial interaction. Alexander Calder was a pioneering figure in kinetic sculpture, best known for inventing the mobile - a delicately balanced, moving structure. His mobiles and stabiles are characterised by geometric forms and bold primary colours, underscoring his interest in spontaneity, balance, and the relationship between form and space. Over the course of his career, Calder's work was featured in major retrospectives, including at the Guggenheim Museum (1964), the National Gallery of Art in Washington DC (1998–1999), and a joint exhibition by Pace Gallery and the Palazzo delle Esposizioni in Rome (2013–2014). Calder passed away in New York in 1976 at the age of 78. Philippe Hiquily, known for his surreal metal sculptures, brought together elements of modernism, surrealism, and kinetic art. His work often integrates mechanical aesthetics, with a focus on movement and balance. Hiquily's 'Girouettes' series is a defining part of his oeuvre, reflecting his interest with dynamic structures. His work is held in numerous public collections, including the Museum of Modern Art (New York), Centre Pompidou (Paris), and the Hirshhorn Museum (Washington DC). The exhibition underscores how both artists explore the poetry of movement through different materials and methods. 'We are delighted to bring together these two masters in Dubai—a city that itself balances tradition and innovation,' said Sylvain Gaillard, Director of Opera Gallery Dubai. 'Balancing Act is not just a title—it is the very essence of the exhibition. It invites visitors to explore how movement, space, and gravity are negotiated in the work of two influential sculptors.' The exhibition will include six of Calder's works on paper, created using gouache and ink, such as Red Octopus (1971) and Fleurs (1970), alongside two of his mobiles: New Old Universe (1953) and Caged Stone on Yellow Stalk (1966). These will be exhibited alongside four of Hiquily's Girouette mobiles, including Cheng San and La Reorneadora, as well as large-scale sculptures like Grande Mimi Patte en l'air (1987). The show will also feature functional artworks by Hiquily, such as Console (2009) and Miroir aux nénettes (2003).
Epoch Times
06-05-2025
- Business
- Epoch Times
Wage Growth Outpaces Inflation, but Economic Challenges Remain
Recent economic data show that cumulative wage gains have finally surpassed the sharp rise in consumer prices that has plagued the economy for several years. This milestone marks the first time since the inflation surge began that American households have experienced real income growth after accounting for higher prices. The crossover point comes after nearly two years of persistent inflation that eroded purchasing power for millions of Americans. Workers have seen their paychecks stretch further in recent months as wage growth continues, while inflation has gradually cooled from its peak levels. However, economists and financial analysts warn that this positive development does not necessarily signal the end of economic hardships for many households. The gains remain uneven across income brackets, industries, and geographic regions. The Long Road to Recovery The journey to this point has been difficult for American consumers. Following the pandemic-era economic disruptions, inflation surged to levels not seen in four decades, peaking above 9 percent in mid-2022. During this period, nominal wage increases—substantial by historical standards—failed to keep pace with rapidly rising prices. Labor Department statistics indicate that the average worker is now slightly ahead in the race between earnings and expenses. This represents a meaningful shift from the negative real wage growth that characterized much of 2021 and 2022. 'This is technically good news, but we need to put it in proper context,' explains one economic analyst who studies consumer spending patterns. Many households depleted savings or took on debt during the high-inflation period, so they're not necessarily feeling financial relief yet. Uneven Distribution of Gains The aggregate data masks significant disparities in how different groups have fared. Workers in high-demand sectors like technology and healthcare have generally seen more substantial wage increases, while those in service industries and retail have experienced more modest gains. Regional differences also play a role. Workers in metropolitan areas with competitive labor markets have generally fared better than those in rural regions. Additionally, lower-income households typically spend a larger percentage of their budgets on necessities like food, housing, and transportation—categories that saw some of the most dramatic price increases. Related Stories 5/5/2025 4/29/2025 Key factors affecting household financial health include: Prior savings depletion during high-inflation periods Accumulated credit card and other consumer debt Housing costs that continue to rise in many markets Ongoing price volatility in essential categories like food The Federal Reserve's Balancing Act The Federal Reserve has been overseeing wage growth as it determines its next moves on interest rates. While the central bank wants to see workers benefit from a strong labor market, it remains concerned that excessive wage growth could fuel another round of inflation. Recent statements from Fed officials suggest they view the current pace of wage increases as sustainable and not inherently inflationary. This perspective has contributed to market expectations that the Fed may begin cutting interest rates in the coming months. 'The Fed is in a difficult position,' notes a financial market observer. They need to ensure inflation stays contained without unnecessarily restricting economic growth that could lead to more wage gains for workers. Consumer sentiment surveys show Americans remain cautious about their financial futures despite the positive wage data. Many households report feeling that they are still catching up rather than getting ahead financially. As the economy continues to evolve post-pandemic, the relationship between wages and prices will remain a critical indicator of household financial health. While the current data represents progress, most economists agree that sustained periods of wage growth exceeding inflation will be necessary before most Americans feel genuine financial improvement. By John Rampton The views and opinions expressed are those of the authors. They are meant for general informational purposes only and should not be construed or interpreted as a recommendation or solicitation. The Epoch Times does not provide investment, tax, legal, financial planning, estate planning, or any other personal finance advice. The Epoch Times holds no liability for the accuracy or timeliness of the information provided.
Yahoo
02-05-2025
- Business
- Yahoo
Edmonds schools to cut 12 full-time employees in response to $8.5M shortfall
This story was originally published on The Edmonds School District will be cutting a dozen full-time employees, My Edmonds News reported Wednesday. According to The Everett Herald, the Edmonds School Board approved a reduced education program at its meeting Tuesday—terminating up to 12 staff positions. The cuts are in response to an $8.5 million budget deficit for the 2025-26 school year, which KIRO 7 reported is on top of a $25 million shortfall over the past two years. My Edmonds News stated the district must notify the impacted staff by May 15. 'It's unfortunate that we do have to subject some people to this (reduction in force) process, but it is something that we do go through annually at different scales,' Rob Baumgartner, assistant superintendent of human resources, said at Tuesday's meeting, as reported by The Everett Herald. Andi Nofziger-Meadows, president of the Edmonds Education Association, blames the cuts on lawmakers, according to KIRO 7. 'The state is bankrupting Edmonds and just about every other school district in the state,' Nofziger-Meadows said, reported the media outlet. 'We're all on the march to bankruptcy. Some of us will get there in a year or two, others might take three or four years – but we are all teetering on the brink of being insolvent.' The district previously launched a 'Balancing Act' survey asking residents and families of students to weigh in on possible spending cuts and revenue increases. 'How can the school district be expected to decrease the budget when the price of everything else is inflating and continues to inflate?' one respondent asked. 'Do we need to go down to a four-day school week?' The most supported cut was eliminating elementary student intervention coordinators, saving $1.1 million. Follow Julia Dallas on X. Read her stories here. Submit news tips here.
