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Metro
3 days ago
- General
- Metro
I paid my kids to sleep - I'm embracing being a 'terrible' mum
Glancing at the clock, I made a point of noting the time: It was 9:34pm and I was about to lose my mind. I'd already read a story three times in various tones and accents. I'd sung a Carpenters medley while stroking her little forehead. I'd kissed, cuddled, filled her water bottle and turned the pillow over to the 'cold side'. And yet, my daughter, Nell, was still not tired. I, on the other hand, was. My own bedtime routine was now two hours behind schedule, and, as my body felt like it had been run over by a toy pram full of bricks, I had nothing left to give. So, I reached for the only thing I had left in my parenting toolkit: My wallet. 'If you go to sleep right now, I'll give you five pounds,' I whispered with desperation in my voice. Without a moment's hesitation, she snatched it from my hand, rolled over, and fell asleep instantly. As I crept out of her room, stunned by the efficiency of the transaction, I felt triumphant. The peace was instant, the silence golden. And yet, hovering above my relief was also a tiny, buzzing drone called 'mum guilt'. What sort of failure pays her children to sleep? A voice in my head screamed. Surely this confirmed it: I was a terrible parent. I could have spiralled then and there. Vowed to never stoop so low again. But, I realised, this wasn't realistic. Instead, I've decided to embrace being a 'terrible' mum and guess what? My life is so much better for it. Once upon a time, I'd tried to do it all. To be the perfect mum. I had the right pram (three wheels, naturally), the right shoes (Birkenstocks, obviously), and a stack of parenting books piled beside my bed, a towering pillar of my parental support and knowledge. Only, I never actually read them. Mostly, they just supported my (cold) cup of tea. I did, however, listen to parenting podcasts and sign up for a parenting course hoping to transform into a patient, bliss-ball-excreting Earth mother. But all that did was leave me muttering profanities into the fridge 10 times a day and investing in way too many tasselled, boho cushions hoping to plump up my jolly mummy persona. I so desperately wanted to be the kind of mum who delivered finger foods as she watched Bluey, carved faces in carrot coins, and who never once shouted 'Where are your shoes?' into the void during the pre-pre-school sh*t show. But the more I chased perfection, the more I unravelled. I wasn't present, I was performing. Wearing a cheerful mask every day was completely draining. I'd stand at the school gates with a smear of almond flour from a failed fluffy muffin recipe on my cheek, hoping everyone thought I had it together when in truth, I was falling apart. One day, after forgetting yet another excursion form, missing a school concert, and sending my youngest to kindergarten with nothing but a lump of cheddar in his lunch box having picked up the wrong container, I broke. I sat in the Aldi car park and sobbed for 15 minutes, mothering fatigue weighing heavy on my shoulders, my performance fraying at the seams, and perimenopause nibbling at my ankles. It was all just too much. That's when it finally hit me – no one has it together. Parenting isn't a curated Instagram reel, it's chaos, love, failure, and laughter, all in a single school run. It's sobbing into a pillow one minute and organising playdates the next. From that moment on I stopped trying to be perfect. I began leaning on my unconditional love, rather than a perception of what I should be and I started showing up as I am: flawed, shouty, loving, and late most of the time. So, did I really feel any guilt about paying my daughter to go to bed? Not really. Would I do it again? Most likely. Victoria Vanstone's latest book, Mumming – A Year of Trying (and Failing) to be a Better Parent, is a hilarious and heartfelt exploration of the messy realities of modern parenting. You can purchase Mumming in the UK here: I'm at the 'whatever works' stage of mumming so if it's been 'one of those days' and there is nothing left except a skimmed bedtime story and spare change, then so be it. On paper, it still looks like I'm failing: I've sent my son into school wearing flip flops that were two sizes too big, I forget swimming lessons, never bake for fundraisers, and I've thrown a plastic cup at a wall in frustration. I shout too much, shove Wotsits in faces to get the weekly shop done and I hide in the bathroom when I should be helping with maths. But, I've never missed a cuddle. I apologise when I get it wrong. I let them see me mess up and try again. I know some mums will judge me – we live in a world full of comparison, our every move under the spotlight, waiting to be sneered at – but I'm okay with that. More Trending Because here's the thing: I am the mum that shows up, not the one that always gets it right. The mum who sometimes feeds her kids toast for dinner but also the one who talks honestly about feelings. Who swears, then hugs. Who shouts, then says sorry. So if you feel like you're failing, you're not. You're just parenting. Badly, beautifully, imperfectly. And that, I've learned, is enough. Do you have a story you'd like to share? Get in touch by emailing MORE: 'When I die, who will look after my special needs son?' MORE: Brooklyn Beckham is right putting wife Nicola Peltz before his parents MORE: My cousin sent a text that devastated me – I wish he'd called
Buzz Feed
3 days ago
- Entertainment
- Buzz Feed
41 Affordable Alternatives To Name-Brand Items
E.l.f's Glow Reviver Lip Balm, which many people are comparing to the oh-so-popular Summer Fridays Lip Butter Balm. You'll get that same iconic soft silicone applicator, and it'll leave your lips feeling hydrated and glossy. A double-pouch wristlet wallet that looks like it could be sold at Lululemon because of how similar it is to their version (which is $48). Save your hard-earned money and get this affordable alternative instead to conveniently hold your cash, car keys, and whatever else you need to bring on the go. A Simple Modern tumbler so you can enjoy some cold, crisp water without worrying about leaks, thanks to its airtight cap that seals when you're not using the straw. Plus, you can just order this online, and you won't have to fight everyone and their mom when Stanley tumblers get released at Target. Slip-on Cushionaire cork sandals for those of you who have been putting off buying Birkenstocks and 👏🏼 will continue to do so 👏🏼 because these are sooo similar. You get the same cushiony feel and great support. A Briotech spray that's got the same main ingredient as the popular Tower 28 SOS Daily Rescue Spray — hypochlorous acid. It'll help soothe redness and inflammation and can even be beneficial for healing piercings. A pair of squoval polarized sunglasses, because you know that it doesn't take a pair of designer shades to make it look like you're cooler than everyone else. You're cooler because you just saved yourself from spending a Benjamin Franklin plus some on Ray-Ban sunnies. A classy shoulder bag that could make you think, "Wait, am I being punk'd?" since this is a super affordable version of the almost $400 Coach Swing Bag. Plus, it even comes with the iconic Coach Cherry Charm that is $95 alone! A pair of statement teardrop earrings, a fashion-forward twist on the classic hoop. Contrary to how chunky they look, reviewers say they are lightweight and a comfortable staple to their earring collection. Bottega Veneta, who?? A tote bag perfect for the office because it can hold your laptop, snacks, and water bottle, all while looking exactly like the Longchamp Le Pliage tote. She's an icon, she's a legend, and she is the moment because she's only $27! A sunrise alarm clock because you're very funny if you think I'm spending $150+ on the Hatch to be woken up. 30 minutes before your set wake-up time, this gradually changes from a red all the way to a bright white to naturally wake you up. Now I'm not a morning person, but this seems like a pretty peaceful way to be woken up. The Gym People's pullover fleece sweatshirt you'll never want to take off because of how soft the fabric is. You can throw it on over your cute pilates set or pair it with some jeans on your rest days. Plus, it even has thumb holes, just like the Lululemon version! A chic laptop tote bag so you can be in the business of slaying *and* saving money because this one is BÉISically like the Béis tote but for $90 cheaper. Reviewers love how much you can fit into this bag, and even better, it has SO MANY POCKETS! A pair of high-waisted yoga pants because we all probably wish we could have a field day at Lulu, but our wallets aren't on board with that idea. These have a seamless waistband and even have pockets on the side! Or a pair of popular cross-waist leggings with just a little more *flare* than your regular old straight-banded yoga pants. These are the perfect blend of comfort and cute for any outing and look just like the Aerie ones for way less. A super plush blanket that many have compared to the likes of Barefoot Dreams since it's got that cozy softness, just minus the hefty price tag. You will love cuddling up to this on the couch or keeping it at the foot of your bed! A cubic zirconia cuff because, tbh, having a Cartier bracelet that is over $17,000 on your wrist is just a little out of your budget.... who am I kidding... it's about $16,986 out of your budget. But $13? That's more like it. A belt bag that's basically a Lululemon look-a-like, but for way cheaper. This has tons of storage and can be worn crossbody or fanny pack style. It's easy to grab when you're heading out for a quick errand and great to pack for a weekend trip where you won't want to be lugging around a heavy purse. A bodycon jumpsuit if you love keeping up with the trends, but your wallet... not so much. This looks *and* feels just like the Aritzia "Butter" jumpsuit but for a fraction of the price! A faux-leather bag featuring magnetic closures that make it extra wide to fit all of the day's necessities and more. Reviewers rave about how this looks just like the Polène Cyme bag. It's big enough to fit a water bottle and an iPad and even comes with a small zipper pouch for your smaller items that always get lost at the bottom of your purse. A scoop-neck top for less than half the price of the Skims version, while still feeling buttery soft. Miss Kimberly.... not even your 15% off the first order coupon will get me to choose your top over this one. Sorry, not sorry. A pair of slip-on loafer mules that are soooo close to the Gucci ones but thankfully far from that hefty price tag. These are easy to slide into and add a touch of sophistication to your look. A Smeg-like, but not Smeg-priced electric kettle featuring a thermometer to get the water to the exact right temperature for your extra hot pour-over coffee or your soothing cup of tea. It also has an automatic shutoff! A midi corset dress — a gift sent down from the cottagecore gods because you ALMOST bought the House of CB "Carmen" dress that's a whopping $225, but thankfully you saw this post before you checked out. It's even got the back cinch and the front tie just like the original. A pair of Steve Madden H strap sandals perfect for a trip to Europe or if you just want to switch out the plain thong flip flops for a more sophisticated look. You'll be sure to shock everyone when you tell them they aren't Hermès. (Gasp!) A pair of super relaxed straight-leg workout pants that look quuiitteeee similar to the Lululemon Dance Studio Pants that everyone and their mom L.O.V.E. These have a drawstring waistband, extra inner pockets, and are sooo breathable! A set of internet-famous Mellanni sheets reviewers compare to the expensive brands like Brooklinen and Pottery Barn. These are super soft and made from moisture-wicking microfiber fabric for all you hot sleepers. Just take a look at the 250,000 5-star reviews if you need more convincing. E.l.f.'s Hydrating Core Lip Shine because, believe it or not, you don't need to spend more than an Erewhon smoothie for that viral lip color everyone and their mom is talking about. This "Ecstatic" shade looks just like Clinique's Almost Lipstick in "Black Honey" just at a more affordable price! A pair of wide-leg jeans reviewers love because of the button detailing and the unique front pockets. These look pretty similar to ones you'd find on the racks at Anthropologie, but MINUS the triple-digit price tag! E.l.f. Power Grip Primer, which could be #TWINNING with the Milk Makeup Hyrdro Grip Primer (but it's the cooler, cheaper sibling 😉). This is infused with hyaluronic acid, so not only does it moisturize your skin, but it also acts as a perfect base for your makeup and keeps it in place all day and night. Long-lasting Peripera Ink Velvet Lip Tint that reviewers compare to the likes of Charlotte Tilbury's Matte Revolution and YSL's Velvet Cream. It'll give you a beautiful pop of color and have your lips feeling hydrated thanks to the blend of vitamin E oil and green tea oil. A pack of two Venus Visage teeth whitening pens so you can show off those bright pearly whites when you tell your friends you saved a bunch of money not getting professional teeth whitening or using those wasteful Crest Whitestrips. Plus, this doesn't give you that slimy, weird aftertaste like most whitening strips. A faux pearl choker that'll get people to ask you, "Is that Vivienne Westwood?" pretty much every time you accessorize with this beauty of a necklace. It's so chic and so much cheaper than the original. Nyx Fat Oil Lip Drip made with hydrating raspberry seed oil and vegan squalene to moisturize your lips and add a sheer shine. You can try all you want to justify that $40 Dior Lip Oil, but you *and* your wallet will be much better off getting this one for less than $10. A rainbow-inspired eyeshadow palette so versatile that you might not even need to think about getting another (more expensive) one from Sephora or Ulta since this has matte, shimmer, AND metallic shades. You'll never know when you need a bright green shadow, but at least, you know this has it. Maybelline's Cheek Heat gel-cream blush that's a great swap for Glossier Cloud Paint in case the $22 a tube is making you want to ration product for the next three years. This water-based formula is super buildable, so it'll be great for natural and glam looks. L'Oreal's illuminating Lumi Glotion you can use as a luminous base under your other makeup products, or use on those no-makeup days where you just want a natural glow. This has glycerin and shea butter for extra moisture, and reviewers even say this is better than the Saie Glowy Super Gel and the Drunk Elephant D-Bronzi drops! A TruSkin Vitamin C Serum that will help reduce wrinkles, even out dark spots, and brighten up your skin. The hyaluronic acid, vitamin E, witch hazel, and jojoba oil work wonders to help your skin look better AND brighter each day. Reviewers say this works just as well as the SkinCeuticals C E Ferulic, which is $182! A satin pillowcase to give you a splendid sleep experience that's better for your hair and skin — satin creates less friction and doesn't absorb moisture. These are so silky smooth that you'll want to enjoy this luxury — quietly, in bed, and asleep. Slip and Blissy who?? A faux-leather shoulder bag because the TikTok girlies have all agreed the Coach Brooklyn Bag is a must-have in your bag collection, but with that nearly $300 price tag... YIKES and no thanks. This, on the other hand, is much more reasonable and it looks quiiiiiite similar. A set of chic cylindrical wineglasses — great if you want a change from the traditional wineglass but are on a strict budget. Cheers to saving money by not getting the more expensive Crate & Barrel version! A personalized hairbrush if you deeply care about everything in your life being just as aesthetic as you are. You can customize it with your name or initials, and it looks just like the custom ones you can get from Emi Jay that are.... wait for it... $134. 😳 You after you figured out that you DON'T need to spend all your money on the name brand stuff: Reviews for this post have been edited for length and/or clarity.
Buzz Feed
21-05-2025
- Lifestyle
- Buzz Feed
32 Stylish Things On Sale For Memorial Day Weekend
A pair of cork footbed sandals for up to 22% off that many reviewers say are a wonderful alternative to Birkenstocks. Their cork footbed quickly adjusts to the contour of your foot *and* they're designed with two adjustable straps. The comfort of a tennis shoe combined with the effortlessness of a sandal? Yes, please. Promising review: "Great alternative to Birks! Also, these are way more comfortable. They are the perfect fit for a summer look and don't hurt your feet after hours of wear. I have a lot of back issues so that's a big deal to me." —Lisandra BrunemeierGet it from Amazon for $16.33+ (originally $20.99+; available in sizes 6–14 and 11 colors at various discounts). Or a pair of super lightweight platform sandals for up to 25% off — their best price yet! Their pronounced arch support and deep heel cup basically make them marshmallows for your feet and the perfect summer sandal for everyday errands. Promising review: "If I could give these 10 stars I would!!! I slipped them on and absolutely melted at the incredible comfort. Stretchier straps than rhymes-with-shmarget brand plastic straps sandals of the same style. Has a perfect amount of platform for us shorties, too! Literally don't even think, just buy these. So amazing!" —Sophie MadsenGet it from Amazon for $17.08+ (typically $22.99+; available in sizes 6–11 and in six colors). A bodycon dress for 40% off that reviewers love for literally any occasion — from errands, to work, to summer outings. Grab it in any or all of the six patterns and see how easily your summer wardrobe comes together. Shop up to 50% off at Target for the Hello Summer review: "Love the dress. Super comfy, dress up or down. A great everyday dress to run errands or throw a little sweater on and use for work or to dress up for more character. Highly recommend. I also purchased the cream and red striped. Normally I don't purchase stripes, but this dress is very pretty and made exceptionally well. Great thickness to fabric and stretch." —DEBBIEGet them from Target for $12 (originally $20; available in sizes XS–4X and in six colors). A classic, retro-inspired ruched bandeau one-piece bathing suit for up to 83% off (yup, you read that right). This suit, a.k.a. your new go-to for all of summer's pool days, is made with comfortable, luxurious fabric and removable pads and straps. Reviewers rave about the clever ruching that accentuates your curves and enjoy using this as a versatile warm weather staple. Shop up to 50% off at for their summer kickoff review: "This suit is great! Besides a cute pattern, it's a very beautiful fit. The ruching is not overwhelming, like some over suits. And, it stays UP. It has moderate back coverage. Very happy with this purchase!" —reviewerGet it from J. Crew for $19.99+ (originally $118+; available in sizes 0–24, including classic and long torso, and 13 colors). A charming pair of Madewell ballet flats for 25% off — careful, Dorothy might snag these if you take your eyes off of them for even a second. They have a perfectly squared-off toe, an elastic Mary Jane strap and dozens of five-star reviews. Use the code out the entire sale review: "I got these a few weeks ago and loved the look, but I was really impressed by how comfortable they are! I wore them on my weekend trip to Charleston and walked all over the city and my feet felt great in these! I love how breathable they are due to the weave pattern. I would definitely recommend. I purchased my normal shoe size in these." —Danielle them from Madewell for $111 (originally $148; available in sizes 5–11 and 10 colors). An asymmetrical high-rise midi skirt for 58% off with an abstract print on sleek woven satin that hugs your curves in the most delicate way. Can you say "chic"? 😍 Use the code HOT30. Check out the entire sale it from Lulu's for $24.50 (originally $59; available in sizes XS–XL). A ruffle-tiered skort for 23% off, putting them at the best price they go for! These'll make you wanna twirl around, shake a lil' booty, and take a billion Instagram pics. IDK how you're gonna fight the urge to not wear these cuties every day. Promising review: "These comfortable skorts are have a beautiful look and nice fit on my hourglass body shape. The stretchiness of the waistband is abundant. The waistband is also thick and feels durable. I enjoy the flowy look of these when wearing them. Their functionality is very practical since the fabric is lightweight which is ideal for warm weather." —Lavender BlueGet it from Amazon for $22.94 (originally $29.99; available in sizes XS–XXL and 18 colors). Levi's shorts for up to 30% off, matching the lowest price they've ever been! They also come with nine color options — perfect if you don't want to go too itsy bitsy, but still want to show off a cute pair of sandals. Promising review: "Exactly the type of short I have been looking for! These are a great length and they don't ride up. Levi is such a great go-to brand. I'm 5'6, 140lbs and I ordered a 27 waist, that's my usual size. Additionally, they have good stretch and are comfortable to squat down in." —Shyenne it from Amazon for $41.64 (originally $59.50; available in sizes 23–34 and in nine styles at various discounts). Or a pair of linen pull-on shorts for 30% off because linen is the unofficial material of a happy summer, and all shorts should be pull-on, TBH. If you're looking to be comfortable and cute, these shorts are it. If you want to put together a matching set, check out this sleeveless linen top, also 30% off! And shop up to 50% off at Target for the Hello Summer review: "So cute and comfy. Can be casual or dressy. Fabric is soft. Color is very pretty and summery!" —MareGet them from Target for $12.60 (originally $18; available in sizes XS–4X and in five patterns) A tiered maxi dress for 66% off because summer is so close and you know what that means... this week, a hot new bombshell enters the villa. (Spoiler: that bombshell is you.) Shop the entire sale review: "The fit is true to size. Torrid, this dress is a hit! Please bring this silhouette in other colors like black or navy. This tiered maxi dress is a dreamy, romantic piece perfect for warm-weather outings. The smocked waist and tie-front detail provide a beautiful fit, while the delicate floral embroidery adds texture and charm. The fabric is 100% cotton and breathable. The dress has a flowy silhouette which makes it ideal for summer brunches, or beach vacations. Overall the dress is effortlessly chic which balances comfort and style beautifully, making it a staple for any wardrobe." —ode53Get it from Torrid for $39.99 (originally $119.90; available in sizes 00–6). A textured cotton snap front cardigan for 40% off for when the weather can't make up its dang mind. It's lightweight enough for layering, cozy enough for solo wear, and oversized for that "oh this? I just threw it on" effortlessness. Say hello to your new transitional go-to. Promising review: "This is now my go to throw on as I'm heading out of the house sweater. The cost per wear is going to be great!" —BrittanyGet it from Lunya for $178.80 (originally $298; available in sizes XS–XL and two colors). A Bare Necessities balanced sports bra for 30% off so you can go to your next yoga or pilates session in style with this soft, wire-free workout staple. It's designed with seamless cups lined with foam, a criss-cross strappy back, and ultra-soft, breathable fabric. You can also pair it with the matching leggings. 😍Get it from Bare Necessities for $29 (originally $42; available in sizes S–XL and two colors). Allbirds Tree Runner sneakers for up to 39% off — these silky smooth sneaks are made with eucalyptus tree fiber, making them delightfully lightweight and breathable for some next-level comfort. Plus, their cushioned midsole is made from sugarcane for some extraaa cushioning and all-day happiness for your feet. Shop up to 40% off at Allbirds for their Memorial Day review: "These are the first runners I have ever actually enjoyed wearing — the comfort is amazing, like a lil cloud! But it was the overall style for me! They look so cute!! P.S. costumer service was incredible! I won these on a Instagram giveaway and I'm SO GLAD I DID !! i will be buying a prego pair asap ;)" —Toni them from Allbirds for $59+ (originally $98; available in sizes 5–11 and 13 colors). Some ~jean-ius~ Good American slim high-rise bootcut jeans for 30% off (with one of the styles at a full 60% off once added to your cart)! If you never thought a pair of jeans could feel so utterly soft and weightless, think again. Shop 30% off everything at Good American for their Memorial Day review: "This is my first purchase from Good American and I am thrilled with these jeans. They are very good quality, well-made and feel soft and comfortable. I am tall and often have a hard time finding jeans long enough to wear with heels and these are perfect. I definitely recommend!" —Cindy them from Good American for $71.50+ when you use code "MAY30" at checkout (originally $159+; available in sizes 00–30 plus and four colors). Some palazzo lounge pants for up to 20% off (the best price they go for!) that allow for ample airflow. It's basically like wearing a dress, but you don't have to worry about accidentally flashing anyone if a gust of wind catches you by surprise. Promising review: "I have eight versions of these pants. I love the stretchiness and how they fit me. They are perfect for me to wear to work and not feel all stiff. The material for me is breathable. When I'm needing more bottoms, I always go back to these!" —JasmineGet it from Amazon for $19.99 (originally $24.99; available in sizes S–3XL and dozens of styles at various discounts; not all colors on sale). A square-neck top for up to 50% off that simply screams "summer is here!!" The ruffled sleeves give it a touch more character than a simple T-shirt, and that square neckline is perfect for showing off necklaces, especially any you scored on sale! Plus, it's currently at its best price ever. 😉 Promising review: "Love love love this shirt! Very soft and true to size. Colors are beautiful and true to picture. Great shirt for spring and summer since the material is lightweight and breathable. I've washed my other shirts (this is my third purchase in a different color) and they hold up after washing with no wrinkles." —CPC GirlGet it from Amazon for $9.99+ (typically $19.99; available in sizes S–3XL; available in 11 on-sale colors at various discounts and 15 colors at their original price). A comfy-yet-compact J. Crew Heritage cotton Rollneck sweater for 41% off you'll appreciate having for all those fresh summer outings. This is designed with a subtly relaxed fit, ribbed trim at the cuffs and hem, and an easy roll at the neckline that earned this iconic sweater its name. Shop up to 50% off at for their summer kickoff review: "I was looking for a summer cotton pullover sweater for cool evenings/restaurants. I bought this and the fit is perfect including sleeve length as many of today's long sleeve sweaters are way too long on me." —reviewerGet it from J. Crew for $69.50+ (originally $118+, available in sizes XXXS–3X; three colors on sale, and two colors at their original price). A maxi halter A-line dress for 40% off because it's going to be your go-to for picnics, parties, al fresco dining, and pretty much any event where you want to look put-together with zero effort. Shop up to 50% off at Target for the Hello Summer review: "I cannot brag on this dress enough. As a mom of two, this dress hides my momma pooch perfectly, all while making me feel confident and beautiful. The color is so bright and vibrant. I love the neckline. Material is well made. I will be buying in another color." —thelifeoflizzGet it from Target for $21 (originally $35; available in sizes XS–4X and in three colors). Splurge-worthy block heel mules for up to 50% off that'll ensure you're walking in both comfort *and* style from your first sip of latte in the morning to the moment you fall back onto your hotel bed in the evening. They have a supportive 2-inch cylinder heel, plush foam padding, and an array of stunning colors to choose from. Ma'am Shoes is a woman-owned small biz that makes shoes with a focus on comfort, style, and sustainability. BuzzFeed Shopping's Danielle Healy LOVES these shoes: "Sometimes it feels like my feet are made of paper with how easily they blister. So when a brand markets itself as having a focus on stylish comfort, I am all ears. Fresh out of the box, I wore these red beauties out to dinner (a 20-minute walk each way) and my feet were no worse for wear. So I decided to put them through the ultimate test — a wedding. Even after hours of dancing, my feet felt great and I got loads of compliments. A statement shoe that really does look and feel great? *Big swoon.*"Get them from Ma'am Shoes for $150+ (originally $300+; available in sizes 4.5–11 and five colors). A strapless bodycon dress for 24% off, which really and truly exudes *chic*. Get ready for all those awe-inspired gasps as soon as you take their coat off for all those weddings and events you've got coming up this season! Promising review: "I love the ribbed material on this dress. It has a lot of stretch to it. The top has a nice folded over detail to it. The fabric feels like it's going to last and the stitching feels solid. It's not see-through in any way. It feels thick as if it's lined. I love that the length is below the knee. There is a nice slit on one side, yet not too high. It's sexy and hugs your curves. I think this will pair really well with jean jacket and slides or some cute summer sandals." —AnnGet it from Amazon for $38.24 (originally $49.99; available in sizes S–XXL and 30 styles; select styles on sale). A pair of *super* comfy, breathable overalls for 33% off that reviewers say are the most comfortable things they've ever worn. Perfect for those days when it's so hot, you don't want to wear anything but you know that's not socially acceptable *rolls eyes*. Promising review: "I'm 5'3' 180 pounds and bought a large (shown in the first pic above!). It fits perfectly, can wear long or fold to ankle length. Enough room for a T-shirt or tank underneath. Super soft and comfortable. The material feels like cotton. Not too thin, can't see through it. But cool enough to wear with a tank in warm weather!" —ACGet it from Amazon for $19.99+ (originally $29.98; available in XS–XXL and 18 colors; select colors on sale). A Good American scuba tank bodysuit for 30% off (with the blue style at a full 77% off once added to your cart)! It's made with luxurious, compressive fabric designed to hug your curves. Wear this with your favorite pair of jeans or tailored pants for the *ultimate* on-the-go outfit. Shop 30% off everything at Good American for their Memorial Day review: "I purchased my first of these bodysuits a few years back, one black and one white scuba tank. These have become staples in my wardrobe for all types of outfits, from jeans to suits or skirts. Great fabric, great support in the bust area, can be worn with or without a bra and comfortable both ways. Just bought two new ones to replace my worn out ones!" —Simran it from Good American for $17.49+ when you use code "MAY30" at checkout (originally $79; available in sizes XS–5XL and seven colors). A Marc Jacobs small mesh tote bag for 30% off because it's a stylish addition to literally any outfit and fits way more than you think it would. It's also designed with a zip closure and an adjustable crossbody strap. Psst — it's also available in blue!Promising reviews: "It's super cute and is a lot bigger than I expected. You can definitely fit a lot. Great sale price! Overall I am very pleased with my purchase." —Leslie P."Looking for a summer, park, and beachy bag? Well this is the bag for you!!! Not too small not too big! Very stylish!" —Judy 1Get it from Bloomingdales for $175 (originally $250). A smocked romper for 40% off — perfect for dressing up, down, or somewhere in between. Sun hat and sandals, heels and a crossbody purse; cap and sneakers. Whatever you pair it with, it's gonna look 🔥. Shop up to 50% off at Target for the Hello Summer review: "I love how the straps are adjustable since I have a bigger chest. I love how it fits my body and makes me feel cute. It also HAS POCKETS!" —MarieGet it from Target for $15 (originally $25; available in sizes XS–4X). A waterproof Columbia Arcadia II Jacket for 30% off, which is a *classic* outdoor staple for a reason (many, actually). It features the brand's signature, air-permeable protection to shield you from drizzle to downpour. It also has an adjustable storm hood, drawcord adjustable hem, and zippered hand pockets for ultimate comfort. Promising reviews: "I had a family Disneyland trip planned and unfortunately it was going to be a rainy Disney trip. I ordered this jacket in hopes that it would keep me warm and dry all day, and it sure did! I was warm and dry all day long. It was pouring all day at Disneyland. I got home at around 10pm and I was completely dry. This is an amazing jacket. Totally worth the price." —Maira"I LOVE LOVE LOVE this jacket! I cannot tell you how many times I've worn it since I got it a month if it's not raining. It's the perfect jacket to wear with fleece under it on these cool WI summer nights when I'm at my grandson's baseball games. The hood is great too; it velcros under the chin and stays up. Highly recommend!" —Amazon CustomerGet it from Amazon for $52.49 (originally $75; available in sizes XS–3X and dozens of colors; select colors on sale). A high-neck one-piece swimsuit for up to 31% off because summer is nearly upon us and it's time for an upgrade! This popular style features keyhole cutouts to keep you cool and breezy and a tie-back design for a perfect fit. More than 8,000 reviewers love it, with many saying it's equal parts comfy and supportive. Promising review: "This suit is perfect. Sexy but covered. Sporty but sophisticated. I was dubious about buying a swimsuit from Amazon, but this thing is my go-to. I will be buying more as backups. The layering in the tummy is nice and doesn't feel bulky at all." —OmibashuGet it from Amazon for $26.99+ (originally $38.99; available in sizes XS–XXL and 15 color/style combos at various discounts; select colors on sale). And a linen-cotton cover-up for 42% off, a.k.a. the yin to your bathing suit's yang. It's made with lightweight, slightly sheer linen-cotton fabric and a relaxed fit — perfect for throwing over your bikini or into your bag for a day at the beach. Shop up to 50% off at for their summer kickoff review: "Great light fabric for a summer holiday. Planning to wear loose over bikinis near the pool and also occasionally wear tied up at the front with shorts or pants to go site seeing. A good all rounder. Love the cuff details." —MisslilyumGet it from J. Crew for $56.50 (originally $98; available in sizes XXS–3X and three colors). Saucony's Endorphin Speed 4 sneakers for 44% off — it does everything a running shoe *should* do, seriously. Its innovative technology for makes for effortless speed and its foam offers a top-notch combination of cushioning and energy return. Those hot girl runs are about to look a whole lot hotter. 🔥 Promising review: "I bought these to train for and run Hyrox in and I absolutely LOVE these shoes. They are extremely light, comfortable, and perfect for training all sorts of functional exercises with running in between, as well as running in general. These changed my running game, look super cool on the feet, and are my favorite running shoes I've ever owned. I will be buying more colors. Obsessed and highly recommend if you are running or hybrid training." —graciegirl1120Get them from Saucony for $93.71 (originally $170; available in sizes 5–12, four styles, and 14 colors). A ruffle maxi skirt for 40% off for that easy-breezy look you've been begging for since the doldrums of winter. Not only will you get plenty of ~airflow~, there's material at the top of the skirt to make sure an unexpected breeze doesn't turn into an unexpected embarrassing moment. Shop up to 50% off at Target for the Hello Summer review: "Fits perfect — no gapping at the wrap around part, no peek-a-boo — has a short extension which is perfect. This is the first clothing item I've purchased from Target in a long time that I actually love! Do more of this!" —LynnJGet it from Target for $16.80 (originally $28; available in women's sizes XS–XXL). Some low heel pump sandals for 33% off if you're looking for a lil' more height and a lot more comfort. Thanks to its slip-resistant outsole and an adjustable buckle, many reviewers claim that these have effortlessly carried them through hours at weddings, graduations, and other formal events (with many of them saying they didn't even have to wear the extra pair of comfy shoes they'd brought with them!). Promising review: "I ordered these shoes to match a gold dress for an event. They matched and the shoes were very comfortable. The block heel is great for adding extra stability for a long night out. I ended up ordering a black pair for another event because I knew I liked the shoe so well. I did order 0.5 size down from my typical size after reading other reviews and was happy with the fit." —Amanda McGarrellGet them from Amazon for $25.99+ (originally $38.99+; available in sizes 5–12, wide sizes, and 37 colors at various discounts; select colors on sale). A lab grown white sapphire tennis bracelet for 20% off so you can get the look of real diamonds without the hefty price tag. And boy, do they look like real diamonds or what? 😍 You can even choose from different styles so you can tailor your bracelet to match your own ~sparkle~. Promising review: "This is one of the best jewelry purchases I have made. Just in the first few times wearing it, I have received so many compliments. It is a beautiful and high-end looking staple. The quality and look is beyond the price tag and I know it's a piece I will have forever." —Laila it from Aurate for $222.40 when you use code "LONGWKND" at checkout (originally $278; available in two colors, two lengths, and three carat weights). A tank dress for up to 33% off that's about to become the MVP of your warm-weather wardrobe. The tiered skirt gives it a breezy, flowy design, and reviewers say the fabric is lightweight, breathable, and has the perfect amount of stretch. Imagine twirling around in this in the park and pretending you're back on summer break with zero responsibilities!! Promising review: "My go-to throw on for those hot summer days... Have worn it to summer parties with a cute necklace or out to walk the dog when it's 95 degrees. And I get regular compliments and, 'Where'd you get that?'" —M. VinogradGet it from Amazon for $19.98+ (originally $29.99; available in sizes S–XXL and 23 colors).
Buzz Feed
20-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Buzz Feed
Get Up To 50% Off During The Target Hello Summer Sale
Summer called: it wants you to know that Target's Hello Summer Sale has begun, which means you can celebrate the arrival of the season with up to 50% off outdoor essentials, stunning styles, home goods, and more! Check out a few of the savings you can snag all week: A family-sized pool for 30% off for help keeping young kiddos entertained while they're out on break or if you just want a cool-down space for yourself. Just put your drink in the cup holder, lounge on the seat, and imagine you're in the tropics. Price: $31.50 (originally $45) A bubble blower for 30% off to add some summer whimsy to your outdoor fun. Whether you have bubble-obsessed kids or want to make your adult gathering so much cuter, a bubble machine is always a good choice. I have this bubble machine and it's a great little product for the price. It goes through a lot of bubbles — so stock up — but also saves me from getting lightheaded as my kids yell for more bubbles. And, TBH, bubbles floating around brings out my own inner child. Promising review: "If this ever brakes I'm buying the same one again. My toddler loves this bubble machine!!" —PaulinaPrice: $7 (originally $10; also available in a strawberry version) A clear crossbody for 25% off for all of the concerts, festivals, and fairs you're planning on attending this summer. Just stash your essentials and happily walk into clear-bag-only events without figuring out how to carry a phone, chapstick, sunscreen, a frozen lemonade, and ice cream with only two hands. Price: $26.25 (originally $35; available in six colors) A pair of fan-favorite Cushionaire sandals for 40% off that many reviewers compare to Birkenstock. Might as well add a few colors to your cart now or you'll be kicking yourself once you fall in love with them, but the sale is over. I own two pairs of these sandals and basically live in them in summer. I get knee pain in super flat sandals, but I can walk in these four hours with no pain!Promising review: "I love Birkenstocks but even the soft sole Birks are too hard for me. These are soft and have good support!" —BadgerPrice: $29.99+ (originally $49.99; available in sizes 6–11 and in seven colors) A lounge pool float for 50% off for ultimate relaxation all summer long. And with a cupholder to keep your drink? I see no reason to leave the pool for the foreseeable future. Promising review: "I bought this for a trip out of town and I was heavily pregnant and needed something comfortable. This float was exactly what I needed, it's great quality and it comes with a cup holder. I do recommend getting a blow up machine to blow it up as well but it quickly deflated after we were done with it." —EmilyPrice: $5 (originally $10) A hydro corn hole board for 50% off to make pool time fun and a little competitive. I am completely down for any and all pool games — whatever keeps my kids occupied longer. This is only one inflatable board, so it's not a corn hole set. That being said, two in a pool seems like it would be difficult to keep from floating away anyway 🤷♀️. Price: $10 (originally $20) A low-profile outdoor side table for 30% off to keep your bevvy of choice so close that you never have to put down your summer read of choice. All you need now is a whimsical straw and you have your ultimate summer vibe. All you need now is a lounge chair. This one is well-reviewed if you're looking to treat yourself (currently 40% off!), or try this one if you're ballin' on a budget (currently 30% off!). Promising review: "I purchased two of these for my outdoor patio. I didn't have space for larger side tables. They are so cute! They can fit in a lot of small places with the right angle of the table top. Great price and great little side table." —BarbaraPrice: $21 (originally $30; available in three colors) A pair of solar-powered lanterns for 30% that'll add a little extra character to your outdoor space, no matter how small it is. It's high time you rename your patio to your little ~retreat~. These lanterns are plastic for durability and include ground stakes. Promising review: "I purchased a few of these and hung them on my fence in the back yard. They include a handle in addition to a clip to hang on a smaller object. These look very pretty at night. Nice and bright when they light up." —WalkerPrice: $14 for two lights (originally $20) A welcome mat for 30% off to for making your return home every day just a little more inviting. Honestly, making your threshold just a smidgen cuter does wonders. Price: $10.50 (originally $15) A four-piece patio set for 62% off that's perfect for a little summer morning cup of coffee, hosting a party with friends, or just enjoying some fresh air because it's (almost) summer, summer, summertiiiiiiiime (so obviously time to sit back and unwind). Promising review: "Looks very nice, sturdy and perfect for my Condo patio. Totally happy!" —MariPrice: $299.99 (originally $789.99) A fire pit for 53% off to level up all of your outdoor parties this summer. From adding a little ambiance to roasting up s'mores, you absolutely do not need to know how to light a fire like you're on Survivor to enjoy a fire. Promising review: "Highly recommend! The price couldn't have been any better for this quality material, easy to assemble, consistent performance, and simple aesthetic. Comes with a cover and I like the propane placement so you don't have two pieces like other popular fire pit models. So there's no cording you have to watch for or trip over. Comes with black lava rocks which were easy to clean if needed (we got some marshmallow goop on a small area). Really happy with our purchase. Thank you!" —KmhvPrice: $139.99 (originally $299.99) A spray fan for 30% off that'll keep you cool and misted all summer long. Whether you're keeping yourself cool in unbearable heat or spraying your kids down at whatever sporting event they're in, this simple little comfort-saver is your new best friend. Price: $4.90 (originally $7; available in four colors) A pair of tinted swim goggles for 20% off to give your eyes some sun protection without wondering if your sunglasses are going to slip to the bottom of the pool again. I just discovered these last year and I am still wondering why I didn't get them sooner. I bought these goggles last year when visiting my in-laws in Florida. I have a love/hate relationship with pools because the sun reflecting off of the water is SO. DANG. BRIGHT and I have light-sensitive eyes. On a whim I ran to Target and grabbed these BBs and my life changed for the better. I got to swim around the pool with my kids without straining my eyes from the sun or losing my sunglasses when swimming under the water. My husband also grabbed a pair and loves them, too!Promising review: "The best, non-leaky, goggles. I've been using this brand/model for years." —SashaPrice: $11.99 (originally $14.99; also available in a non-tinted version) A water slide for 30% off for some easy and nostalgic water play. And at seven bucks, what do you have to lose? Promising review: "My kids are so excited to use this! Just a heads up regarding the review below about not having a normal size plug to fill with air: per the directions, it doesn't get filled with air — it's large for you to attach your hose to fill it with water. It also has a separate part to connect your hose for the constant sprinkler effect on the slide. This certainly won't last forever, but none of these truly do. It's great for what you pay for it." —JGPrice: $7 (originally $10) A maxi dress for 40% off that's going to be your go-to for picnics, parties, al fresco dining, and pretty much any event where you want to look put-together with zero effort. Promising review: "I cannot brag on this dress enough. As a mom of two, this dress hides my momma pooch perfectly, all while making me feel confident and beautiful. The color is so bright and vibrant. I love the neckline. Material is well made. I will be buying in another color." —thelifeoflizzPrice: $21 (originally $35; available in women's sizes XS–4X and in three colors) A pair of linen pull-on shorts for 30% off because linen is the unofficial material of a happy summer, and all shorts should be pull-on, TBH. If you're looking to be comfortable and cute, these shorts are it. If you want to put together a matching set, check out this sleeveless linen top, also 30% off!Promising review: "So cute and comfy. Can be casual or dressy. Fabric is soft. Color is very pretty and summery!" —MarePrice: $12.60 (originally $18; available in women's sizes XS–4X and in five patterns) A bodycon dress for 40% off that reviewers love for literally any occasion — from errands, to work, to summer outings. Grab it in any or all of the six patterns and see how easy your summer wardrobe comes together. Promising review: "Love the dress. Super comfy, dress up or down. A great everyday dress to run errands or throw a little sweater on and use for work or to dress up for more character. Highly recommend. I also purchased the cream and red striped. Normally I don't purchase stripes, but this dress is very flattering and made exceptionally well. Great thickness to fabric and stretch." —DEBBIEPrice: $12 (originally $20; available in women's sizes XS–4X and in six colors) A ruffle maxi skirt for 40% off for that easy-breezy look you've been begging for since the doldrums of winter. Not only will you get plenty of ~airflow~, there's material at the top of the skirt to make sure an unexpected breeze doesn't turn into an unexpected embarrassing moment. Promising review: "Fits perfect — no gapping at the wrap around part, no peek-a-boo — has a short extension which is perfect. This is the first clothing item I've purchased from Target in a long time that I actually love! Do more of this!" —LynnJPrice: $16.80 (originally $20; available in women's sizes XS–XXL) A sprinkler for 30% off to give your kids — or adult friends — a water option regardless of your own pool access. And with no swimming skills required, this sprinkler is practically begging you to pull up a chair and enter full parenting-from-a-lawn-chair mode. Promising review: "I have been looking for an inexpensive kids sprinkler attachment and this did the trick. It more sprays directly up than out though but it worked for my 2-year-old just fine." —MichellePrice: $2.10 (originally $3) A snow cone maker for 25% off that'll definitely make your parties the ones to be at. Also, if you're tired of your kiddos asking for ice cream 800 times a day, this can add a little novelty and a little less dairy to their summer adventures. Promising review: "I absolutely love this snow cone machine. It comes with snow cone cups and straws. Also, in case you're worried that you need to buy snow cone flavoring, it already comes with some. It comes with blue raspberry and cherry. It's super easy to work and amazing." —LilyPrice: $29.99 (originally $39.99) A jewelry organizer for 35% off because spring organizing is still fully underway. Keep your favorite jewelry right at your fingertips and looking ~aesthetic~ rather than in a heap on your dresser. Promising review: "Looks gorgeous in person and holds so much jewelry! The only dislike is that there's no specific place for bracelets, but I just used the middle piece to hang them." —maia wPrice: $19.50 (originally $30) An Amazon Fire Stick for 43% off because The Bear is coming back next month, and you need to marathon-watch without interruption. Keep all of your streaming apps in one easily accessible place without needing to drop money on a smart TV. Promising review: "Perfect for my unsmart tv. Makes it smart in no time." —AmandaPrice: $19.99 (originally $34.99) And a sound bar for 23% off to complete your home entertainment nirvana. Summer movie nights finally got a little more theater-quality. Promising review: "Omg. I love this sound bar. This little bar kicks out a mean punch. It's very apartment friendly. Not a lot of bass, although you can adjust it, but it definitely does the job. I'm happy with my purchase." —ChinkChinkPrice: $99.99 (originally $129.99) A self-emptying robot vacuum/mop combo for 40% off for keeping those floors sparkling clean without any effort. If heat and humidity suck all of your energy, you deserve to focus on fun rather than cleaning. Promising review: "I love it. Works great. When the floors are clean, seems like the whole house is cleaner. Works better than I thought for mopping. Vacuumed my rugs so well when I shake them, they are already clean from the vacuum. Saves me time and energy." —BGPrice: $599.99 (originally $999.99) A tabletop s'mores maker for 25% off so you can enjoy the ultimate summer treat regardless of your firepit situation. Because absolutely NO ONE can be unhappy while eating a s'more. It's science. Might as well grab some marshmallows, graham crackers (even gluten free!), and chocolate while you're at it. Promising review: "This little device exceeded my expectations! Received this as a gift and have used it a dozen times! Would definitely buy again." —AndshuaPrice: $29.99 (originally $39.99) You, absolutely ready for summer thanks to Target's Hello Summer Sale: The sale ends May 26th, so don't wait too long to get shopping and saving!
NDTV
20-05-2025
- NDTV
In Portugal: Why Travelling To A Chapel Made Of Human Bones Made Perfect Sense For A Birthday Trip
Portugal: Visiting a chapel made of human bones is not your usual birthday trip. No one wants to be reminded of mortality on the day they celebrate being born, but well, death is the only truth, like it or not. So, as I looked for day trips from Lisbon on my birthday last year, a little town glowed on the app. "The Town With The Human-Bone Chapel". Capela dos Ossos. And just like that, all other day trips were thrown out of the window, and I settled for Evora, a little reminder of life and death in central Portugal. The entry to the Chapel of Bones is chilling. The message on the entrance arch, even more. "We the bones that are here, for yours we wait." Neat. Grim. And just so true. The message of "dust to dust" echoes in every bone that holds up the Chapel of Bones. The chapel was built in the first half of the 17th century and is the oldest Chapel of Bones in Portugal. It was dedicated to the cult of the Souls of Purgatory (the cult of the dead or the cult of the abandoned, developed in Italy's Naples when the Plague killed more than half of the city's population). The bones of the burials connected to its convent were used to build the chapel. The skulls and bones of over 5,000 monks were turned into its walls. Capela dos Ossos lies within the Church of San Francisco at the southern edge of the town. For most day trips from Lisbon, this isn't the first stop. It is revealed to you after a fashion. The walk through Evora starts at its entrance, through its gardens and museum. First comes the Church of St Francis. It's only once you have ooh-ed and aah-ed at the interiors of this catholic place of worship that you are taken to the next stop: Capela dos Ossos. The Chapel of Bones, built by Franciscan friars, was inaugurated in 1816. Sunlight filters in through three windows in the bone-walls into a chamber that is otherwise quite dark. If you look up, you see a ceiling made of bricks painted white, with death motifs all over it. Yet another morbid message is scribbled on the roof: "Melior est dies mortis die nativitatis (Better is the day of death than the day of birth)". Is it? Maybe. Capela dos Ossos forces you into reflection. The chapel is a place of sober contemplation on the human facts of life and death, and that no one really escapes the latter, no matter who you are. So, "we the bones that are here, for yours we wait". Outside of Capela dos Ossos, the town diffuses into a tangle of white and yellow alleyways and lanes where you can pick up everything from an ice cream cone to fake Birkenstocks. Cork-soled sandals are everywhere. The city is among the world's largest exporters of cork. And pork. The best ham and pork products in Portugal come from this little town. The pigs, that feed on cork-oak acorns, later go on to serve as gastronomical delights around tables in Portugal. Evora is also home to some brilliant, unfussy food and wine. Robust reds and light whites that go very well with Portuguese food. At lunchtime, the entire city slows down to a stop. There's no one on the streets. The souvenir shops are shuttered shut. The bars and taverns have their shades drawn. The city holds you by the shoulders and sits you down for a leisurely lunch. Who was I to stray from the ways of Evora. So, a little Google search took me to Bistro Barao, a Tripadvisor-recommended legend, a door in a narrow lane that you can pass by without a second look. Bistro Barao seats 14 people at once. The room that the entrance leads to is a low-ceilinged, literal hole in the wall. It leads to another of the same, with three more tables inside. The restaurant is run by Manuel and Margarite. Margarite ruffles up the delicacies that her husband Manuel then takes to his guests. A team like no other. I chose a table by a wall that had scribbles from guests world over who Manuel, the one-man serving army at Bistro Barao, has served. He spoke very little English. I spoke zero Portuguese. But Google Translate bowed to Manuel's instincts as he brought me some of the best fish curry I have ever had... outside of Bengal, that is. He also picked a white to go with the fish. It was divine. An equally divine high accompanied me as I traipsed out of the restaurant, feeling full and fulfilled, out in a town where time seemed to have lost all meaning. Life is laidback in Evora. All of Evora's alleys eventually lead to Praça do Giraldo, the town square. A fountain lies at the centre of the square. The Henriquina Fountain's eight jets symbolise the eight streets that radiate from Praca do Giraldo. The municipality buildings and Evora's major banks are all around this square. There are many little keepsake stores around, in case you wanted to pick a bit of Evora to take home. From the city's well-preserved old town centre, you can still see the medieval walls that partially surround it. There are many monuments scattered all over town that date back to various historical periods, starting 2,000 years ago. Romans took over the town in 57 BC and turned it into a walled city. Then came the Moors, under Tariq ibn-Ziyad. After 400 years of Islamic rule, Gerald the Fearless snatched Evora from the Moors in 1165 AD, and Portuguese king Alfonso I got the town under his rule the following year. The Roman Temple from around the 1st century BC is still around. It began being called the Temple of Diana long after; as recently as the 17th century. All around Evora lie the dust of civilisations past. The stories of its many conquerors. The many men and women who built and are buried in Evora. The monks whose bones were dug up. The skulls that still wait for the ones who haven't yet made it there. Inside that bone-chilling bone chapel.
