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Yahoo
9 hours ago
- Health
- Yahoo
A Mom-to-Be Says Her Mother Seems ‘Embarrassed' She's Giving Birth Via C-Section — and Now Her Husband Is Furious
A soon-to-be mom says she thinks her mother is 'embarrassed' that she's going to give birth via a C-section She says her mom claims a C-section 'isn't natural,' and told her, 'now you won't be able to tell people you've given birth to your baby' The woman says her husband is now "furious" with her mother and thinks she should "challenge" her, but she's not sure it's worth itA soon–to-be mom is upset after her 'difficult' mother told her that having a C-section isn't true childbirth — and she's wondering if she should say something. The woman detailed her story on the U.K.-based community site where women can seek advice from other women on interpersonal and parenting issues. In her post, the woman says that she is 39 weeks pregnant, and that she 'hoped and prepped for a vaginal birth' throughout her pregnancy. She goes on to say that 'despite doing all the planning,' including a hypnobirthing course, perineal massage, birthing ball exercises and more, her doctor recently confirmed that the baby is breech and she will require a C-section. 'I was upset at first, as I'd been almost looking forward to labor, and I'm quite scared of the surgery, but I've come to terms with it,' she adds. However, the original poster (OP) says that she recently told her mother of the birthing plan update, and her mom's reaction upset her 'all over again.' She says her mom was 'openly disappointed' by the news, and said, 'But now you won't be able to tell people you've given birth to your baby, as a C-section isn't natural.' Never miss a story — sign up for to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. The OP says she was 'taken aback' by the comment and attempted to explain to her mother that 'the only important thing was [the] baby being born safely and me being well.' She says that her mother then 'doubled down,' saying, 'But the baby won't have been 'born,' will it?' 'I think she's embarrassed at the prospect of telling people her grandchild wasn't birthed vaginally,' the woman goes on to say, adding that her mom is in her 50s and that this will be her first grandchild. The OP says that her husband is currently 'furious' at her mother over the comments and thinks the OP should 'challenge' her on them. While the OP says she likely won't say anything because her mom 'can be a difficult woman and sometimes it's easier to just let things go to keep the peace,' she is hoping to get either 'validation' or a 'reality check' from her fellow members to find out whether 'I'm being sensitive,' or if her mom 'is out of order.' The PEOPLE Puzzler crossword is here! How quickly can you solve it? Play now! The vast majority of post commenters assured the OP that her feelings are completely valid and that her mother is being unreasonable. 'You are not overreacting. That was extremely insensitive of your mom,' said one person. 'Your [mother] sounds like she has ridiculous, fixed ideas,' one person said, adding, 'As long as your baby arrives safely it doesn't matter whether it was vaginal or [C-section] — and your [mother's] friends really won't be interested, disappointed, etc. in your method of giving birth either.' 'Why do people make such idiotic comments? You and your baby need to be safe first and foremost. No one I know would make any judgment about how a baby is born,' said someone else. And while a number of people said that the OP should probably just let the comment go, as challenging someone like her mother will likely just lead to more stress, some people said that the OP should say something now before the baby is born. One person said, 'I would message her saying something like, 'I just wanted to say I was upset by your comments on C-sections earlier. This is what my doctors have decided is best and the manner of birth isn't going to make any difference to the baby except possibly saving its life or my life. I'd appreciate it if you could avoid any more negative remarks on C-sections as it's deeply unhelpful for me at this time.' ' Read the original article on People
Daily Mail
15-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
Grant Denyer's wife Chezzi undergoes 8 HOUR surgery after battling post-pregnancy condition that left her with nerve damage and endless pain
Chezzi Denyer has opened up about her four year health battle after a post-pregnancy hernia saw her struggle with nerve damage, unimaginable back pain and a lack of core strength. The former Sunrise producer, 43, who is married to TV presenter Grant Denyer, took to Instagram on Thursday to inform fans that she had undergone a lengthy seven and a half hour surgery after struggling with the hernia's effects for years. In the post, Chezzi shared pictures of her hospital stay, along with a caption detailing her turbulent health battle. 'Four years ago, after the arrival of my beautiful little Sunday, I didn't rest as I should have after my caesarean,' she started the post. 'Pushing myself too soon caused a hernia in my abdominal wall and left me with a 2cm abdominal separation from top to bottom,' an injury which stripped away her core strength and pelvic floor control. The result was layers of scar tissue around her third C-section scar and nerve damage that seemed impossible to fix. But despite the pain, the mum of three carried on, maxing herself out with family duties and not taking time to rest. 'When Sunday was in her full body cast, I carried her 20+ kilo little body around for hours on end, rocking her day in and day out for months. 'My instinct to mother her overrode my own physical pain, and I did more damage. The hernia opened up again, and a new one formed lower down.' Years of pain led Chezzi to take the needed steps to fix the problem, which would include a demanding and lengthy surgery, as well as a six-week recovery process. 'Last Friday, I underwent a 7.5-hour operation to rebuild me. I woke up feeling like I'd been hit by a Mack truck,' she said. 'I've had physio just to deep breathe again, and I'm rocking some gnarly-looking drains. But I am home.' She then went on to thank her husband for 'holding it together' through the surgery's aftermath, saying she was in 'awe' of him. 'I've got three little emotional girls who are so happy to have their Mumma back—albeit a bit grossed out by me and my friends, the drains.' The Aussie star then revealed why she decided to be transparent about her health journey on social media. 'So many of you have been with me through the entire motherhood journey. We're friends. A community. It matters to me. 'I'm home, I'm healing, and I'm grateful,' she ended off the post. Last year, Chezzi announced that she had experienced a spiritual awakening and was ready to start work as a medium. The wife of Grant Denyer recently studied at Arthur Findlay College in Essex, England, a residential institution which describes itself as, 'The World's Foremost College for the Advancement of Spiritualism and Psychic Sciences.' In an Instagram post in September, Chezzi revealed that she is embracing her new, open-minded life. Chezzi went on to describe her 'profound' studies at the college, which is described as offering 'facilities unequalled anywhere in the world in the spiritualist movement'. 'My time at Arthur Findlay College had so many profound moments that I'm yet to process... and of course, then share here.. but I am just so invigorated right now to get a greater conversation happening around self-acceptance' Chezzi said. 'Every time we choose a path of love over fear, we not only help ourselves grow but we help others simultaneously. And throughout my mediumship studies the most powerful messages from our loved ones strongly reinforce this.'
