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Yahoo
4 days ago
- Yahoo
Experts reveal the obvious sign someone is cheating — that most people don't catch: ‘That's a breadcrumb worth following'
Turns out, evidence of a cheater might not be hidden in their texts, tucked in their DMs or whispered on a late-night phone call. It could be sitting right there on their bank statement. Forget lipstick on the collar — suspicious ATM withdrawals might be the real smoking gun. 'We're basically a cashless society these days, so if your partner has always been about tap-and-go, using a credit card for reward points, and suddenly starts doing ATM withdrawals — that's a breadcrumb worth following,' private investigator Cassie Crofts explained on TikTok. Why? 'Cash doesn't leave a trail,' Crofts said. 'If they go to a restaurant and spend $200, you can be pretty sure they weren't dining solo. But $200 cash withdrawal? You've got no idea what happened.' Brothel manager Catherine De Noire says the location — and the timing — of those withdrawals can be even more damning. 'The first thing is that a lot of guys don't carry enough cash. So then they go and withdraw money from an ATM, which is usually somewhere near the brothel or inside the brothel,' she said on Instagram, as reported by the Tab. 'This is very suspicious, especially when you see that your partner withdraws a lot of money at 4 a.m. in this area, and the account is a shared one.' Bottom line: If your joint account suddenly starts hemorrhaging $20s in the wee hours, it might be time for a serious talk. And while money might be the most obvious tell, it's not the only household item that can turn snitch. As The Post previously reported, one woman discovered her husband's alleged infidelity thanks to a very unlikely source — their digital scale. In a now-viral Reddit post, a wife using the handle throw-Doubt303 claimed she uncovered late-night weigh-ins on their shared scale — while she was out of town and her husband was supposedly home alone. 'I checked the digital scale's memory out of curiosity and it showed two 'unassigned' weigh-ins at exactly 120 lbs, logged at 12:25 a.m. and 12:26 a.m. back-to-back,' she wrote. 'For context, I do not weigh 120 lbs, and I was not there on that date, just my husband.' Redditors didn't mince words. 'Pro tip — don't tell him you know there was a female there. Get in touch with attorneys to make a game plan,' one advised. 'This is two back-to-back weights. This is pretty simple. He has moved on and is already hooking up with other women. No need to overthink this,' another said. One commenter praised the find: 'This is expert-level sleuthing. Men underestimate our level of intuition. When you confront him, he'll probably try to paint you as crazy or paranoid. You're not.' In other words: If you're looking for clues, don't just follow the money — follow the pounds. Solve the daily Crossword
New York Post
07-08-2025
- New York Post
Experts reveal the obvious sign someone is cheating — that most people don't catch: ‘That's a bread crumb worth following'
Turns out, the way to catch a cheater might not be hidden in their texts, tucked in their DMs, or whispered on a late-night phone call. It could be sitting right there on their bank statement. Forget lipstick on the collar — suspicious ATM withdrawals might be the real smoking gun. 'We're basically a cashless society these days, so if your partner has always been about tap-and-go, using a credit card for reward points and suddenly starts doing ATM withdrawals – that's a bread crumb worth following,' private investigator Cassie Crofts explained on TikTok. Why? 'Cash doesn't leave a trail,' Crofts said. 'If they go to a restaurant and spend $200, you can be pretty sure they weren't dining solo. But $200 cash withdrawal? You've got no idea what happened.' Brothel manager Catherine De Noire says the location — and the timing — of those withdrawals can be even more damning. 'The first thing is that a lot of guys don't carry enough cash. So then they go and withdraw money from an ATM, which is usually somewhere near the brothel or inside the brothel,' she said on Instagram, as reported by The Tab. Never mind lipstick on the collar — a shady ATM slip might be the real telltale sign of cheating, experts warn. Prostock-studio – 'This is very suspicious, especially when you see that your partner withdraws a lot of money at 4 am in the morning in this area, and the account is a shared one.' Bottom line: If your joint account suddenly starts hemorrhaging twenties in the wee hours, it might be time for a serious talk. If your shared account's dropping twenties in the dead of night, consider that a blinking red flag. Prostock-studio – And while money might be the most obvious tell, it's not the only household item that can turn snitch. As The Post previously reported, one woman discovered her husband's alleged infidelity thanks to a very unlikely source — their digital scale. In a now-viral Reddit post, a wife using the handle u/throw-Doubt303 claimed she uncovered late-night weigh-ins on their shared scale — while she was out of town and her husband was supposedly home alone. 'I checked the digital scale's memory out of curiosity and it showed two 'unassigned' weigh-ins at exactly 120 lbs, logged at 12:25 a.m. and 12:26 a.m. back-to-back,' she wrote. 'For context, I do not weigh 120 lbs, and I was not there on that date, just my husband.' 'The goal was to work on ourselves to help build a better foundation and we agreed not to see other people,' she added in the comments. Redditors didn't mince words. 'Pro tip — don't tell him you know there was a female there. Get in touch with attorneys to make a game plan,' one advised. 'This is two back-to-back weights. This is pretty simple. He has moved on and is already hooking up with other women. No need to overthink this,' another said. One commenter praised the find: 'This is expert-level sleuthing. Men underestimate our level of intuition. When you confront him, he'll probably try to paint you as crazy or paranoid. You're not.' In other words: if you're looking for clues, don't just follow the money — follow the ounces.
Yahoo
02-03-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Private investigator shares one app you should check if you think partner is cheating
A private investigator has sparked conversation online by revealing a little-known iPhone trick that some people use to conceal their extramarital encounters. Cassie Crofts, of Venus Investigations, highlighted on the company's TikTok page how the Apple Notes app is increasingly being used by cheaters to covertly communicate without leaving obvious evidence. "I am a private investigator and this is the iPhone hack that cheaters are obsessed with," the Australian revealed in her post, instructing how under-the-radar communication can be achieved using one of the app's functions. READ MORE: 'Once in a lifetime' archaeology find as 4,000-year-old 'second Stonehenge' unearthed in 'extraordinary' find READ MORE: The moment Zelenskyy received standing ovation after Trump White House showdown Typically utilised for daily tasks such as keeping shopping lists or writing down quick memos, the Notes app also allows users to share notes with one another, an aspect Cassie pointed out is being exploited for secret messages. This feature enables multiple individuals to jointly edit a note, often without any visible record of changes having been made, allowing for texts to be shared, minimising the risk of them being found by a partner. "If you've got an iPhone, you can create a shared note with someone else, put notes in there to each other, delete them when you're done; you can even put a password on it so no one else can access it," she described. Cassie has warned people to be more vigilant after revealing that cheating partners could be using the Notes app on their phones to communicate with their lovers. "Think about it: a suspicious partner is probably going to check your text messages, maybe even hop on Messenger, but are they really going to remember to check the Notes app?" she said. The video has been viewed more than 129,000 times and has sparked a discussion among users. One person shared: "My ex husband was having an affair and messaging through the games app Words with Friends." Another thanked Cassie for exposing this loophole, saying: "Such a shame you've given them ideas but also helping us gals out at the same time."
