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Yahoo
08-08-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
More couples are using AI to write their wedding vows. They just might not admit it.
"It's still my feelings and my words and my thoughts." Last month, Evy and Bijan got married in front of 140 of their nearest and dearest. To give the ceremony a more sentimental touch, the couple came up with their own vows. 'Everyone loved our vows and mentioned that it was their favorite part of the wedding,' Evy, who asked to keep her last name private, tells Yahoo. Guests could never have guessed that ChatGPT helped write them. 'We use ChatGPT for everything. We're both pro-AI, if you will,' the newlywed says about using the popular AI chatbot. But it wasn't until a week before the wedding that they decided to use ChatGPT to write their deepest declarations of love and commitment to each other. The idea came to them when they were working on a different part of the ceremony with Evy's brother, who served as the wedding officiant. 'We were writing out the statements that he'd read as the officiant, and I was like, 'Let's go to ChatGPT. We have some ideas, but let's see what it has to say,'' she recalls. 'In that process, I thought, I'm probably going to use it to write my vows, and I think that gave my fiancé the green light to do the same.' She says she and Bijan were on the same page about turning to AI and felt confident that it wouldn't take away from the authenticity of their vows. Not everybody feels that way. It's a divisive topic, according to a 2025 survey by the wedding planning website Zola, which found that couples were pretty evenly split over whether or not to get inspiration from AI when writing vows (51% are OK with it, 49% aren't). The reality is that many are doing it anyway, whether they'd admit to it or not. AI now pronounce you husband and wife The role of AI in wedding events and planning has become prominent. Zola reports that 90% of newly married couples are open to using it to manage budgets, find wedding inspiration and create schedules, and 74% are happy to use AI to help craft wedding toasts and speeches. Meanwhile, the 2025 Global Wedding Market Report by Think Splendid, a wedding consulting firm, states that 38% of those surveyed used AI tools for speeches and their own vows. Steven Greitzer, the founder and CEO of Provenance, a company that's designed to help couples, officiants, guests and wedding planners create scripts and speeches with AI, attests to its popularity. The service's Vow Builder tool uses specific prompts to get personalized information about a couple's relationship and turn those responses into vows. Greitzer emphasizes that the process is only possible with human input. 'It is entirely using what you give us, using your truth, your personality and your personal stories,' he tells Yahoo. Using AI tools can make vows feel more polished and less stressful, Greitzer adds. 'Speech writing is a very technical task; it's a skill set,' he notes. 'So if we can help with the technical elements of writing while still helping to make sure that the love that you wish to convey comes out more articulately, then what a gift to give. Even if you are a practiced public speaker or writer, this is still a daunting and intimidating moment — perhaps the most important speech you ever deliver in your life — that you really want to nail.' The words can then be edited, revised and further personalized as needed. That's what Evy did with the suggestions ChatGPT provided her. 'I had been taking notes whenever I had a thought about my partner. I plugged that into ChatGPT, with prompts [we] came up with,' she says. 'It was just being corny at first, and I wanted it to feel more real.' She asked the bot to show her different options for tone and gravitated toward the version that was reflective and poetic. 'I still did a good amount of editing after. ChatGPT is never perfect, and it's not a substitute for what is from my heart, but I love that it can come back with a more cohesive version of what I had written,' says Evy. 'I didn't end up using any of the versions that it gave me, but I took words and sentences of it. … I probably spent just as much time as I would writing [the vows] myself.' To tech or not to tech? Evy isn't ashamed to have used ChatGPT for her vows, though she does recognize why people might be. 'It is kind of creepy to use AI to write your vows,' she admits. 'But I'm just using the tools at hand and choosing to see the bright spots in it rather than the dystopian view, which is totally there.' Close friends and family members are aware of how AI was part of her writing process, but she didn't offer that information to everyone. 'There are sometimes prejudgments around AI and how it's used.' Conversations about AI's role in wedding speeches and vows reflect that. 'If a computer makes the words you speak at a wedding, what you're going to get is recycled clichés. You'll lose the humanity, the moments that make us feel love,' a wedding officiant told the New York Times in 2023. A recent Reddit discussion on the topic garnered similarly negative comments from users. 'Just don't do it. Something that is supposed to come from the heart and show the human condition seems horribly wrong to get spit out of some ChatGPT hole,' read one comment. 'Sickening. Think for yourselves,' wrote another user. 'The stigma is really interesting,' says Greitzer, who has heard the perspective that using this sort of assistance is cheating. 'There's still pride in feeling like you wrote this yourself, and perhaps that is a reason why people are not actively sharing [that they've used AI].' Kendra Lynece, a wedding photographer based in Grand Rapids, Mich., has seen firsthand how many people are getting an assist from AI. 'I've absolutely seen couples use ChatGPT to write their vows the day of their wedding. I'm talking literal hours before walking down the aisle,' she tells Yahoo. 'One groom typed his vows on his phone while still in sweatpants, pacing in the bridal suite hallway. A bride once asked her maid of honor to help make hers sound deep and romantic by feeding her bullet points into ChatGPT.' She doesn't see it as a bad thing. 'From my view behind the lens, it's added a fascinating modern twist to wedding prep, and even with the help of AI, those moments still feel raw, heartfelt and real,' says Lynece. Evy felt that way about her own vows. 'I was reading some of the sentences that ChatGPT was writing, trying to speak them out loud to see how they'd sound coming out of my mouth and I was crying,' she says. 'It's still my feelings and my words and my thoughts about [my husband]. They make me cry.' Her groom's own AI-assisted sentiments didn't disappoint either. 'I loved his vows. They were amazing,' she says. She adds: 'Even though they were aided by AI, [the vows] were so true to us; they came from the heart and were genuine all the same.' Solve the daily Crossword
Yahoo
08-08-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
More couples are using AI to write their wedding vows. They just might not admit it.
"It's still my feelings and my words and my thoughts." Last month, Evy and Bijan got married in front of 140 of their nearest and dearest. To give the ceremony a more sentimental touch, the couple came up with their own vows. 'Everyone loved our vows and mentioned that it was their favorite part of the wedding,' Evy, who asked to keep her last name private, tells Yahoo. Guests could never have guessed that ChatGPT helped write them. 'We use ChatGPT for everything. We're both pro-AI, if you will,' the newlywed says about using the popular AI chatbot. But it wasn't until a week before the wedding that they decided to use ChatGPT to write their deepest declarations of love and commitment to each other. The idea came to them when they were working on a different part of the ceremony with Evy's brother, who served as the wedding officiant. 'We were writing out the statements that he'd read as the officiant, and I was like, 'Let's go to ChatGPT. We have some ideas, but let's see what it has to say,'' she recalls. 'In that process, I thought, I'm probably going to use it to write my vows, and I think that gave my fiancé the green light to do the same.' She says she and Bijan were on the same page about turning to AI and felt confident that it wouldn't take away from the authenticity of their vows. Not everybody feels that way. It's a divisive topic, according to a 2025 survey by the wedding planning website Zola, which found that couples were pretty evenly split over whether or not to get inspiration from AI when writing vows (51% are OK with it, 49% aren't). The reality is that many are doing it anyway, whether they'd admit to it or not. AI now pronounce you husband and wife The role of AI in wedding events and planning has become prominent. Zola reports that 90% of newly married couples are open to using it to manage budgets, find wedding inspiration and create schedules, and 74% are happy to use AI to help craft wedding toasts and speeches. Meanwhile, the 2025 Global Wedding Market Report by Think Splendid, a wedding consulting firm, states that 38% of those surveyed used AI tools for speeches and their own vows. Steven Greitzer, the founder and CEO of Provenance, a company that's designed to help couples, officiants, guests and wedding planners create scripts and speeches with AI, attests to its popularity. The service's Vow Builder tool uses specific prompts to get personalized information about a couple's relationship and turn those responses into vows. Greitzer emphasizes that the process is only possible with human input. 'It is entirely using what you give us, using your truth, your personality and your personal stories,' he tells Yahoo. Using AI tools can make vows feel more polished and less stressful, Greitzer adds. 'Speech writing is a very technical task; it's a skill set,' he notes. 'So if we can help with the technical elements of writing while still helping to make sure that the love that you wish to convey comes out more articulately, then what a gift to give. Even if you are a practiced public speaker or writer, this is still a daunting and intimidating moment — perhaps the most important speech you ever deliver in your life — that you really want to nail.' The words can then be edited, revised and further personalized as needed. That's what Evy did with the suggestions ChatGPT provided her. 'I had been taking notes whenever I had a thought about my partner. I plugged that into ChatGPT, with prompts [we] came up with,' she says. 'It was just being corny at first, and I wanted it to feel more real.' She asked the bot to show her different options for tone and gravitated toward the version that was reflective and poetic. 'I still did a good amount of editing after. ChatGPT is never perfect, and it's not a substitute for what is from my heart, but I love that it can come back with a more cohesive version of what I had written,' says Evy. 'I didn't end up using any of the versions that it gave me, but I took words and sentences of it. … I probably spent just as much time as I would writing [the vows] myself.' To tech or not to tech? Evy isn't ashamed to have used ChatGPT for her vows, though she does recognize why people might be. 'It is kind of creepy to use AI to write your vows,' she admits. 'But I'm just using the tools at hand and choosing to see the bright spots in it rather than the dystopian view, which is totally there.' Close friends and family members are aware of how AI was part of her writing process, but she didn't offer that information to everyone. 'There are sometimes prejudgments around AI and how it's used.' Conversations about AI's role in wedding speeches and vows reflect that. 'If a computer makes the words you speak at a wedding, what you're going to get is recycled clichés. You'll lose the humanity, the moments that make us feel love,' a wedding officiant told the New York Times in 2023. A recent Reddit discussion on the topic garnered similarly negative comments from users. 'Just don't do it. Something that is supposed to come from the heart and show the human condition seems horribly wrong to get spit out of some ChatGPT hole,' read one comment. 'Sickening. Think for yourselves,' wrote another user. 'The stigma is really interesting,' says Greitzer, who has heard the perspective that using this sort of assistance is cheating. 'There's still pride in feeling like you wrote this yourself, and perhaps that is a reason why people are not actively sharing [that they've used AI].' Kendra Lynece, a wedding photographer based in Grand Rapids, Mich., has seen firsthand how many people are getting an assist from AI. 'I've absolutely seen couples use ChatGPT to write their vows the day of their wedding. I'm talking literal hours before walking down the aisle,' she tells Yahoo. 'One groom typed his vows on his phone while still in sweatpants, pacing in the bridal suite hallway. A bride once asked her maid of honor to help make hers sound deep and romantic by feeding her bullet points into ChatGPT.' She doesn't see it as a bad thing. 'From my view behind the lens, it's added a fascinating modern twist to wedding prep, and even with the help of AI, those moments still feel raw, heartfelt and real,' says Lynece. Evy felt that way about her own vows. 'I was reading some of the sentences that ChatGPT was writing, trying to speak them out loud to see how they'd sound coming out of my mouth and I was crying,' she says. 'It's still my feelings and my words and my thoughts about [my husband]. They make me cry.' Her groom's own AI-assisted sentiments didn't disappoint either. 'I loved his vows. They were amazing,' she says. She adds: 'Even though they were aided by AI, [the vows] were so true to us; they came from the heart and were genuine all the same.' Solve the daily Crossword
RTÉ News
21-05-2025
- Politics
- RTÉ News
Ecolution talks disinformation, fake news and fact vs opinion
In this episode of Ecolution, RTÉ's climate podcast for young people, we take on the scurge of disinformation. On the show your host Evy speaks to the organisations at the Voices International Festival of Journalism in Zagreb who are fighting fake news on all fronts. Plus, we talk lies and misinformation with our brain trust from 3rd class at Stepaside ETNS. Listen to the Ecolution podcast on RTÉ, Apple or Spotify now. And, watch our panel discuss disinformation and fake news on RTÉ Kids YouTube up top. Once you're online there can be a big divide between what's a fact and what is nothing but opinion. A fact is backed up by research and science. An opinion is nothing but a feeling people have about a subject. And can be informed by other people. Or by only finding your news online. People say no news is good news. But over the past year it seems we've been bombarded with news that seems confusing, scary, hard to decipher and yet impossible to ignore. Information that claims the climate crisis is a hoax. Or that having a more sustainable place to live is a conspiracy built to control people. And lots of people want to listen. Because the bigger and louder the story, the more it spreads. Disinformation is false information. Information that is not true but that is being shared as if it's a fact. And these "alternative facts" are offered to intentionally mislead people. Sometimes by people in positions of real power. The rise of deepfake videos and AI generated images that seem totally real has made the line between fact and fiction even more blurry. Children and adults alike can be caught out. And when big social media companies are removing the people they once employed to check facts, that online space becomes a place where disinformation grows. When we're trying to work out if a statement is true or false we use lots of different senses. It depends on who is saying it. Their tone of voice. How they build their sentences, and then what kind of body language they use to help them explain. And, for all of that, there's still a chance that there is more behind what people say than we can know. And, when we see something online, even more of these signals are either missing, or impossible to read. Increasingly, we get most of our information about climate and news online. The key to making sense of it is to become more Media Literate. Media literacy is all about how we consume content - from TikTok to TV, to news articles online, and how we learn to ask the right questions of ourselves when we see something that doesn't seem right.
Yahoo
11-03-2025
- General
- Yahoo
4-Year-Old Runs Across the Street by Herself. But It's What Happens Next That Goes Viral (Exclusive)
Lisa Aamot and her family first met their neighbors, Fred, 87, and Evy, 79, in March 2020. Since then, the neighbors' friendship has blossomed Recently Aamot was making pancakes but as she was getting everything out, realized she was out of syrup. Her older two kids were reading, so Sutton, her youngest, offered to go across the street to get some from the neighbors Initially, Aamot was just recording the moment because it was cute to see Sutton hit a new milestone of independence. But she didn't expect to catch Fred coming to the door, since he's usually cozy in his chair She later posted the video on TikTok, where it went viral Lisa Aamot and her family first met their neighbors, Fred, 87, and Evy, 79, in March 2020. The family's middle child, Kinley, walked up to Evy at the mailbox. Evy was holding an ice cream cone and lowered it so Kinley could lick it. "Because of the time we were in, I remember thinking, 'You can't do that, you could get sick!' " Aamot recalls exclusively to PEOPLE. "Now, I look back and laugh. It was such a tense time, and Evy was set on staying positive and being a light instead of living in fear." From that moment on, the neighbors' friendship blossomed. Fred and Evy learned what Aamot's three kids loved to snack on and kept their pantry stocked for when the kids knocked on their door. Aamot's son, Mason, would talk airplanes and Legos with Fred, while Evy and Kinley would color or bake together. "Sutton, our youngest, has known them since birth," Aamot adds. "Evy came over and held her when she was just a tiny 5 lbs. When spring came, if I needed to mow the lawn or get something done, I would send a message: 'Want to hold a baby?' While her siblings were at school, Sutton would point and cry to go see Fred and Evy." "Once she could walk, we had endless Ring camera videos of her trying to escape over to them — she never made it far," the mom adds. "Now, at 4, if you ask her, she will list them at the top when she talks about her best friends." Related: 75-Year-Old Knocked on His New Neighbors' Door to Share a Joke. Then Something Beautiful Happened (Exclusive) Recently, when there was no school, Aamot thought it would be fun to make pancakes. But as she was getting everything out, Aamot realized they were out of syrup. Her older two kids were reading and cozy, so Sutton offered to go across the street to get some. Since she is 4, Aamot said she would walk out and watch her but still let her cross alone, since they live in a very quiet neighborhood. Initially, Aamot was just recoding the moment because it was cute to see Sutton hit a new milestone of independence. But she didn't expect to catch Fred coming to the door, since he's usually cozy in his chair. "It was such a sweet moment that I teared up, so I knew I had to share it," Aamot says, noting how she later posted it to TikTok, where it went viral, amassing more than 4 million views. "I think we've gotten so used to being busy and using screens, that we've forgotten the importance of community and connection," she adds. Reading through the more than 3,500 comments, Aamot says she couldn't help but cry. She loved seeing how her video helped people remember their childhood neighbors' names. "It was so moving to be reminded of the lasting impact we can have on each other through simple acts of kindness and friendship," she says. "I think the comments that stood out the most were the ones saying that, 20 years later, they still think of that person, or the one where someone said their neighbor gave their kids Dum Dum suckers, and then, at his funeral, his family had placed 3 Dum Dums in his hands to memorialize that friendship. I recommend Kleenex if you dive into the comment section!" "I hope it reminds people to check on people. To be a good neighbor and slow down," she adds. "I think the older generations are often brushed aside and forgotten, but they have all the stories." Never miss a story — sign up for to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. Related: Couple Moved Into a New Place and Heard Loud Music Next Door. When They Knocked, Something Beautiful Happened (Exclusive) The mom also shares some advice for families looking to build connections with their neighbors, too. "Start small," she says. "Get to know them. I think especially older neighbors just want company and to not feel forgotten. Also get outside! Go on walks or grab a drink and sit on your porch and say hi as people walk by. You never know when a hello at a mailbox could turn into something so much more." "I think they have become like family," she adds. "I lost my dad a year ago and our kids were all very close to him. I think having a grandparent figure so close has helped ease their grief. They respect them, and love them, and know they are safe with them. If I need something, I know I can send my kids over and Evy probably has extra — like the syrup!" Read the original article on People
