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North Wales Live
5 days ago
- North Wales Live
More than a quarter using phones during sex and many are checking work emails
More than a quarter of people admit to using their phone during sex, according to a new survey from Sciart Marketing and Hot Octopuss. 15.2% admit to texting during sex, and 5% are answering work emails. For women, the number jumps to 8.3% using phones for work during sex. 83% of people say that tech like TVs, phones, and notifications are actively getting in the way of intimate time. In the UK, adults check their smartphones on average every 12 minutes that's about 80 times per day, spending nearly 3 hours and 30 minutes daily glued to their screens. These constant phone alerts are delivering variable dopamine hits that keep us looking even when we should be focused on each other. 'Technology should heighten pleasure, not hijack it,' said co-founder Adam Lewis at Hot Octopuss. 'Use the right device at the right moment and you redirect that dopamine reflex towards intimacy." Sexologist April Maria said: 'We're overstimulated by screens and undernourished by connection. Phones are always within reach even in bed, but rarely used to encourage deeper intimacy. We're not avoiding sex because we don't want it. We're avoiding it because we've forgotten how to be present in it'. She added: 'Our campaign Right Tech, Right Time is a wake-up call: let's stop letting devices interrupt our desire and start using them to support it. The future of pleasure isn't more distraction; it's more connection'. With up to 60% of men avoiding sex due to performance anxiety, and studies showing that sex-related anxiety affects up to 25% of men, the last thing they need is another distraction like work emails coming through their phone. Adam said: 'The Right Tech, Right Time campaign challenges consumers to rethink how and when we invite technology into the bedroom. It's not about unplugging completely, it's about plugging into the right thing at the right time'
Wales Online
5 days ago
- Wales Online
More than a quarter using phones during sex and many are checking work emails
Our community members are treated to special offers, promotions and adverts from us and our partners. You can check out at any time. More info More than a quarter of people admit to using their phone during sex, according to a new survey from Sciart Marketing and Hot Octopuss. 15.2% admit to texting during sex, and 5% are answering work emails. For women, the number jumps to 8.3% using phones for work during sex. 83% of people say that tech like TVs, phones, and notifications are actively getting in the way of intimate time. In the UK, adults check their smartphones on average every 12 minutes that's about 80 times per day, spending nearly 3 hours and 30 minutes daily glued to their screens. These constant phone alerts are delivering variable dopamine hits that keep us looking even when we should be focused on each other. 'Technology should heighten pleasure, not hijack it,' said co-founder Adam Lewis at Hot Octopuss. 'Use the right device at the right moment and you redirect that dopamine reflex towards intimacy." Sexologist April Maria said: 'We're overstimulated by screens and undernourished by connection. Phones are always within reach even in bed, but rarely used to encourage deeper intimacy. We're not avoiding sex because we don't want it. We're avoiding it because we've forgotten how to be present in it'. She added: 'Our campaign Right Tech, Right Time is a wake-up call: let's stop letting devices interrupt our desire and start using them to support it. The future of pleasure isn't more distraction; it's more connection'. With up to 60% of men avoiding sex due to performance anxiety, and studies showing that sex-related anxiety affects up to 25% of men, the last thing they need is another distraction like work emails coming through their phone. Adam said: 'The Right Tech, Right Time campaign challenges consumers to rethink how and when we invite technology into the bedroom. It's not about unplugging completely, it's about plugging into the right thing at the right time'
WIRED
19-06-2025
- Health
- WIRED
The Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo Is a Helpful Sex Toy for Pain-Free Intimacy
I've heard a decent amount about sex toy brand Hot Octopuss from my male friends, but it wasn't until the Pulse Duo arrived on my doorstep that I had my first experience with its products. I was excited to give it a try because I love penis toys that both partners can enjoy. The Pulse Duo isn't a cock ring—at least not in the traditional sense—it does help produce longer and stronger erections. More of a sleeve than a ring, the person with the penis wears the Pulse Duo while dry humping or gyrating up against a partner with the vulva. In other words, this isn't a device to be worn during penetration, nor would the size and shape allow for such a possibility. Instead, it's to be used in a way that gives both partners another avenue of sexual pleasure to explore: frottage. The inside of the Pulse Duo doesn't just contain vibrations (there are seven patterns to choose from) and texture, but there's also an oscillating plate that stimulates the frenulum of the penis. On the outside of the Pulse Duo, there's a grinding hump that exudes strong vibrations. It's here that the person with the vulva rubs their body, or more specifically their clitoris, against the Pulse Duo. In doing this, it not only arouses the person with the vulva, increasing natural lubrication in some cases, but also brings them closer to an orgasm—if that's their sexual goal. An Important Tool Courtesy of Hot Octopuss I found the Pulse Duo to be hard, uncomfortable, and not a device I'll likely use again. But while that's my personal experience, Pulse Duo is an essential sexual aid device. As someone who has many friends with vulvas who struggle to enjoy penetrative sex because of pain, the Pulse Duo offers a level of intimacy without penetration that other products don't. As much as it's not talked about or, even worse, sometimes dismissed when brought up, painful intercourse for those with vulvas isn't uncommon. According to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, as many as 75 percent of people with vulvas will have painful intercourse at some point in their lives. For some, this may be something that pops up from time to time, while others may have medical conditions that prevent them from having pain-free intercourse. It's for these people that a device like the Pulse Duo comes into play. It offers the illusion of penetrative sex, as well as the eye contact and the intimacy, while giving both partners what they need: a stimulated clitoris and a stimulated penis. Water-based lube, both on the vulva and on the Pulse Duo, intensifies this feeling for both partners. I should also point out that the remote control for Pulse Duo is excellent. It's not just easy to use but also extremely tactical, so even if you're not looking directly at it, your fingers can scope out what each of the four buttons is for.
Metro
26-05-2025
- Lifestyle
- Metro
This is the best time of day to have sex, according to your age
For some, morning sex is the ultimate way to start the day, while others might prefer a gentle afternoon session or even an evening liaison. So, is there a perfect time of the day to have sex? And do your preferences change as you age? While it's not necessarily a one-size-fits-all answer, one study found that partnered sex most often happens late at night. Early evening was reportedly the second most popular time slot, but 16% of respondents preferred an early morning masturbation session to the evening (10%), while foot sex, toy sex, virtual sex, anal and BDSM were more likely to take place in the late afternoon. Gender also comes into it, as research from Lovehoney revealed that men are generally hornier between 6am and 9am. On the other hand, women are more likely to get aroused between 11pm and 2am, with just 11% admitting to feeling frisky in the early hours. However, that doesn't necessarily mean it's the best time to do it, more that it's the most common. So, how does age impact how you get off? The average Brit might lose their v-card at the tender age of 17, but its actually your 20s that are likely to be one of the horniest eras of your life. Love reading juicy stories like this? Need some tips for how to spice things up in the bedroom? Sign up to The Hook-Up and we'll slide into your inbox every week with all the latest sex and dating stories from Metro. We can't wait for you to join us! As Mike Kocsis, hormone health expert and founder of Balance My Hormones tells Metro, your hormones are typically at their most 'robust' throughout your 20s – which is when you're at your peak fertility-wise. 'You have a higher libido, especially around ovulation, and you have more energy and emotional response to intimacy,' Mike explains. Biologically, your body is telling you to make babies (whether you want kids or not) so you might wake up raring to go – making morning the ideal time to get down and dirty. Your 20s are also an ideal time for 'exploration and spontaneity.' So April Maria, sexologist at Hot Octopuss, suggests that the best time can also be 'whenever the mood strikes.' However, if you're taking hormonal contraception like the pill, patch or vaginal ring, your hormonal cycles will typically be suppressed – and your testosterone levels will diminish, quashing your libido. If you want to up that libido, it might be time to ask a GP about alternatives. Get up the shared calendar, because your 30s are the era to embrace scheduled sex. The best time is whenever you have time. Throughout your 20s, you're often able to be spontaneous, but as your third decade dawns, you might find yourself taking on responsibilities, like small children or a high-stress job, that necessitate planning in the bedroom. These changes might also increase your stress levels – which can spell trouble hormonally. As Mike explains, the stress hormone can interfere with the production of sex hormones, increasing prolactin (which 'suppresses reproductive function') and decreasing dopamine – AKA, the pleasure hormone. It's not all bad news, though. Your 30s are home to all kinds of hormonal shifts – and in Mike's view, these can actually make your sex life 'deeper and more emotionally satisfying.' 'Sex can become less driven by hormonal spikes and more by trust, connection, and oxytocin-driven bonding,' Mike explains. 'Fluctuations in oestrogen and testosterone can make sex drive less predictable, but stronger body awareness and emotional depth can lead to more satisfaction.' In your 40s, you could find that your routines change again. Your children might have grown into teenagers – leaving the window open for morning sex as they sleep in – or work stress might've settled with experience. With that in mind, this golden era sees the return of spontaneity. Timings-wise, morning sex 'might make a comeback — or you might find weekends, lunch breaks, or those spontaneous, stolen moments suit you best', says April. Hormonally, though, when women reach menopause, typically between the ages of 45 and 55, changes can impact arousal levels. Your libido might be lower, vaginal dryness can creep in, and plummeting testosterone levels mean it might take longer to orgasm. In other words, forget the quickies of your 20s. This needn't be a bad thing, though, as these hormonal drops can mean you're 'more sensitive to what feels good and what doesn't.' As Mike shares, this could make you 'feel less willing for unfulfilling sex, encouraging better self-awareness and communication with partners.' And so, during your 40s, it becomes even more important to carve out an 'intentional, pressure-free' space for intimacy. Throughout your 50s, both oestrogen and testosterone tend to decline – but that doesn't mean that your sexuality needs to fade with it. Just like your 40s, this period presents an opportunity to be more intentional with sex – and as Mike says, 'oxytocin becomes more important than ever for intimacy.' And so, sex in your 50s is less about frequency and more about sensuality, which can include non-sexual forms of intimacy like 'cuddling, communication, and skin-to-skin contact.' Timing-wise, this decade is ideal for making the most of morning or midday intimacy, and it's all about seizing the moment your energy levels are most likely to peak. The early bird catches the worm, as they say. Throughout this period, you might experience disruptions like sleep disturbances, temperature changes, vaginal dryness, and unreliable erections – and all of these factors can impact both timing and desire. 'For some, exploring morning or midday sex, when energy is higher and the body is more rested, can feel more enjoyable and accessible,' April adds, noting that 'listening to your body and what feels right for you is essential.' Hormonally, your 60s present a golden opportunity to prioritise pleasure. Your children might have grown up and flown the nest, and as you edge closer to retirement, work worries will soon be a thing of the past. As Mike explains, in your 60s and beyond, you might find yourself in a 'phase of sexuality that's richer and more intentional than ever.' More Trending Decreasing stress levels can also lower cortisol levels – and without hormones fluctuating throughout the month, your body is able to 'stop swinging between highs and lows.' In turn, this can lead to a clearer relationship with your desire, even if the desire is quieter than it was in the past.' Largely, it's like being in your 20s again – just with a few more wrinkles. Physically, your body responds better with more time and relaxation under its belt, so April advises that afternoons and early evenings might present an apt opportunity to explore intimacy. 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