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Daily Mirror
3 days ago
- Entertainment
- Daily Mirror
Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz suffering 'identity crisis' in family feud
As Brooklyn Beckham's Instagram post sends tongues wagging, we examine the potential reasons behind the Beckham family's alleged feud, with experts offering their professional take The Beckhams have long been known as a tight-knit bunch, but in recent times, whispers of a feud have exposed supposed cracks in their picture-perfect family unit. Brooklyn Beckham, the eldest of David and Victoria Beckham's brood of four, is rumoured to have distanced himself from his famous parents in recent times, making his loyalties clear in a recent, telling Instagram post. Sharing a video of himself and wife Nicola Peltz zipping along on a motorbike, the 26-year-old photographer vowed: "My whole world x I will love you forever x I always choose you baby x you're the most amazing person i know xx me and you forever baby." Amid a backdrop of gossip and perceived slights within the House of Beckham, many have taken this message to be far more than innocent romantic sentiment. Indeed, it's believed by many that Brookyln is here signalling his allegiance to 30-year-old Nicola, above his own family. But what has gone so wrong behind closed doors? And what's the real reason behind the alleged Beckham feud? Here, experts offer their perspective. Beckham family expectations Growing up in a family with high expectations can be particularly true for "strong-willed individuals with assertive personalities", says Angela Vossen, lead sex & relationship coach and founder of Sextasy. This is especially true when, like the Beckhams, the family in question has a "high-profile, tightly knit public brand" to uphold. As noted by Angela, "tensions" in the Beckham household appear to have risen over time, while the couple seem to have railed against family traditions from the early days of their marriage. In one telling example, remarked upon by Angela, Nicola opted for a Valentino wedding dress over a Victoria Beckham design. Angela told the Mirror: "This rising tension can mean that even relatively small issues or disagreements start to be seen as bigger snubs, adding to the sense of 'us v them'. Psychologically, couples may bond tightly when they perceive external criticism or control, a phenomenon called 'reactive independence.' This is particularly true for younger couples like Brooklyn and Nicola, who are navigating their identity as a unit in the public eye. "If one partner feels their spouse is being unfairly targeted—say, through media scrutiny or family disapproval—they may double down on their allegiance, as seen in Brooklyn's Instagram post: 'I will always choose you'. This public declaration, interpreted as pointed, reflects a protective instinct, prioritising the partnership over familial harmony." Although this dynamic "can strengthen a couple's bond", Angela warns that it could see spouses risk "long-term family estrangement if not balanced carefully". Identity crisis According to Sally Baker, an accredited, award-winning senior therapist, clinical supervisor, author and speaker, couples may "feel compelled to unite against their families as they want to prove their allegiance to each other" in the face of perceived attacks. Furthermore, just three years on from their dreamy Palm Beach wedding, Brooklyn and Nicola are still figuring out who they are as a marital unit in their own right. This is, of course, a far more complicated task to navigate when your parents rank among the most iconic couples in celebrity history. Sally told us: "A newly married couple are forging their identity apart from their family of origin. They cannot entertain the idea that they might be in the wrong or have behaved badly. To consider that takes confidence in themselves as a couple. "That comes with time and experience, but until then, offspring can seem blinkered and casually unkind as they carve their own path. Thankfully, most family bonds are strong and enduring. However much pain has been inflicted, families are forgiving and patiently wait for their adult child to rejoin the fold, with or without their partner in tow." 'Loud and clear message' Teresha Young, multi-award-winning International wellness and relationship coach, advised the Mirror that the 'it's us against the world' bond is far from unusual among couples embroiled in familial dramas, especially if "there's been a sense of betrayal or some serious hurt from family in the past". As explained by Teresha: "If one partner feels let down by their family, whether in the past or right now, they might double down on protecting their relationship and turn to their partner to meet their emotional needs. "Couples who live by that 'ride or die' motto tend to be all about passion, loyalty, and the need to feel chosen and secure in their personal relationships - and when both partners share that mindset, their compatibility can really amplify this dynamic, often leading them to bump their romantic relationship up the priority list ahead of family ties in tough times." Delving into Brooklyn's recent motorbike post, which body language expert Judi James previously stated seemed "brimming with symbolism", Teresha added: "Take Brooklyn's 'I will always choose you' post as an example. It's not just a sweet reassurance for Nicola – it's also a loud and clear message for the world: 'We're in this together'. Whilst that can make their bond stronger, it might stir the pot with family, creating even bigger divides." 'Emotional survival strategy' According to EFT Couple Therapist, Thomas Westenholz, the dynamic seen between Brooklyn and Nicola could well be "an emotional survival strategy", and this is far from an unusual tactic. Thomas explained: 'When couples unite against family, it's often an emotional survival strategy, a way of saying 'I need to know you'll choose me when I feel unsafe'. From an attachment lens, this reflects a deep need for security, especially when the wider family system feels critical or rejecting. "The phrase 'I will always choose you' might sound romantic, but it can also be a signal of stress in the couple bond. When one or both partners feel emotionally threatened, they may pull together tightly, not just out of love, but out of fear of being alone in the conflict." He continued: 'Strong couple bonds don't require cutting others out, they're built on the safety of being able to turn toward each other, even when outside relationships are strained. Real security means you can hold connection and boundaries at the same time." 'Universal truth' The Mirror also heard from Chartered Psychologist and CBT Practitioner Dr. Manpreet Dhuffar-Pottiwal, who remarked that Brooklyn and Nicola's "all or nothing" rebellion "underscores a universal truth". Dr. Manpreet commented: "The Beckham-Peltz saga underscores a universal truth - lasting harmony requires families to examine their shared emotional patterns, not just blame individuals. While personalities and compatibility influence why couples unite against families, healing begins when systems replace scapegoating with curiosity about their own role in conflicts. "For the Beckhams, this might involve privately exploring their resistance to Nicola's integration, while Brooklyn and Nicola could benefit from nurturing a connection without confrontation. In British culture, where stoicism and appearances often trump emotional openness, such introspection demands courage – but it's the only path to breaking free from these deeply ingrained cycles."
Daily Record
01-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Record
David Beckham and Prince Harry's 'bitter fallout' and how Becks got ultimate revenge
David and Harry were once really good mates until one incident changed things between them. David Beckham and Prince Harry were once very good friends but things took a turn and things soon soured between them. The two were acquainted for some time but their relationship apparently fell apart after one incident in particular. In Tom Bower's book, it was claimed that Becks and Harry had fallen out when Meghan Markle made an "exclusion order" at the Invictus Games. David and Victoria Beckham both attended Harry and Meghan's wedding in 2018 alongside various other celebrities including Serena Williams, Oprah Winfrey, and George Clooney. Bower had suggested that Meghan had given the Beckhams an "exclusion order" from the 2018 Games, just five months after they tied the knot, and that the snub had led him to exact "revenge" against Prince Harry, writes The Mirror. In his book House of Beckham, he penned: "Photographs of the two together were forbidden. David Beckham was said to be puzzled as to why Harry wouldn't meet him. The exclusion order, it later transpired, was issued by Meghan. She did not want any competition in the media from Beckham, and especially not from his wife Victoria." However, David has a good friendship with Harry's brother Prince William. He was invited to Boston for the Earthshot Prize amid the 2022 World Cup. He travelled half way across the world to be there for the special event, which supports raising awareness and combatting climate change and was David's way of "getting his revenge for the Sydney snub". "Whenever the Prince of Wales sends me a message and says 'I need you to do this' or 'be there', it's always a 'yes,'" he had said, "Over the years, I've done a lot with the Prince of Wales, and I've always been there whenever he's asked me to get involved with things." David describes himself as a royalist and has been supportive of the Royal Family his whole life. He said in a recent interview: "I always get emotional talking about anything that I do with our Royal Family. I was brought up in a household that adored and loved everything that came with the Royal Family." When he was asked to represent the King's foundation, David admitted his mother cried. "She knows my grandparents would have been proud that I have played such an important role in the Royal Family and the charities that they have. Our King is an incredible man," he added. David was also there when Prince William attended the end of the London Air Ambulance Charity's 'Up Against Time' appeal to celebrate the two new helicopters. David attended in his role as ambassador of the London Air Ambulance Charity. He said: "As soon as I was asked to be involved by Prince William it was something I was very honoured to do in all honesty." He praised the "incredible work that the pilots and the medics do and the millions of lives they've saved" and he had also said it was something he had been "very proud to be invited to be part of". Join the Daily Record WhatsApp community! Get the latest news sent straight to your messages by joining our WhatsApp community today. You'll receive daily updates on breaking news as well as the top headlines across Scotland. No one will be able to see who is signed up and no one can send messages except the Daily Record team. All you have to do is click here if you're on mobile, select 'Join Community' and you're in! If you're on a desktop, simply scan the QR code above with your phone and click 'Join Community'. We also treat our community members to special offers, promotions, and adverts from us and our partners. If you don't like our community, you can check out any time you like. To leave our community click on the name at the top of your screen and choose 'exit group'. If you're curious, you can read our Privacy Notice.
Edinburgh Live
01-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Edinburgh Live
David Beckham's 'bitter fallout' with Prince Harry and how he exacted revenge
Our community members are treated to special offers, promotions and adverts from us and our partners. You can check out at any time. More info David Beckham once enjoyed a good friendship with Prince Harry, but it appears there may have been a rift between them. The two seemed close for a while until an incident caused tensions. In Tom Bower's book, it's claimed that the fallout between David Beckham and Prince Harry occurred when Meghan Markle made an "exclusion order" at the Invictus Games. Both David and his spouse Victoria were guests at Harry and Meghan's nuptials, among other celebrities like Serena Williams, Oprah Winfrey, and George Clooney. Royal expert Tom Bower suggests in his writing that Meghan issued an "exclusion order" against the Beckhams at the 2018 Games, which came just five months post-wedding, leading to David seeking "revenge" on Prince Harry. READ MORE - Prince William 'breaks tradition' after huge announcement as he prepares to be king READ MORE - Beyond Paradise fans spot touching Death in Paradise tribute in Neville scene According to Bower's 'House of Beckham', "Photographs of the two together were forbidden. David Beckham was said to be puzzled as to why Harry wouldn't meet him. The exclusion order, it later transpired, was issued by Meghan. She did not want any competition in the media from Beckham, and especially not from his wife Victoria." Nonetheless, David shares a positive relationship with Prince William, Harry's brother. His invitation to Boston for the Earthshot Prize during the 2022 World Cup demonstrated this bond, reports the Mirror. (Image: PA) (Image: Getty Images) (Image: Getty Images) Despite the travel demands, David's presence at the event, dedicated to environmental activism, was interpreted as his form of "getting his revenge for the Sydney snub". "Whenever the Prince of Wales sends me a message and says 'I need you to do this' or 'be there', it's always a 'yes,'" he had said, "Over the years, I've done a lot with the Prince of Wales, and I've always been there whenever he's asked me to get involved with things." David, who is a staunch royalist and has backed the Royal Family throughout his life, expressed strong sentiments about his involvement with them. In a heartfelt reflection during a recent interview, he conveyed: "I always get emotional talking about anything that I do with our Royal Family. I was brought up in a household that adored and loved everything that came with the Royal Family." The appointment as a representative for the King's foundation moved David profoundly, prompting tears from his mother. "She knows my grandparents would have been proud that I have played such an important role in the Royal Family and the charities that they have. Our King is an incredible man," he proudly stated. Moreover, David participated alongside Prince William at the conclusion of the London Air Ambulance Charity's 'Up Against Time' campaign, which marked the addition of two new helicopters. Serving as ambassador for the charity, David remarked: "As soon as I was asked to be involved by Prince William it was something I was very honoured to do in all honesty." He extolled the "incredible work that the pilots and the medics do and the millions of lives they've saved", also mentioning his pride in being part of such an initiative.
Daily Mirror
01-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mirror
David Beckham's bitter fallout with Prince Harry and how he exacted his revenge
David Beckham was once good friends with Prince Harry but the pair's relationship is believed to have soured soon after Harry's wedding to Meghan Markle David Beckham was once good friends with Prince Harry - but things soon soured between them. The pair had been friends for some time, it seemed, but things went wrong after one incident. It was claimed in Tom Bower's book that David Beckham and Prince Harry had fallen out when Meghan Markle made an "exclusion order" at the Invictus Games. David and his wife Victoria attended Harry and Meghan's wedding alongside a string of famous faces including Serena Williams, Oprah Winfrey, and George Clooney. It had been suggested by royal commentator Tom Bower that Meghan had given the Beckhams an "exclusion order" from the 2018 Games, just five months after they married, and that the snub had led him to exact "revenge" against Prince Harry. In his book House of Beckham, Tom Bower alleged: "Photographs of the two together were forbidden. David Beckham was said to be puzzled as to why Harry wouldn't meet him. The exclusion order, it later transpired, was issued by Meghan. She did not want any competition in the media from Beckham, and especially not from his wife Victoria." However, David has a good friendship with Prince Harry's brother Prince William. He was invited to Boston for the Earthshot Prize amid the 2022 World Cup. He travelled half way across the world to be there for the special event, which supports raising awareness and combatting climate change and was David's way of "getting his revenge for the Sydney snub". "Whenever the Prince of Wales sends me a message and says 'I need you to do this' or 'be there', it's always a 'yes,'" he had said, "Over the years, I've done a lot with the Prince of Wales, and I've always been there whenever he's asked me to get involved with things." David describes himself as a royalist and has been supportive of the Royal Family his whole life. He said in a recent interview: "I always get emotional talking about anything that I do with our Royal Family. I was brought up in a household that adored and loved everything that came with the Royal Family." When he was asked to represent the King's foundation, David admitted his mother cried. "She knows my grandparents would have been proud that I have played such an important role in the Royal Family and the charities that they have. Our King is an incredible man," he added. David was also there when Prince William attended the end of the London Air Ambulance Charity's 'Up Against Time' appeal to celebrate the two new helicopters. David attended in his role as ambassador of the London Air Ambulance Charity. He said: "As soon as I was asked to be involved by Prince William it was something I was very honoured to do in all honesty." He praised the "incredible work that the pilots and the medics do and the millions of lives they've saved" and he had also said it was something he had been "very proud to be invited to be part of".
